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    I think I accidentally created an enemy for myself.

    Last week, I was onstage and I spotted one of my favorite regulars (producer at a TV network, coolest old dude EVER, total dapper older gentleman) sitting with another dancer. My stage set finished, she walked away from him, and I went and sat with him. He always gets dances, VIP, bottles of champagne, brings me DVDs and merchandise, we text often about OTC stuff, we laugh non-stop, we have nicknames for each other, doesn't want OTC action, and he's a pleasure to be around. Perfect regular.

    I didn't realize she had gone on one of the 4 stages, she came back as if to be like "WTF?" Mr. Awesome Regular sensed something was up, and explained he's known me forever, put his hand over mine, and she eventually left us alone. I know it probably wasn't PERFECTLY polite, but he asked me to stay. He even brought me a CD. I never hinted she should go away. He's my regular! He offered me a drink as soon as I sat down and she didn't have one - isn't that an indication I should stay? Apparently he's known her for a while too, but I didn't find that out until she was gone.

    So I went to work last night, and a similar thing happened with THREE more guys. I spoke to guy #1 and #2 by the showbar, and guy #3 by mainstage. This was the situation with everyone, honestly - I would speak to each of the guys, do some dances, and they all asked to me come back eventually. Guy #1 and #2 were practically being "babysat" by Miss Inadvertant Enemy, as soon as she walked away, they asked me to come over. One even grabbed my hand and said "She won't leave me alone! Hide me!" I didn't even know guy #3 had spoken to her earlier, but as soon as I sat down with him, she came over and asked "Aww you don't want me anymore?" WTF? Is she out to get me?

    I was called onto Showbar with Guy #2 and she sat down with him as soon as I left. He and I were joking earlier that I'm 17 and he's 22 (he has a full head of grey hair, btw). So he cracked a joke to her when I walked by "She's 17, you know!" and she snapped "No she's not. She's a liar." WHOA! I tried to be nice and said, "Yea, and he told me he's 22!" She, out of the blue, said "You're the reason I can't be Roxy. I've been Roxy for 20 years" (my stagename, I've worked there longer than her, I don't care if you're dancing into menopause)

    I don't know what to do, other than make my money and stay out of her way. I didn't mean to be rude to her, but it's not like strip club relationships are monogamous. I think she's taking it to the next level when I meant no harm.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ViolaStrings View Post
    I think I accidentally created an enemy for myself.

    Last week, I was onstage and I spotted one of my favorite regulars (producer at a TV network, coolest old dude EVER, total dapper older gentleman) sitting with another dancer. My stage set finished, she walked away from him, and I went and sat with him. He always gets dances, VIP, bottles of champagne, brings me DVDs and merchandise, we text often about OTC stuff, we laugh non-stop, we have nicknames for each other, doesn't want OTC action, and he's a pleasure to be around. Perfect regular.

    I didn't realize she had gone on one of the 4 stages, she came back as if to be like "WTF?" Mr. Awesome Regular sensed something was up, and explained he's known me forever, put his hand over mine, and she eventually left us alone. I know it probably wasn't PERFECTLY polite, but he asked me to stay. He even brought me a CD. I never hinted she should go away. He's my regular! He offered me a drink as soon as I sat down and she didn't have one - isn't that an indication I should stay? Apparently he's known her for a while too, but I didn't find that out until she was gone.

    So I went to work last night, and a similar thing happened with THREE more guys. I spoke to guy #1 and #2 by the showbar, and guy #3 by mainstage. This was the situation with everyone, honestly - I would speak to each of the guys, do some dances, and they all asked to me come back eventually. Guy #1 and #2 were practically being "babysat" by Miss Inadvertant Enemy, as soon as she walked away, they asked me to come over. One even grabbed my hand and said "She won't leave me alone! Hide me!" I didn't even know guy #3 had spoken to her earlier, but as soon as I sat down with him, she came over and asked "Aww you don't want me anymore?" WTF? Is she out to get me?

    I was called onto Showbar with Guy #2 and she sat down with him as soon as I left. He and I were joking earlier that I'm 17 and he's 22 (he has a full head of grey hair, btw). So he cracked a joke to her when I walked by "She's 17, you know!" and she snapped "No she's not. She's a liar." WHOA! I tried to be nice and said, "Yea, and he told me he's 22!" She, out of the blue, said "You're the reason I can't be Roxy. I've been Roxy for 20 years" (my stagename, I've worked there longer than her, I don't care if you're dancing into menopause)

    I don't know what to do, other than make my money and stay out of her way. I didn't mean to be rude to her, but it's not like strip club relationships are monogamous. I think she's taking it to the next level when I meant no harm.
    Excellent point. I don't think you did anything wrong perse, but the timing of meeting your regular and her stage set was a bit off. She sounds a bit bitter. It can be tough working in an environment when there is tension. Would it be possible, or even worth it, to take her aside and clear up the misunderstanding?

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    Ahhhh, it seems you have committed 2 unpardonable sins.

    1) you're more popular with the customers than she is

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    2) you have her old stage name.

    Both of which, anyone can see, are OBVIOUSLY your fault, and she is only punishing you accordingly.

    Seriously, I hate illogical people who like to cause drama. I hope she chills out on you eventually.

