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    I got fired tonight.
    I was dancing on a satelitte stage, asked one of the 2 guys if he wanted to stick a tip in (my boobs lol). He said "in a minute", so I danced the whole set for him and at the end he wouldn't tip me, so I oooppps kicked his beer over.
    Then I get called to the office where I get reemed out for saying something to him about tipping. Apparantly it was wrong for me to expect a tip since I pay to work an all. I made the customer "uncomfortable" tipping is just a nice "xtra", ya know, on top of our generous wages .
    I said I didn't mean to kick his beer over (duh lie) and the manager says "ok well we'll watch the tape". I didn't know there was a camera on the stage. He watches it and says "you're fired because you're a fucking cunt."
    I'm so pissed right now. I know I can get my job back in 2 weeks, but do I really want to work somewhere where I get disrespected like that? A fucking cunt? Sorry but I've hardly had any interaction with this guy and he calls me that. So mad. Not to mention I'm one of the hottest girls there (not to sound full of myself, but lol) and a top earner, and ya know, girls give blow jobs, set up guys to meet them for prostitution, and let guys suck their nipples in the LD area....but I'm fire I'm a cunt. He's such a fucking asshole.
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    oh gosh, i'm so sorry honey! what an asshole!!!

    i hope you can find somewhere much nicer to work soon *hug*

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    gah! whats with girls here lately?

    you fucking kicked over a custys drink on purpose, lied about, and got fired.

    you didnt 'stand up for yourself' your a liar. yep, imo that makes you a cunt.

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    Fuck that place. Set the manager on fire (just KIDDING).

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    Quote Originally Posted by ViolaStrings View Post
    Fuck that place. Set the manager on fire (just KIDDING).
    or you could try to run him over with your car lol.

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    ^haha good one.

    seriously though, I'm sorry to hear you were fired. I can't say I wouldn't have done what you did, I'm sure I'm guilty of it at some point in the past. If I've learned anything though it's that clubs usually frown on actively soliciting tips. Just something to keep in mind at the next place or if you go back.


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    Ugh! Sorry that happened to you. Hope you find a MUCH better place to work.
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    WOW thats terrible!! NOes TaylorLila! Please, find another club to work in where you can bank$$ and get away from this negative energy. The best revenge is sucess!!!! : )

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    I would have done the same thing. And if ANYONE ever called me a cunt, no way would I ever step foot in that place again. Sorry, even if it means working min. wage, no fucking way.....

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    The last strip club (and thus manager) that called me a cunt I left and will never ever ever go back to no matter what happens in my life. On top of that I am loathe to recommend the place and tell everyone I can including patrons to not frequent that place.

    Actually, tips are a bonus. Well, around here anyway. Plus you did purposefully spill beer on the patron "just because you could" and then lied about it to the manager.

    You are both in the wrong.

    You were in the wrong in that irrespective of whether the patron tipped or not or was an asshat or not... tips are an extra... and so the guy didn't HAVE to tip you unless this is the rule at the club there (and it is enforced by the club and each and every dancer).

    I have worked in clubs where I have danced on podiums where there are people seated around it. None of them tipped yet I still had to dance.

    It's a bitch. It's part and parcel of the business.

    If you can find a better club, do so tho' as I personally wouldn't tolerate working at such a club unless the money was super duper really great.


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    bottom line is that, no matter how hot you are, club management doesn't make money off your stage tips. They do however make money off other girls letting customers suck nipples and giving BJ's in the lap dance area. Thus, in the eyes of club management, you are replaceable.

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    Tips are a bonus? Excuse me? If I work ONLY for tips, and have to PAY to simply go to work, tips are not a bonus in my world. They are fucking required at my rack. A beer in the lap was well deserved. She's not in the wrong at all. She's doing her best to make a living and demand respect in a corrupt industry.

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    Girls who suck off/fuck/let customers otherwise molest them = customers who are happy and keep coming back and buying dances, drinks and cover

    Girls who knock over drinks on customers = customers who are not happy and no not come back, do not buy drink, do not pay covercharge.

    It's a sucky equation, but its the one most managers live by. :s
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    This is something you can learn from. I wouldn't go back to a place where the manager had called me a cunt. But, I also wouldn't have kicked over a custy's beer. Both unprofessional IMO. If women want to start being treated and respected like professionals in the business then they've got to start acting that way themselves...and once that happens, when a manager calls a dancer a cunt, we know who the real cunt is.
    I don't think I've ever typed cunt so much in one sitting.

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    What you did wrong was kick the beer over obviously instead of "accidentally" knock it over while acting soooo sorry. Master this, then learn to give custy an evil eye/hiss/whatever for good measure, while still looking oh-so innocent for the cameras and staff. Haha

    I would've done this same thing, and IF some Spineless Fucking Pussy had the nerve to call me a cunt and fire me, you can bet your ass I wouldn't set foot in that place again. No fucking way. And I'd make damn sure everyone in the building knew my name on my way out. LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by mermaidnz View Post
    gah! whats with girls here lately?

    you fucking kicked over a custys drink on purpose, lied about, and got fired.

    you didnt 'stand up for yourself' your a liar. yep, imo that makes you a cunt.
    um okay I know that was obviously not the right thing to do. but...um wow yeah I'm a fucking cunt because of it.


