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    OMG. I can't believe they just did that for no reason. This country is seriously diseased.

    I hope he heals quickly and that the attackers are brought to justice. Hopefully they'll go to prison for at least a few days and someone else will beat the everliving shit out of them.

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    OMG! OMG! how freaking horrible! WTF is wrong with people?! Oh sweet Lord that is just ugh I am so sorry!

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    I just want you to know I'm part of the big group sending healing prayers and positive thoughts your way. I hope your husband is starting to feel better and I'm so sorry this happened to you!

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    Quote Originally Posted by ViolaStrings View Post
    Andy, is he doing any better? Did they catch the guys?
    He's spent the entire weekend in excruciating pain and in bed. And no, they didn't catch them and I doubt they even tried.

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    What's causing his pain, specifically? And he's been checked out medically, yes? Is he on any pain-killers? Hope he starts feeling better.

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    Best wishes for a speedy recovery for your husband. It sickens me to hear things like this. It amazes me how people can be so cruel and it's a shame. These guys deserve a beat down, if your hubby was Bruce Lee they'd seriously re-think this beat and run game that their playing. What is wrong with some of the people in this world? It's just not fair.

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    Those bastards! I hope they did die in a firey car crash. And also, too bad your dog doesn't bite!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Will View Post
    Might be time to get one that does! Sorry to hear about that. Even men need to take some safety precautions, and few do. No matter how tough or big and bad you (think) you are, it only takes a car full of punks to kick your ass. Looks like they were just trying to be tough guys and not do him any serious harm, which is a good thing. Hope he’s feeling better. Stay safe.
    For all the talk on this site about women's safety, the truth of the statistics are that men are burdened with assault far more than women are.

    It does sound like a gang initiation or something like that. Maybe they were making one of those "kicking his ass" videos shown on the internet.

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    ANdygirl, I am so very sorry this happened to you *both*. I will be keeping your husband in my thoughts today, and for the week.

    I would like to ask your permission to post to another board that I am a member of - we have a 'white light'/prayer thread. It can be very unspecific; I was just going to post that I have a friend in Indy who needs healing light, named Andy (figured if I aimed it at that name it would get where it is going!). Is that ok with you? NO one will have any link back here, even.
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    He's spent the entire weekend in excruciating pain and in bed. And no, they didn't catch them and I doubt they even tried.
    If you believe this wasn't an isolated event, a call to some of your local press outlets might spur greater interest from law enforcement in your area; papers love a good crime victim story as it moves papers.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post

    And it wouldn't have mattered if he had a vicious dog, a gun, a knife.....anything. When you are up against 5-6 guys who are much bigger than you there is not a hell of a lot you can do to protect yourself.
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    Actually you'd be amazed what an intimidating dog can do to invoke fear in people. I had a group coming towards me(they were coming out of the woods behind my house so I'm not sure how many, but at least 3..prob more). Dont know if they were drunk or high or anything(those woods were a common teenage drinking/drugging spot)but they obviously meant harm..whether to me or robbing my home or both..who knows.

    I had one VERY protective black 100 pound German Shepherd with me...off leash(since I had a large property that he never left.

    He backed up against me ad pushed me physically towards the house. Then he walked towards the group VERY slowly growling and baring his teeth. He honestly looked like he would rip the throat out of anyone who came near....I'd never seen him look like that before. White teeth dripping with saliva against black fur was all you saw....like a horror movie dog.

    The group backed up REAL slow until they were in the woods(with my dog advancing slowly towards them...matching them step for step)..then they took off as fast as they could.

    He pranced...PRANCED back to me knowing he did good.

    Anyway.....sorry for the novel...but my point is a dog doesnt have to actually be vicious(mine was a big baby any other time) but a well trained dog who is protective and intimidating looking can do more then you think.


    Hope your man is doing a bit better by now....I'd be pestering the cops every damn day and organizing community watches and crap...esp since they suspect they've done it before and will then likely do it again. And abso-fucking-lutely call the media.


    Stay safe.

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    Poor guy man. I hope those bastards do get caught.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cameron_keys View Post
    Actually you'd be amazed what an intimidating dog can do to invoke fear in people.
    I would be worried about certain dogs and certain people none the less, because some people are still stupid enough to attack a dog as well. It prolly doesnt happen as much tho. I am glad your dog and Andys dog were not attacked!


