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    So I'm starting at a club next Sunday (hopefully) and contact is allowed. I can't say no if I want to work there because basically I will make no money as the only girl who disallows it. Does anyone have any subtle things they do to discourage contact?

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    Default Re: Discouraging contact

    Target NEW customers that have never been there and tell them it's not allowed. That's what I do and don't have a problem for the most part, the only catch is, you must work ALONE by doing VIP's not in groups. If you do a VIP in a group, do it only with girls that don't allow touching or you could say "well, some light touching is allowed like on the outer part of my legs BELOW my knees" or something like that. That's the ONLY way I've survived this business so far!

    Now, the difference is, my club technically is supposed to be a non contact dance, but girls get away with stuff all the time in VIP and even out in the open, so when a guy I'm with says to me "well, so in so is letting him touch her, blah, blah" I just come back with "well, that's soooo not allowed here and if she's caught, she'll get fired and the customer will be banned forever". Works for me everytime so far! Let me know how it works for you. You have and I mean have to have that confidence in you that touching is forbidden. You teach people how to treat you! Good luck sweetie!
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    it helps if you're much better looking than all the other girls, or of a physical type/ethnicity that is rare. the only redhead will get cut more slack by guys who want a redhead, for example.

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    One thing you could try is telling them it costs double to touch. I work at a topless bar where dances out on the floor are $10 and VIP dances are $25. They're not supposed to touch out on the floor but it happens and isn't always discouraged by the management. If they start to touch me I say something like "Ooh, we should take this to VIP". If they say no I tell them if they want to touch the dance costs double. If they point to another dancer who's being touched I tell them she's charging double. They will either stop touching or at least I'll get paid more for it. This won't help you if you're opposed to being touched all together, but it will help if you expect to be paid more for the sacrifice.

    You can also try holding their hands and dancing with their hands. All in all it will be harder to make money, and more exhausting too, in a club where guys are going in expecting contact.

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    Quote Originally Posted by shakti View Post
    One thing you could try is telling them it costs double to touch. I work at a topless bar where dances out on the floor are $10 and VIP dances are $25. They're not supposed to touch out on the floor but it happens and isn't always discouraged by the management. If they start to touch me I say something like "Ooh, we should take this to VIP". If they say no I tell them if they want to touch the dance costs double. If they point to another dancer who's being touched I tell them she's charging double.

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    Those are all very good advices but I really think it will be a lot harder for you to make money if you are working at a club like this....why don't you look for a club that suits you better? Cuz i know it is a pain in the ass when you don't make money because all your customers expect contact, and they'll say some thing like: "yes, I'd love a dance, but only if i can you"

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    Default Re: Discouraging contact

    ^^^Around here, you can't find a club that doesn't have contact...unless you drive for a few hours.

    hey NewMoon...you can still make money there with minimal contact. Just maybe not as much...but you could try selling the $10 dances...I know a girl who's been doing that lately, and many guys consider it a deal...even though it's an airdance, the low price makes them buy more.

    Also, like someone else said, target the customers who are from out of town, or don't frequently hit up the club. They'll be less aware of the standards...Good luck! If it's the one you said you might start at, I'll probably be there Sunday night.

    Just don't let any shmuck try to convince you to do something because everyone does it. The buck stops with you...it's all your decision.

    I also agree with Miabella. I have a friend who's Indian (Sikh), and she BANKS. With no contact. Because she looks so different, and exotic. I was so jealous of her, since I'm just another blonde. But that's not something that's really in our control.

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