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    Default Not sure if this si the right place to bitch about this but it's about the body...

    So I've had this reg for a while who spends very very well, and was so nice at first, but now he makes slightly degrading comments about my body all the time. He never used to do this before. Like I've been sick all week after having food poisoning or possibly stomach flu at the begining of the week and can still only eat bread and broth so I've lost a total of about 7 or 8 lbs. Well he knew this and told me I was too skinny and my ass wasn't looking as nice as it used to. He said that I went from a 10 to an 8.

    That asshole is always making comments like "you're getting too skinny girl" or "I just want to make sure you're eating" - ps I was at 115-120 and 5'5 when he says this bullshit. He tells me sometimes that I need to start working out again because my "rear end isn't as round or high or nice as it was when we first met"- a few years ago, ok asshole I'm getting older and could my body possibly have changed that much in 3 fucking years?

    Then he says "oh I can see I've upset you" and he starts pouting like a little fucking kid! And I'm like why are you upset, and he's like "because I upset you", so he sits there with his lip all puffed out and not saying anything untill... more stupidity "I just wanted to let you know that I notice these things is all." What the fuck? I hate hate hate this guy. Other than the body comments which he disguises as concern he's just utterly annoying in general. But he pays very very well. I fucking hate this guy. I l;eft the club today feeling so ugly because of him. I fucking HATE him. I even pounded my fist on my car dashboard when I was thinking about smashing his stupid old ugly fat wrinkly face in on the way home. Ok, so I may be pmsing, but really FUCK HIM!
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    Default Re: Not sure if this si the right place to bitch about this but it's about the body..

    That's not about your body, it's about him being an asshole.



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    Default Re: Not sure if this si the right place to bitch about this but it's about the body..

    There was a guy that use to come in the club and throw money around like it wasn't nothing. I gave him a dance and laid my dress politely on his lap because there was nowhere else to put it. He threw my dress and said he wasn't a clothes hanger. He paid well too but I avoided him from then on out. It's NOT worth the mental abuse, no amount of money is. He asked me why I didn't come sit with him anymore a couple of months later and I told him it was because he was an asshole and I didn't like him. I don't think anyone had ever told him anything like that before. He was shocked.

    Next time he makes a little comment ask him, say, I'm not picky so why should you be? Tell him you are sick of his critism and he must stop if wants to continue having you entertain him.

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    Default Re: Not sure if this si the right place to bitch about this but it's about the body..

    He's rude, we all know that. Maybe he drinks too much and is stupid as well.
    Maybe because he pays very well he thinks he can treat you like this.

    What a customer says, (no matter how bad you feel about yourself right now) remember he's not and never will be a major part of your life forever!

    Anyway he's a fucktard, he pays you and runs his mouth...stupid. Seriously if he did not like one thing about you, he would not buy dances from you anymore!

    Yea, he's a dumbfuck. Don't let him get to you. He's a passing customer who one day will be gone out of your life. Get his money, and laugh at his comments!

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    Default Re: Not sure if this si the right place to bitch about this but it's about the body..

    What a douche! I personally think you are still a 10. (you definitely were when I saw you!)

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    Default Re: Not sure if this si the right place to bitch about this but it's about the body..

    Don't take this seriously. You are just there to make money. I have an asshole customer that does this. He also gives me random gifts, movies, etc. I can't remember the exact comment he made, but it go me to thinking, and I DO read his books, as he is a good regular, and I do like to "figure out" to an extent a customer's way of thinking. Anyway, the theory behind this may be- the more annoying, the more you may remember them. Some like the relationship aspect of pissing a woman off and then making up for it, or perhaps knowing he can control you. Although we may see many men, for guys, they only see you. I keep my regulars as it is guaranteed money, although some are soo annoying.

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    Default Re: Not sure if this si the right place to bitch about this but it's about the body..

    I am sorry that you're upset, but if it makes ya feel any better I don't think he meant any harm. It sounds like this is just his way of trying to encourage you to gain weight. He thinks its unhealthy that you have lost so much weight in a very short period of time. He's giving you a hard time because he actually cares about you. He's not very tactful but he's coming from a good place... so maybe save the anger for the REAL assholes.

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    Default Re: Not sure if this si the right place to bitch about this but it's about the body..

    Fuck him lol. Sometimes people make comments to make you feel small because they are intimidated by you and want to knock you down. Keep taking his money and don't let him get you upset
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    Default Re: Not sure if this si the right place to bitch about this but it's about the body..

    You say he spends well, but is it good enough to make you put up with him being such a dick? Men sometimes don't know how personal we take their comments about our bodies. I would tell you to shrug it off, but I know it's not that easy to do. Be confident no matter what. Tell him your body is great and he should be so happy to get attention from any girl as hot as you.

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    Default Re: Not sure if this si the right place to bitch about this but it's about the body..

    Geez, a pain in the ass for sure! As hard as it may be, let the crap roll off your back. He's going home alone and dedicated to being a loser. You are going home with his money and a group of people who love and like you for yourself.

    By the way, is this asshat's name David? He sounds familiar.




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    Default Re: Not sure if this si the right place to bitch about this but it's about the body..

    ^^^ Nope, his names Alex. You ladies are all so sweet. Thanks for helping me to put things into perspective. I was feeling pretty crummy after that asshole said those things to me.
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