Once again, my boyfriend has made the decision to let one of his struggling friends "couch it' at our house indefinately.
He has done this without my input at least 7 times in the last year. This makes me SO FUCKING PISSED!!! Obviously he has no respect for me by doing this. Tonight, it's one of his co workers who for whatever reason ,(I'm not sure of the details), has no where to go.
Just a few weeks ago, his ex girlfriend (from WAYYYYY back... like 6 years ago), unexpectedly showed up at his place of work. basically, she just descended on us and he offered her our couch for a few days. she was having a really hard time mentally with some stuff, but damn! Why the hell could she not have picked up the phone? To make matters worse, I gernerally have to play hostess to these people that i don't even want in my house. His friend's are rarely respectful. eat our food up, don't lift a finger chore wise, and I usually end up fighting with them.
My guy thinks that i am a heartless bitch (hey, isn't there a website for us?) But I think that I am just a very private person who likes sharing her TINY residence with her boyfriend and two dogs. I am irked be fucking yond belief!!! it just sucks. He is a very generous guy and I feel as if I am genrous as well. just... selectively. God, does that sound awful or what? but I am not comfortable living like this. Plus these aren't struggling college kids. these are grown 30 somethings. to me it's a lil pathetic. I mean, come on folks. isn't it about time you are gettin your shit together?
what do you guys think?



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, but that many are just taking advantage. And the ex-gf thing is out of control. *hug*

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