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    Let me introduce myself, my name is Kitti Lynxxx I have been a feature entertainer for 3 1/2 years now. I'm sad to say that what i thought was going to be a fun and exciting career currently is inundated with what i see as a cancerous level of drama. I realize this post is like trying to bail out the Great Lakes with a teacup but I just feel like something needs to be said. Since starting my career I have met many people ranging from the most cruel and nasty to the sweetest and everything in between. I personally have made it a mission to TRY to avoid drama at all costs. I have managed for the past 3 1/2 years to not have as much as an argument with another member of the adult industry therefore i know it can be done. I really do not understand what positive objectives are met with petty jealousies and insecurities. If anybody out there can trully say their life/career has had a positive impact by bad mouthing someone else i would really like to hear about it because i just don't see how it is possible. Does anybody out there honestly think that by calling someone ugly it makes you more pretty or attacking someone's talent make you more talented, etc.???? If nothing else I hope this is atleast food for thought..... thank you, Kitti Lynxxx

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    Quote Originally Posted by kitti lynxxx View Post
    Does anybody out there honestly think that by calling someone ugly it makes you more pretty or attacking someone's talent make you more talented, etc.???? If nothing else I hope this is atleast food for thought..... thank you, Kitti Lynxxx
    No, we dont. Read around on the site... there are lots posts about b*tchy girls.

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    What Audrey said. The majority of the girls on this site I can safely say are anti-drama. We still have a few fans of it now and then....but cruise around the site, see for yourself.




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    Yeah drama sucks. I try my best to avoid drama at work and to just smile sweetly at the haters.


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    I take it you may be a feature who is getting shit from house girls? Haters gonna hate. It is a law of the universe. It is a device for small people with unfulfilling lives and insecurities to try to make their world a little better. That sure doesn't make it any easier to tolerate, though. I haven't figured out a way. It still bothers me a lot.

    I once got ganged up on in a dressing room because one of the top girls thought I was "Stuck up" because they didn't know anything about me and I never joined in on conversations and always just "kept to myself." Good lord! Damned if you do, damned if you don't!! Really, I was just making shitloads of money.

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    Actually i was referring to other features mostly. In my experience house girls in a club have made for my best weeks featuring as long as you show them the same respect you want. Features should remember they are coming to the house girl's club and you are merely a visitor for a few days and just b/c you are a feature you do not shit ice cream and no 1 girl will ever be every man's fantasy so working together helps everyone. i am not sure if some misunderstood my points. i was in a contest last week and won the overall champion which i was very excited about as i have never won such a large title before and before i could even begin to celebrate people began saying the title was only given to me b/c i am good friends with the host and the title was made up just to give me something not that i could of gotten this award all on my own for doing a good job. i just dont understand why people spend so much time being worried about what others are doing and feel such a need to fight because i honestly feel when we have fun and get along we all make more money. this was not an attack just a source to vent and hopefully we all could help eachother : )

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    Jealousy sucks. Losers don't want to face it may be due to their shortcomings, so it's much better for them to pin some sort of conspiracy on you. Just keep your head high and fuck the others!

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    Please tell me this isn't directed at me. I don't know who won what. It would be hard for me to talk shit about the winners since I wasn't even there, and I haven't talked to other features either.

    (If this isn't directed at me then I apologize. I'm just tired of even being thrown into the drama.)

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    Quote Originally Posted by gingerlee View Post
    Please tell me this isn't directed at me. I don't know who won what. It would be hard for me to talk shit about the winners since I wasn't even there, and I haven't talked to other features either.

    (If this isn't directed at me then I apologize. I'm just tired of even being thrown into the drama.)
    and this is supposed to be an anti drama thread...

    i'll bite. because duh, you guys knew i would. im not quite sure what the point of this WAS, but i certainly hope it wasnt to attack ginger. i mean.. do you think you came up with the idea of "hey! no more drama!" and its like some light bulb will go off in our heads? i just dont get the point of this.

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    Quote Originally Posted by britt244 View Post
    and this is supposed to be an anti drama thread...

    i'll bite. because duh, you guys knew i would. im not quite sure what the point of this WAS, but i certainly hope it wasnt to attack ginger. i mean.. do you think you came up with the idea of "hey! no more drama!" and its like some light bulb will go off in our heads? i just dont get the point of this.
    ...Sorry. I just know I'm pretty much the only American feature that hangs out here and participates on a regular basis, so if it wasn't directed at me I don't know what features it is meant to be directed to.

    Really, seriously not trying to start a giant drama issue. I just spent the past 3 weeks with more than half a dozen other features and there was no drama at all, so I know it's possible to have a great time with other features for a long period of time.

