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    So, I went on my third date last night with the fellow I've been talking about. He came and picked me up at my house. We went to see American Gangster which was really good BTW. Afterwards we went to have a glass of wine and listen to some music. We talked quite a bit and he says he's looking for a wife. He says most of his relationships have ended up being physical and never going anywhere. He says he hasn't met anyone he has any chemistry with which is why he isn't seeing anyone now. I feel really comfortable and good when I am around him. We kissed again last night and I cut it off before too much heavy petting could occur. We discussed the messaging thing and he said it's easier for him when he's working because he has to wear a headset at work. I understand that. I told him if he wanted to see me again before the weekend I was open to that. He said okay. No phone call today though. I also noticed he is still actively on the dating website. I don't know what to think. Maybe I'm just thinking too much... Any ideas?

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    You are thinking too much. If he wants to call let him call. If you want him to call you then well he's no mind reader. Then call him and set something up for tonight. Gosh, its only been the third date. Obviously you both have some chemistry there so make it happen. Stuff doesn't happen by sitting around waiting by the phone.
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    Well, I called and got no answer so I sent him a text. I don't want to seem desperate.

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    Don't get too up in his face, and take it slow! I wouldn't call him again after this, keep the ball in his court. If he wants to see you again, he'll call.

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    Are you looking for a husband?

    I wouldn't sweat the still on the dating website thing, if you've only had three dates and haven't progressed beyond heavy petting it would be unreasonable to expect exclusivity but also I don't think it's a sign he's not interested. Good luck!

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    Default Re: So, any potential...third date?

    Ultimately, yes. I am not going to sleep with a guy for him to commit to me. I don't expect it at this point but I would like for him to call me or see me more.

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    Default Re: So, any potential...third date?

    Could go either way I guess. How do you feel about him? Like do you feel a strong attraction to him or is it just like he sort of seems like he might be what you are looking for? When I have a strong attraction to a guy I can't cut it off after some kissing, and certainly not after three dates, but that's just me.

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    I really do like him. But I still have a lot to learn about him before I can offer my complete trust.

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    Default Re: So, any potential...third date?

    sounds like it's heading in a good direction then, so I guess just see how it goes.

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    Default Re: So, any potential...third date?

    Um, a blowjob will answer literally any question imagionable.

    People don't know this?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Madcap View Post
    Um, a blowjob will answer literally any question imagionable.

    People don't know this?
    Sure, ok.

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    Default Re: So, any potential...third date?

    Greenie, try it and you'll see how many problems clear up.

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    Maybe you should try it.

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