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    hmmm. have some nasty revenge and report that place to the police. Tell them you were a customer and saw prostitution going on... I am not giving 'good' advice, but maybe you will do yourself a favor and let them taste their own poison.

    Or you could work at a better club




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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette View Post
    What you did wrong was kick the beer over obviously instead of "accidentally" knock it over while acting soooo sorry. Master this, then learn to give custy an evil eye/hiss/whatever for good measure, while still looking oh-so innocent for the cameras and staff. Haha

    I would've done this same thing, and IF some Spineless Fucking Pussy had the nerve to call me a cunt and fire me, you can bet your ass I wouldn't set foot in that place again. No fucking way. And I'd make damn sure everyone in the building knew my name on my way out. LOL

    If you're one of the hottest chics in the club you can work anywhere else. Move along and don't look back.
    lol Thats what I meant to do but I guess I sucked at it.

    It sucks because the next closest club is an hour and a half away, but I think the extra half hour might be worth it to not have to go kiss somebodies ass that was such a dink to me.


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    Quote Originally Posted by GoldCoastGirl View Post
    Actually, tips are a bonus. Well, around here anyway. Plus you did purposefully spill beer on the patron "just because you could" and then lied about it to the manager.

    You are both in the wrong.

    You were in the wrong in that irrespective of whether the patron tipped or not or was an asshat or not... tips are an extra... and so the guy didn't HAVE to tip you unless this is the rule at the club there (and it is enforced by the club and each and every dancer).

    I have worked in clubs where I have danced on podiums where there are people seated around it. None of them tipped yet I still had to dance.

    It's a bitch. It's part and parcel of the business.

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    Oh yeah I know. There have been so many guys like that lately here that I think I just snapped. Its one thing to not tip, its another to act like youre going to so I dance for you just as well as I would for a tipper, an then say "oh em gee maybe next time", not that that makes it right.
    It's also one thing to get fired for it, and a totally different thing to be called a cunt by a manager. It's not like I was a problem employee either, I've never been in trouble or spoken to for anything.
    But this is the same manager that called my friend a "fucking drunk" and has said many other not nice things to other girls.


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    You are not a cunt. A cunt is someone who sits at a MOTHERFUCKING TIP RACK, AND DOESN'T TIP. IT'S A BUSINESS, IT AIN'T UNICEF!!!!!!!!! (woohoo Joe Dirt!)

    Also, I can't believe your fucking manager called you names like that, someone whose rules you abide by and instead of him paying you, YOU are paying HIM. Fucker. I can't believe the nerves of these MF managers.....have a little respect for the women who fucking fill your wallets.

    Now that said, I think you may have handled the situation wrong. Don't get so frustrated next time. It would have been better to tell them in a no-BS voice "Look, this is the tip rack. If you don't want to tip me, then sit in (seat over there). If you want to sit here, the rules are you have to tip." If he would have given you further attitude, THEN maybe the beer-spilling would have been more appropriate.

    Fuck that dumbass place. Try out the other place and see if you like it.

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    um okay I know that was obviously not the right thing to do. but...um wow yeah I'm a fucking cunt because of it.

    a liar is a cunt. personally, i value honesty up there, and someone that lies is a cunt to me. so yep, tbh, in that situation, id consider you a cunt. regardless of what these clique sw girls think. a liar is a cunt. i dont rate them.

    if that makes me a bitch,well, so be it.

    imo, you deserved to be fired on the grounds of lying. you didnt deserve to be repramanded on not going topless tho-unless that was in your contract (its in mine, if we didnt do it, id expect to be fired on that alone)

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    Your manager probably fired you for lying to his face. Can you blame him? But, IMO, he was out of line when he called you a fucking cunt.

    And tips are a bonus? Do you get paid an hourly wage where you work?

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    OMG!!! I am so sorry to hear this
    Can't believe what happened - I hope you called the manager a fucking prick back!!!
    Management is quite brutal at times but that is no excuse to call anyone a cunt!!! Very unprofessional.
    If you do end up going somewhere else keep me updated. I do hope things all work out for you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mermaidnz View Post
    a liar is a cunt. personally, i value honesty up there, and someone that lies is a cunt to me. so yep, tbh, in that situation, id consider you a cunt. regardless of what these clique sw girls think. a liar is a cunt. i dont rate them.

    if that makes me a bitch,well, so be it.

    imo, you deserved to be fired on the grounds of lying. you didnt deserve to be repramanded on not going topless tho-unless that was in your contract (its in mine, if we didnt do it, id expect to be fired on that alone)
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    I'm sorry, but there was absolutely no justification for calling her a cunt. None. Yeah, she could have handled it better, but the industry is getting harder and men are getting cheaper and more disrespectful, especially the managers. Everyone has their breaking point, and Taylorlila had hers.

    Don't go back to that club. Ever.
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