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    Default Please keep our SW private!!

    Ok..I've seen SW members(no names) that have mentioned SW on other message boards a LOT lately..no wonder we've had so many damn trolls and stalkers.

    Please ladies...yes this is a public board, but most of us would like to keep it as exclusive as possible. So please please PLEASE dont mention it elsewhere...it just brings trolls and stalkers to us. And I think I speak for most of us here when I say...use the utmost discretion on who you tell about this site. We'd like to keep the douchebags to a minimum!!

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    Default Re: Please keep our SW private!!

    Word up. A lot of us also don't want friends and family stumbling across SW and recognizing us.

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    Yes, please!!
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    No doubt. All the trolls we've been getting lately are lame anyways.
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    Default Re: Please keep our SW private!!

    But the site needs to continue to grow. I think we just need to be more careful about what type of pics/information we are posting.


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    Quote Originally Posted by LoveSexMoney View Post
    But the site needs to continue to grow. I think we just need to be more careful about what type of pics/information we are posting.
    but its one thing to recommend it to someone who might like it or be able to use it. its another to randomly post it for all to see. like previously said, thats where the trolls come from.

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    Default Re: Please keep our SW private!!

    but we've had trolls since the site began. It's not going to end. Besides, doesn't the site come up as one of the top choices in search engines? SW is really no secret.


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    ^^Yeup trolls will never go away even if no one posts about SW in other places. We used to be at the top of google for "stripper" or "strippers" but not anymore. There is always some little boy or grown boy in his mothers basement that will find us no matter what.

    I do agree people need to think before they post. I guess I'm the only one who notices that in your attachments folder you can see how many times someone has downloaded your picture. All to probably use for whack material.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LoveSexMoney View Post
    but we've had trolls since the site began. It's not going to end. Besides, doesn't the site come up as one of the top choices in search engines? SW is really no secret.
    Yes, but why make it worse? Plus I've seen specific members mentioned..some opf us dont need any mo
    re stalkers. It's one thing to tell a fellow stripper you know and trust about it...its another to tell a custie or a whole message board dedicated to bashing strippers or something(strippers are smart...just check here...)

    We dont need to bring any more here. We get enough already.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LoveSexMoney View Post
    But the site needs to continue to grow. I think we just need to be more careful about what type of pics/information we are posting.
    I agree. I told a friend about the site just last night who owns an Escort Agancy, into Porn and is setting up a phone sex site as well. Knows all about strip clubs. Thinks dancers are great!

    If they are not involved or trying to break into stripping or any other realted adult industry i never tell them of this site.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cameron_keys View Post
    Yes, but why make it worse? Plus I've seen specific members mentioned..some opf us dont need any mo
    re stalkers. It's one thing to tell a fellow stripper you know and trust about it...its another to tell a custie or a whole message board dedicated to bashing strippers or something(strippers are smart...just check here...)

    We dont need to bring any more here. We get enough already.
    thats exactly my point. its one thing to have someone looking for a stripper forum, but its another entirely to suggest it, basically. some of these trolls we get would never even think to look for a stripper forum if it wasnt posted elsewhere.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pamela View Post
    If they are not involved or trying to break into stripping or any other realted adult industry i never tell them of this site.
    Exactly. One on one is one thing(that was a lot of ones!)...but posting it on another public site for all to see just invites the stalkers and trolls.

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    Default Re: Please keep our SW private!!

    I understand where you guys are coming from. But the fact of the matter is there is nothing preventing ANYBODY from this site (of how many tens of thousands of members now?) from linking to SW anywhere on the web no matter how much we implore. As a result, we should keep that in mind when we post personal pictures or information. Thats all I'm saying.

    I never post links to sw and I tell VERY FEW PEOPLE about it but I recognize that not everybody on here does the same as me.

    eta: maybe tighter controls would help curb some of the trollish behavior. For example, I've noticed that on some of the troll's sites, there is a several day waiting period before one can post after registering. Maybe it was just my adhd but after several days I lost interest in any counter-troll attack.