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    It doesn't matter where I've worked, if you get up and leave your custy for ANY reason, your custy is fair game. You'd think a 20 veteran of the biz would know that.

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    f*ck her. jealous.

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    It doesn't matter where I've worked, if you get up and leave your custy for ANY reason, your custy is fair game. You'd think a 20 veteran of the biz would know that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ViolaStrings View Post
    I was called onto Showbar with Guy #2 and she sat down with him as soon as I left. He and I were joking earlier that I'm 17 and he's 22 (he has a full head of grey hair, btw). So he cracked a joke to her when I walked by "She's 17, you know!" and she snapped "No she's not. She's a liar." WHOA! I tried to be nice and said, "Yea, and he told me he's 22!" She, out of the blue, said "You're the reason I can't be Roxy. I've been Roxy for 20 years" (my stagename, I've worked there longer than her, I don't care if you're dancing into menopause)
    bahahahahahhaha

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamazon View Post
    It doesn't matter where I've worked, if you get up and leave your custy for ANY reason, your custy is fair game. You'd think a 20 veteran of the biz would know that.
    Absolutely true. The bottom line is, the custie will spend his $$ where and on who he wants to. I wouldn't feel bad about it at all.

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    i swear to god, the more you post the more i remember why i freaking love you.

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    Hahaha, this story was hilarious, meaning the part where she kept trying to "prove her point" and get the customers, but they came to you anyway. Fuck that juvenile shit. If someone picks someone else over her, she should let it the fuck GO.

    Same goes with the damn stage name. Get over it, bitch! Are you supposed to give up your name just so this ho can have her glory??

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    if her name has been roxy for 20 years, then something is telling me then maybe she shouldn't be dancing anymore? or does she look fucking hot???

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    Quote Originally Posted by Corgan View Post
    if her name has been roxy for 20 years, then something is telling me then maybe she shouldn't be dancing anymore? or does she look fucking hot???
    She has bleach blonde hair and GREY streaked black roots.

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    she sounds kinda weird, to be honest. she's ready to snap at any moment. is there any way you can avoid the days/nights she works? it sounds like she's like 3 mins. away from a mental breakdown.

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    Just ignore her. Custy's are all fair game no matter what and we all know it. (Even if some don't like it.) I once dealt with a similar situation and it blew over after a few weeks. If it gets bad, just go to your manager.

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    Thanks guys I was scared I might have been unfair.

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    Quote Originally Posted by the_dfb View Post
    she sounds kinda weird, to be honest. she's ready to snap at any moment. is there any way you can avoid the days/nights she works? it sounds like she's like 3 mins. away from a mental breakdown.
    no way. dont change your work schedule over some crazy bitch.

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    Quote Originally Posted by britt244 View Post
    no way. dont change your work schedule over some crazy bitch.
    I agree - I'm just going to keep being nice and let her keep making an idiot out of herself.

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    I feel awful. Thie woman in this post died in a car accident this weekend.

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    Wow. I was going to comment and I read your last post. That's kind of a shock. Not your fault though. Don't feel awful, her actions aren't excused, but it's got to be weird that she's gone now.

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    Nothing you could've helped. Has nothing to do with you.

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    Wow... F*ck.. That's one of the few thing I have NO response for (even in my head). Well.. F*ck.. I hope that you're Ok.. OBVIOUSLY, you KNOW that this has nothing to do with you, hun!

    xo Take care!

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    Oh wow. Sorry to hear that, that's got to be weird.

    Back to original topic though, EVERY strip club has a Roxy. Srsly. She should've figured she'd have to change names when she changed clubs.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ViolaStrings View Post
    She has bleach blonde hair and GREY streaked black roots.
    To be honest, I pictured this bitch being a fairly young girl with a Valley Girl-esque voice. I was quite surprised when I got to the end and read the part about this girl having danced for over 20 years! For some reason, her immature behavior did not strike me as something that such a longstanding veteran of the business would do. Wow. She has some issues, and perhaps some maturity/pettiness issues too. She's actually upset over something like a name?

    Perhaps this girl is feeling bitter that her looks are starting to fade and that she's not able to make money like she used to. Perhaps she doesn't have any skills/certification/experience to get another job that pays something near a "living wage"(min wage just doesn't pay the bills), so she's stuck stripping and therefore is jealous/petty. Ugh. Not your fault at all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PhillyDancer1982 View Post
    To be honest, I pictured this bitch being a fairly young girl with a Valley Girl-esque voice. I was quite surprised when I got to the end and read the part about this girl having danced for over 20 years! For some reason, her immature behavior did not strike me as something that such a longstanding veteran of the business would do. Wow. She has some issues, and perhaps some maturity/pettiness issues too. She's actually upset over something like a name?

    Perhaps this girl is feeling bitter that her looks are starting to fade and that she's not able to make money like she used to. Perhaps she doesn't have any skills/certification/experience to get another job that pays something near a "living wage"(min wage just doesn't pay the bills), so she's stuck stripping and therefore is jealous/petty. Ugh. Not your fault at all.
    She died in a car accident this weekend with two of her seven children I feel so awful.

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    Omg. I was about to comment, and then read the replies.

    That IS awful. Obviously its not your fault but...
    Try not to be hard on yourself. The events of this past weekend had nothing to do with what happened prior.


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