don't throw the dui in her face, but let the senior partners at her work know about the affair. that way she'll get what's coming to her and she won't know the source.
don't throw the dui in her face, but let the senior partners at her work know about the affair. that way she'll get what's coming to her and she won't know the source.
It's not going to make me feel any better to ruin her or expose her to the family. I just think it's really shitty that everyone thinks of her as the golden child when in reality, she is not a nice person . AT ALL !! I've been smeared and I have done nothing but be supportive and family oriented. I've given that girl money, clothes, taken her on numerous trips and it still wasn't enough. She stole and lied and ruined my reputation with my family. Fuck ! If the little bitch came to me and said she really wanted all of that shit, I probably would have given it to her. Sucker I am. And girls, she probably has upwards of $10,00o worth of my shit. Part of the blame lies with me though. I let her get away with so much for so long.
It really sucks that my family thinks I'M crazy .....if they only knew. Sure my job isn't the norm, but I play by the rules. I don't drink and drive, bang married men or FUCKING STEAL.....
*deep breath*
thanks for listening
awww..
karma will get her if you decide not to




TwisterinAZ, are you in on the Secret Santa that Corgan set up?! That might bring a little holiday cheer to you! =D
Not yet but I was thinking about signing up. I never know if I'm going to be around.




Amen, sister.
I just got to a point where I can deal with my family again. Boundaries are VERY necessary, and I avoid talking to certain people. I think going home for the holidays this year will be lower on the drama scale because my (asshole) brother moved out of state and I'll have the baby to take the focus off of me. I could totally eat my words though and the whole thing could turn into "parental advice bonanza" where I feel like putting battery acid in the egg nog by the end of it all.
I truly think that you create your family, which can be completely different from the one you were born into. Those people you mention, twisterinAZ are NOT your family. They are relatives. And I'm sorry you are going through all that. My suggestion is to find some friends or maybe ONE relative you can find peace with and celebrate with them.
I agree Alexxa, my friends are my family. I talk to them every day. They know what is going on in my life. I see my relatives twice a year and I end up lying about what I do and who I am because they are all so judgemental and uptight. I suppose my job is out now....thanks cuz.
Could you arrange a fun evening with them, maybe have dinner and a movie and start a tradition? After many years, doing this kind of unconventional stuff became more fun to me than trying to have dinner with a bunch of judgemental, alcoholic chaos-dwellers. Eventually you won't really miss the relatives.
I signed up for Corgans gift exchange




If you have receipts, or credit card statements that are somewhat detailed (some cards describe the purchase) and especially if you have a picture of her wearing what she stole from you, then remember back to what day of the year it was, and file a police report.
She won't be getting many job offers with a theft record.
Sometimes I worry that I'm not close enough to my family, but stories like this make me glad. My cousins come over from England and down from Canada and I don't even visit them.
If you want to see your grandparents, then go visit with them. It doesn't have to be on Thanksgiving. Avoid the hated parts of your family and go visit them some other time. If they are still holding a grudge and are cold to you, then you don't have to blame yourself. Honestly I'm surprised that mature people would take one family member's side like that. Maybe they are just old and not mature.
IMy grandfather screamed at me, implied I'm a satanist and told me I've "lost it." He then completely ignored me as did my uncle at the funeral so I'm not in a huge hurry to run over to my grandparents house. I suppose I'll have to just stew in my craziness and devil worship. It's all so weird.
I mean wanting your own family to NOT STEAL from you is just totally crazy. The devil is clearly hard at work here.
Surprisingly, I did get an invite to Thanksgiving and it has caused me a tremendous amount of stress. I told my uncle and my evil theiving cousin exactly why I don't want to go. My uncle told me to stop feeling sorry for myself and it's all a series of misunderstandings and my cousin thought everything was ok simply because I had a long talk with her before the funeral to avoid any conflict while we were paying our respect to the dead.
I sent my grandparents an email explaining all of this but I am so stressed out. I got a huge cold sore and I was crying sending out emails to my "family." What should I do ? Go over there and act like I'm not tremendously hurt ? I don't know how much longer my grandma will live and I don't want to deny her one of her last holidays with all her children and grandchildren.
I can't wait for January.![]()
Go be with your grandmother. But don't spend a billion hours like people are often expected to at Thanksgiving. Dinner, game of cards/whatever...gone.
And right the fuck on for communicating your feelings to them. If they bring this shit up at dinner I would seriously just ignore it. "Pass the peas" or "My, it's been warm for late November" are great responses to family BS.![]()
That's good advice. I'm going to give myself an ulcer worrying about it.





Yeah, go be with your grandmother if she may not live long. Try to talk to her as much as you can, and ignore the rest of them, especially if they start in with the stupid shit. Arrive late, be prepared to leave early. Take no shit from any of them.
I never cared much for holidays, though they are fun if you are with a new girlfriend, lol.
You must have chaos within you to give birth to a dancing star.
Friedrich Nietzsche
Free your mind, and your ass will follow.
George Clinton
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^^^It's true, isn't it! One more reason I need a new girlfriend!
Me too. Seems like a lot of SWrs are looking for a new girlfriend. Isn't it nice to have common interests?





I wish we could have a SW Christmas party. Or New Years. Or one that lasted from Christmas to New Years, lol!
Everyone who wanted a girlfriend could find her, and we would all be suffused with a warm holiday glow. Plus the champagne...
You must have chaos within you to give birth to a dancing star.
Friedrich Nietzsche
Free your mind, and your ass will follow.
George Clinton
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Count me in for that one !![]()
Just an update here...
MY grandpa who is a man who had never apologized in his life and has only said I love you when I say it to him sent me an Ecard. That was like big hugs and it said
"I'm sorry I yelled at you. I do love you and hope to see you soon."
*sigh of relief*
MY uncle won't apologize for getting involved but has offered to pay for the shoes my cousin ruined. I told him it's not his responsibility and my cousin still hasn't returned any of my shit .
But I do feel a little better.Everyone has emailed me and seems sincere in wanting me and my mother to attend the family gathering. I'm glad I stood up for myself and let them know that it's not OK to treat anyone this way. I think we are on our way to resolution and I'm going to put up a christmas tree tomorrow.
HAPPY HOLIDAYS TO ALL MY FRIENDS AT SW.and thank you for listening
xoxxoxoxoxoxoxo
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