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    Do you guys get ever get guilt the night after you go out and party hard? Maybe the guilt is due to alcohol overindulgence, or in my case regret over something you did.
    It was nothing horrible at all, but something that's stuck in my craw all day today. My bf works at a restaurant and he and many of his co-workers went out to a diff restaurant/club. I got absolutely hammered and danced "like a stripper." Ass gyrations, boob touching, you know the whole deal. Granted, he doesn't work at some prestigous place of business but I feel embarassed. My bf said, "hey maybe we could take some dance classes together..you know, so we dance more..together." I asked him what he meant and he demonstrated what he looked like dancing, and then what I looked like. Yeah. I was in my own obliterated little world. I was the girl that some chicks look at at while dancing and probably think, trashy!
    I swear..every time I get a buzz on and go out dancing, I am like Instant Stripper. I've just realized today that this needs to stop. But why does it feel so good to dance like...a stripper outside of the club? Anyone else know what I'm talking about??
    Again, I feel embarassed, and guilty too. He's such a great guy, I don't want his co-workers talking shit behind his back about how his ex-stripper gf looked with her slutty dancing last night..
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    Do what I do................ Drink enough to black out. People tell you what you did; but whatever it was doesn't sound real. No guilt.

    Theres truth in that. for me anyway.

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    hahaahahaha!!!
    Don't tempt me..

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    Girl, I feel you. It's not even horrible things I get embaressed about. I get embaressed like, wow, I can't believe I acted that hyper, or, wow I can't believe I danced like that or, wow, I can't believe I talked that much.

    Sadly, I love my drinking and slowing down is probably not something I'll do.

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    Sometimes an image will come randomly come into the forefront of my mind and I will actually wince. But yeah, a great many nights have dissapeared into the blackout hole for me as well.

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    I got so drunk last saturday night I don't remember anything after 9pm!!! I hate when that happens so I went back to drinking beer. SOCO I love ya but you don't love me! lol
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    Um yeah... had one of those nights recently. Most of it's a black hole but the bits and pieces that have popped up make me cringe. I always hate myself after those nights.

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    I remember those night ::sighs wistfully::
    Being pregnant has me more sober then i've been since i was 13. That is kind of sad.
    As for dancing like a stripper out in public I am SOOO guilty of that. I don't know why it feels so good but it just comes naturally. I was at a friends wedding and totally had to keep reminding myself to tone it down, haha i was 5 months pregnant and sober and still dancing like a stripper. I think its just in our blood.



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    I like dancing like a stripper in public because I truly like the physical act of dancing and feeling sexy... But I like doing it in public because I'm not a) actually naked b) trying to worry about how some men see me and b) can be myself without overemohasising for a tip.

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    Its funny. after being a dancer its easy to recognize other dancers by how they dance!




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    Quote Originally Posted by Helle View Post
    overemohasising
    Eh sorry I didn't catch that?

    Anyone want to share their best? I'll go first. Went out for a night on the town while living in Madrid, Spain. Now the discotecha in question is Joy Eslava and it is downtown near Puerto del Sol. Great place built into what was a opera house. Doors are open for the 21+ crowd after 11 and theunders are out at 10:30. So I get a few drinks, rum and cokes, these come in a tom collins glass. The drinks are served with three ice cubes and filled with rum nearly to the top (to the top if you are a tipper). The coke comes in a classic bottle and you just add it. Each would be the equivalent of a triple shot and probably a higher proof too. Fucking stealth fighter. I drank a few way too fast. So I can remember being unsteady at about 1:30 and wanting to sit down. Next recollection is falling over on the metro. Seems I can party the rest of the night, collect my shit, get my coat from coat check, walk two blocks to the metro station (Sol), negotiate the killer stairs and the turnstiles, then pass out omn the train. Club closes at 5:30 and I woke up at 6 ish. Awesome.

    Cafe Americano con Churros por favor........................good times.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Helle View Post
    Girl, I feel you. It's not even horrible things I get embaressed about. I get embaressed like, wow, I can't believe I acted that hyper, or, wow I can't believe I danced like that or, wow, I can't believe I talked that much.

    Sadly, I love my drinking and slowing down is probably not something I'll do.
    I'm the same way. I wake up the next morning thinking "Oh god, I was that drunk girl I hate!" Then I go and apologise to my friends for being obnoxious, 'cause I'm insecure like that.



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    When I used to take a LOT of drugs, I had nights like that all the time. It was a big part of the reason that I stopped using drugs so heavily... I was partying 3-4 days a week, and every single time I was waking up thinking, "Oh god...... I can't fucking believe I did that."

    If I start dancing when I'm drunk, I almost always end up dancing like a slutty stripper... that's a big reason why I generally avoid dance floors like the fucking plague. To get me to even go near a dance floor in a club, I need to be drunk enough that I'm not going to remember a damn thing when I wake up.

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    I know most people can relate but still...hearing it feels good
    Us hungover fools loooove company!
    SGT, that story was hilarious! You must have seriously been hurting for some time.

    I remember a time in my early 20's when I was still stripping, I used to rent out this house on the beach and threw 3rd of July parties that were so much phucking fun. All the girls from work used to come and we'd get absolutely anhialated. I still cringe thinking about this, but one year we were so hammered that we put that that Lords of Acid song, "Show Me Your Pussy," on full blast, and were dancing and yelling the lyrics out, like the drunken bitches we were. After that, we walked onto the beach and did cartwheels and flips in skirts by the bonfires. Mind, you this was a big day of celebration for friends AND families. Moms actually came up to some of my girlfriends and reprimanded them. Soooo embarassing. And I wonder why my neighbors hated me at that place

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    Quote Originally Posted by ArmySGT. View Post
    Eh sorry I didn't catch that?

    Anyone want to share their best? I'll go first. Went out for a night on the town while living in Madrid, Spain. Now the discotecha in question is Joy Eslava and it is downtown near Puerto del Sol. Great place built into what was a opera house. Doors are open for the 21+ crowd after 11 and theunders are out at 10:30. So I get a few drinks, rum and cokes, these come in a tom collins glass. The drinks are served with three ice cubes and filled with rum nearly to the top (to the top if you are a tipper). The coke comes in a classic bottle and you just add it. Each would be the equivalent of a triple shot and probably a higher proof too. Fucking stealth fighter. I drank a few way too fast. So I can remember being unsteady at about 1:30 and wanting to sit down. Next recollection is falling over on the metro. Seems I can party the rest of the night, collect my shit, get my coat from coat check, walk two blocks to the metro station (Sol), negotiate the killer stairs and the turnstiles, then pass out omn the train. Club closes at 5:30 and I woke up at 6 ish. Awesome.

    Cafe Americano con Churros por favor........................good times.

    That sounds like my entire summer in Spain! Churros con chocolate en la madrugada en el cono del ciudad, Madrid (don't recall the place, just that its in the "location")

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