    The group backed up REAL slow until they were in the woods(with my dog advancing slowly towards them...matching them step for step)..then they took off as fast as they could.

    He pranced...PRANCED back to me knowing he did good.
    Awwww, how cute!!!! Good Doggy!!!!




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    Geezz, I am so sorry, that's awful...

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    Quote Originally Posted by cameron_keys View Post
    I had one VERY protective black 100 pound German Shepherd with me...off leash(since I had a large property that he never left. .... He honestly looked like he would rip the throat out of anyone who came near....I'd never seen him look like that before. White teeth dripping with saliva against black fur was all you saw....like a horror movie dog.
    The only big dogs I've owned--a golden retriever and a symoyan--would have pranced up to the mob, licked hands--the hands not holding bicycle chains and tire irons--and then happily watched as they beat me to death. Then these dogs would have led the gang to the hidden house key and given a tour of the place, playfully rolling over now and again in hopes that my murders would scratch their bellies.

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    I'm so damned sorry to hear that this happened, and hope your husband is feeling better soon. My best wishes to you--and I hope they get these bastards off the streets.
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    GEEEZ! WTF is wrong with these assholes today?? They'll fucking get theirs one day, I assure you.



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    It's really up to my husband what he wants to do in terms of follow up on this. He's having a lot of difficulty dealing with it as is, I don't know if it would be a good idea to call the media or anything else. Plus, we wouldn't want our names mentioned.

    The guys attacked him in our neighborhood, but it wasn't near our house at all. I wouldn't want anyone to know where we live or be able to recognize us or our vehicles.

    Thanks for your concern. It means a lot.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    OMG. I can't believe they just did that for no reason. This country is seriously diseased.
    Nah, people just suck everywhere. The US is not even a high crime country compared to many, it's just we are so insulated - as both individuals and as a country - we lose sight of that fact.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    He's spent the entire weekend in excruciating pain and in bed.
    Just due to being generally banged up or something specific like a cracked rib or what ever? That sucks. Increase pain meds and or call docs and really let them have it he's in pain and the meds he was given are not working. Some times you have to be very loud and clear about that. Had to do it several times myself for both me and others.

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    And no, they didn't catch them and I doubt they even tried.
    Oh, they will look, but think about it, look where? Unless your hubby got a plate number or something, what can they really do? Not much, which is why the police can't protect you in most cases and will be there after the fact, to (hopefully) catch them after the crime is commited or to clean your body up and put you in a bag....remember:

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    Yea it make me upset to hear of this crime. That is so horrible. It is really sad that these ass holes. Go around trying to beat ip on good people. They are cowards, I betcha if your guy was to have each guy one on one. He would have kick all thier butts.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Deogol View Post
    For all the talk on this site about women's safety, the truth of the statistics are that men are burdened with assault far more than women are.
    100% correct, thus my comments about him as a man, etc. As I said, you can be big and bad and it only takes a car full of a-holes to screw up your entire day.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Will View Post
    Just due to being generally banged up or something specific like a cracked rib or what ever? That sucks. Increase pain meds and or call docs and really let them have it he's in pain and the meds he was given are not working. Some times you have to be very loud and clear about that. Had to do it several times myself for both me and others.
    He has a pre-existing medical condition that was exacerbated by the attack. There's not much more that can be done about it. He will just have to rest and heal and hopefully the concussions will start feeling a little better.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cameron_keys View Post
    Actually you'd be amazed what an intimidating dog can do to invoke fear in people.
    Agreed, which is why they asked "Does your dog bite?" This was a concern to them. They are called cowards for a reason: they are not looking for a fight, they are looking for the easy victim, so have a dog that is clearly protective (and a breed that can actually do it vs some yappy toy dog) and or draw a gun and make it clear you are willing and able to defend yourself*, 999 out of 1000 times they will turn tail and run, as the data shows. That one in 1000 times they don't, you will be damn happy you had the dog or a defensive weapon.

    * assuming you can't just run away, which is always your best option if possible.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    He has a pre-existing medical condition that was exacerbated by the attack. There's not much more that can be done about it. He will just have to rest and heal and hopefully the concussions will start feeling a little better.
    Has he seen an actual pain specialist? There are quite a few new meds and tactics these days being used for pain, but you have to get to the right person to get it figured out.
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