hey guys
i made a post a few weeks ago regarding me and my gf..
i kind of broke up with her out of anger, and ive been trying to get back with her ever since..
anyways lets fast forward to now..
i got fired from my job 2 weeks ago because i havent been focusing on work (because all my focus and attention was on the GF and getting the relationship to work)
2 weeks ago, i was also involved in a car accident, where i spun my car 6 times on the highway, hit the wall twice, and managed not to hit anyone else, and i wasnt hurt, and my car is already fixed.
i text her saying i got into an accident , and she TEXTED me back (not called), saying "are you ok"...
she then called me the following morning. ERGH
during that time, she was diagnosed with a life long disease that requires her to take a bunch of pills everyday... after thinking about the consequences of all this, i STILL wanted to be with her..
anyway, we made plans to go to my friends birthday party, and when we got there, there was a problem, and she couldnt get in...
long story short, we ended up just chilling at her place, watching tv and spooning..
then some shit went down with her step sister, she got drunk, and got into a fight with her ex bf and got hit in the head with a bottle..
her parents, herself, and i went to see her, and i ended up in the middle of a fight between her dad and some drunk punk..
anyways, long story short i helped them, and the pops thanked me, and everything was ok ..
that night, before i left, SHE kissed me on the lips instead of on the cheek like she did before...
the FOLLOWING DAY, i came over just to chill, and she wouldnt kiss me on my lips because "i wanted it"...
then i brought up our status, and she told me not to push her, and to let things take their course.. ERGH
fast forward two days later (tuesday night), i go to see her, and i tell her
"listen, all this shit happened, i lost my job, and now i have to focus on myself, and my future. i am going to start my own business, and i want to make money so i can have a family in the next few years, and a house and all that.... i want you to be in my future"...
she said that i kept on pushing it bla bla bla ..
now keep in mind , its been almost 4 weeks since we "broke up"
BUT at the same time, she has told me she hasnt been fucking around, and that same morning, she called me , and thought she heard a woman in my apt... and there was absolutely no one there..
so i get really confused and am depressed...
SHE calls me the following day inviting me to get sushi with her.. we go, have a convo, and then she invites me to her place to watch tv... we watch tv, we're spooning, she's resting her head on my chest, and i have my hand on her ass, then i sneak my hand into her panties... and after a few minutes (didnt get to her vagina), she takes my hand away.. ok no problem...
we chill for a few more minutes, and then SHE kisses me back on the lips..
thursday comes.. she calls me kuz i offered to pick her up in the morning to go to school but she never confirmed it , so i didnt get her... we spoke for a few minutes... and i told her i was really sick that day... she recomends some anti-biotics and we dont speak for about 9 hours...
i text her that night simply saying "hey, just thinking about you"
she replies with "im covered in syrup"... (she is into baking, and was spending time with her sister)
i really feel like im being treated like gold one day, and like shit the next...
so i decided not to contact her yesterday, and to ignore her calls if she calls , yesterday, today, and tomorrow..
to let her know that she cant have me only when she wants..
so far she hasnt contacted me yesterday, she hasnt contacted me so far today, and i cant predict the future..
i wanted your ladies advice as to wtf is going on in this girls head ?
if she didnt want to be with me, why is she showing me affection one day, and getting jealous because she THINKS she hears a woman in my house, and she even told me if she saw me with another woman, it would hurt her...
what do i do to resolve this..
i want to be with her, i hoenstly feel she's my soul mate, but i dont want to be taken for granted....
ladies, HELP !!



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I believe you Dottie and you have my support 
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