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    ok may i ask what catagory i fall into? i have been a member here since 2003. i dont stalk, i dont try to hit on anyone here. i do ask advice, and i do follow the ups and downs in your lives and and look upon all of you as people i actually care about.
    i dont want to have to leave this site, but if im considered a troll or stalker, i will graciously hand in my key and walk away sadly.
    in the 4 years ive watched this site, ive learned alot. and ive recieved alot of good advice, and ive had tons of laughs also.
    so i guess my question is where do i fit in? or does the little chubby guy have to go?
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    ^ why would you even ask that? do you post trollish things? if the answer is no then why would anybody call you a troll?

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    Quote Originally Posted by wasfatboy View Post
    ok may i ask what catagory i fall into? i have been a member here since 2003. i dont stalk, i dont try to hit on anyone here. i do ask advice, and i do follow the ups and downs in your lives and and look upon all of you as people i actually care about.
    i dont want to have to leave this site, but if im considered a troll or stalker, i will graciously hand in my key and walk away sadly.
    in the 4 years ive watched this site, ive learned alot. and ive recieved alot of good advice, and ive had tons of laughs also.
    so i guess my question is where do i fit in? or does the little chubby guy have to go?
    Why would you think you'd be considered a troll?

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    If I remember correctly you might have come along in the midst of a troll invasion no?

    Anyways, you're fine. Here's the definition of an internet troll - scroll down for more behaviours.
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    and isnt it great when you type stripper web on google one of the first site to discuss us is about farting! fantastic...
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    Default Re: Please keep our SW private!!

    im just having a down day, and thought maybe since i dont post alot i was considered a troll or lurker. and i really dont want you ladies to think of me that way.
    Baby's, the OTHER other white meat!

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    Default Re: Please keep our SW private!!

    Well if you dont post a lot you may be a lurker, but thats not a bad thing. You arent a troll...you are ok!

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    Quote Originally Posted by wasfatboy View Post
    im just having a down day, and thought maybe since i dont post alot i was considered a troll or lurker. and i really dont want you ladies to think of me that way.
    +1 ....I'm in the same boat with ya.....
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    Default Re: Please keep our SW private!!

    I think their primary concerns are new members who intentionally post flamebaiting topics and inflammatory responses. For regular non-industry members, keep posts to a minimum in stripping general and you are fine.


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    Default Re: Please keep our SW private!!

    I think the best way to prevent stalkers is for us reg. posters to be cognizant about what and how much we post about who we are, where we live, work, etc., posting sexy pictures or pictures with face shots, etc.

    Preventing trolls? Yeah, that's hard, but keeping SW out of other message boards could help.

    But stalkers??? It's pretty hard to stalk you if you don't give out any personal info on the net, it's hard to stalk an anonymous screen name.

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    I would suggest that you might consider before posting strippweb links to certain kinds of forum that have demonstrated an inability to interact with us or not interact with us on terms that we find appropriate. For example - car forums. I think we've had more than one of them invade us here.

    However, it is also true that I doubt most of the trolling that has come through here has not come through members here. And as for "as private as possible" - I mean not encouraging trolls is one thing - but this is site is not private. At all. Ever. If you wouldn't want your parents seeing it, you shouldn't put it up here. Members not spreading around links will have zero effect on that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by zxcire View Post
    I think the best way to prevent stalkers is for us reg. posters to be cognizant about what and how much we post about who we are, where we live, work, etc., posting sexy pictures or pictures with face shots, etc.

    Preventing trolls? Yeah, that's hard, but keeping SW out of other message boards could help.

    But stalkers??? It's pretty hard to stalk you if you don't give out any personal info on the net, it's hard to stalk an anonymous screen name.
    I'm more talking about the stalkers who come on here and PM until they are banned.....or bug up your ass on myspace until you block them.

    Its just an annoyance.

    And if we can not put it out there on public websites for everyone in the world to be like "hey..theres a stripper site? Lets go fuck with them"...ESPECIALLY not mentioning that any specific person is on here "ex: hey....go to SW and you can chat with Cameron Keys..shes on there"...NOT cool.


    We'll always have trolls...but we can do what we can to not make it 100x worse

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