    *Grumbles and slinks away*

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    Quote Originally Posted by gingerlee View Post
    ...Sorry. I just know I'm pretty much the only American feature that hangs out here and participates on a regular basis, so if it wasn't directed at me I don't know what features it is meant to be directed to. Really, seriously not trying to start a giant drama issue.
    no no no! i totally meant that towards her, not you!! i think its funny if shes talking about being against drama and then basically starting it by saying that about you.

    when i said i didnt know the point of this, i meant the op, not your post! bah im sorry!

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    ^^It's ok. I totally read it wrong, then.

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    i feel so bad! that looks so mean if it was directed towards you.

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    britt-you crack me up. I love how you always jump to someone's defense. It's very sweet...

    From her second post, it appears that the OP had problems with people that were in the contest she was in. If Ginger wasn't there, there's no chance she was involved.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamazon View Post
    britt-you crack me up. I love how you always jump to someone's defense. It's very sweet...

    From her second post, it appears that the OP had problems with people that were in the contest she was in. If Ginger wasn't there, there's no chance she was involved.
    i dont like when people say bad things about people i like haha but i guess its good that you see it as sweet, some people see it as argumentative!

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    Quote Originally Posted by britt244 View Post
    i dont like when people say bad things about people i like haha but i guess its good that you see it as sweet, some people see it as argumentative!
    The loyalty is what's so sweet about it. What's your sign?? Leo? Sag? (not a cheesy pick-up)

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    im a leo!

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    wow!! see this is exactly how the drama begins. yes i am new to this site but i didnt think you had to have a certain number of posts or a certain subject matter to post in stripper general. no this was not posted to you ginger im not quite sure why you would think it is unless there is something you know i dont i am referring to exactly what is stated someone is talking crap about me and delusionally i thought this was a place to go to vent to other girls, get advice, and talk not be attacked. ginger's name was never referenced by me AT ALL yet for some reason i am being attacked. i never claimed that this is some new revelation of pettiness in this industry but i am quite clear now that my orginial thoughts were dead on.

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    ^^^^^^^

    I don't think anybody was attacking you.

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    i just thought i had the same right to vent or discuss things as any other on here. people said there are plenty of posts about bitchy girls on here and if it is ok for them to vent and discuss it can i not do the same? im sorry if people read into something the wrong way i just came looking for alittle help and support not to be accused of starting drama. no names were ever raised by myself but now it seems as if i was bad mouthing ginger specifically b/c people made assumptions it was referenced to her. this is how it all gets started and i do not understand it. i never had anything bad to say about anyone here and never told anyone how or what to write but i guess i must watch what i feel or say.

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    I won the feature contest at my club last week, this week, and am going on to the finals next week. Since then the dirty looks have increased (I would get them anyway but ever since last week WOW) Not to mention the bitchy comments back in the dressing room after my preformance. Whenever you are up, there always has to be people there trying to bring you down.
    Just because the "new girl" had the balls to enter the feature contest in the first place, make up my own routine, costume and props with NO experience in featuring, kick total ass and win 1st place...of course means more haters coming out of the woodwork. I wouldn't expect anything less.

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    Kitty - it just seemed like you were telling us something we already knew. In the first post you did not say you were in a contest and people talked shit or about working and the features being rude. There was no background to the rant and I personally didnt get the point of the post.

    All your first post was doing was telling us something we already knew - something that is already all over the site - that would explain why we were rude with responses. But with a little more background - as you put in your second post you will get better responses.

    Sorry for the confusion.

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    ^ exactly. that would be like making a thread about how this job gives you more freedom than a 9-5 one. or how it sucks when customers touch you. big duh..

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    Well for the record have you featured in Montana? If so I met you and absolutely loved you. You were so sweet! You had the most hilarious shows!



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    oh my god! this thread went from legit to ridiculous quickly as hell......britt why do you think she's high and mighty trying to invent the "drama free zone"?

    seems like she's just venting because her life now has a cancerous level of drama, and for 3.5 years it hadn't.

    heh we tell you to "look around the site" for girls who are anti-bitchy, then slight drama starts in yr very own thread. Wow! I love this place!

    I seriously do not see how a brand new member on here who said "features don't shit ice cream" is talking about (attacking?!?) Ginger. Unless Ginger knows this person and personally referred her here (then she prob wouldn't be talking about her right?) she prob has no idea who Ginger is. No offense Ginger and I loves ya, but you're right about being one of the few features who participates here---most of us are 'house girls' and her being new I don't think she was super aware of hurting any feature's feelings.



    Girl I gotta say I'm impressed with you for not having drama for 3.5 years. That's a long time! Some of the time is prob just excellent luck too, cuz as Dottie said, even avoiding it pisses people off.

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