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    This guy and I were talking about participating in some swinger activities. As I looked for local places this afternoon, I also read up on sexy resorts. I have heard that Hedonism, and other places, can be full of yucky couples and pushy guys. But this is all in my head right now anyway, considering I have no one to go with.

    So...I want to go here and stay in a jacuzzi suite. Who's coming with me???

    http://www.desirecancun.com/multimed...fotos&Title=10

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    If a cupcake was tossed at me... well, I'd only be upset if it missed my mouth

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    Desire has a very good reputation. Hedo is okay, but friends of mine who have been there say it is over rated. You can have plenty of fun if you find the right places locally.

    Just out of curiosity....are you looking for with swinging? i.e. do you just want to play with girls, do you want to actually have sex with other people (men included), etc.

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    I'll go with you Kat!

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    Wow. I'd love to do that. I'm kind of in the mood for sex with women that includes my bf, and public sex with my bf lately. Sometimes I even want to watch him do another chick Basically I just want to romp around all day, and hang out naked all day, and it would be way fun doing that with other cool ppl. I looked into a couple swinger events in NYC when I was living in Jersey and he was visiting, but we never wound up going into the city much unfortunately. (looking back there was no good reason!)

    Yea. Seriously would be great.

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    Let's have a SW gathering at a swinger's place! lol

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    Be warned... swingers tend not to be very attractive. K and I used to go to a lot of swing parties, and theoretically, we are still swingers, but it was very rare for us to meet anyone we actually wanted to have sex with. Way too many swingers are obese and middle-aged and just not very sexy.

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    they are aging hippies!!




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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    Be warned... swingers tend not to be very attractive...Way too many swingers are obese and middle-aged and just not very sexy.
    True dat, Yek!

    If you're describing the L.A.scene, you could add "...and overly inebriated."

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    Well, then the scene you guys have run into is very different than the one I am currently involved in. I go to events and parties regularly and i don't remember the last time I didn't find someone I wanted to f*ck. Not all of them were model good looking, but I had a great time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by nicole84 View Post
    I go to events and parties regularly and i don't remember the last time I didn't find someone I wanted to f*ck. Not all of them were model good looking, but I had a great time.
    Groovy!

    Kudos to the organizers N84...

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    No kidding, Nicole, good for your party planners! Where are these parties, if I may ask?

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    Lol, I'm in the DC area. The thing is, the things I go to (unless it's a house party), generally have soooo many people, you're bound to find someone you like. When I say a lot of people....I'm talking 200+ people

    So, yeah I see unattractive people, but there is something for everyone at these things, so it works out great We get folks from 21 to 60 something, from model pretty to very average, super skinny to plus size. I'd say the average age is in the 30's. Plus, being a single female, very few people will turn me down if I want to play with them

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    That's terrific. I'm glad you found that. We just need to get that to L.A. You'd think a town like L.A. would have better pickings for a swinger population.

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    Kat, I don't know about swinging, but I'm looking for a chick who will do me and my guy, and I'll rent a room with a jacuzzi tub and everything.

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    Mike and I attend a local party that over all has some really good looking people there. The average party size is about 300 people and i'd guess 90% are definitly fuckable.

    Tyr looking for local events through swappernet.com



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    Quote Originally Posted by Susan Wayward View Post
    Kat, I don't know about swinging, but I'm looking for a chick who will do me and my guy, and I'll rent a room with a jacuzzi tub and everything.
    Throw in room service and I'm sold!

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    Me and hubby have been swingers for years. We dont indulge very often though. Mostly because of me...I'm MUCH pickier then he is and its rare for us to find a cpl where I like them BOTH. Even if I'm not going to be doing anything with the chick...if she irritates me, I aint playing. I've taken one for the team a cpl times and decided it wasnt worth it....so I dont anymore. Which means our playing got cut WAY back.

    And single girls that are interested in being the third in a threesome are so rare that in the lifestyle they are referred to as unicorns. Esp. if you want a bi girl for that.

    But we have met some AWESOME people that became very good friends to this day. We met a cpl for dinner last night that I believe will fall into that category. We all 4 had so much in common it was amazing..me and the other girl I think were separated at birth we are so EXACTLY alike! Every time one of us said something, the others husband would roll his eyes and say "yep....thats EXACTLY somethng SHE wouls say". So we have high hopes for these people.

    The clubs and house parties we dont really do anymore unless someone we know will be there. It's likely that otherwise all that will be there are old nasty people trying to feel you up or pretentious(as people tend to be here in FL) people bragging about their car or lastest vacation or blah blah that I'll roll my eyes at.

    We have met most of the cool people we know on SDC.com. TX and FL have the most swingers of any states in the USA...so you'll have good odds. I'll Pm you our info there so you can write to them with a recommendation from a member.

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    Woo! Come to Az! There's LOTS of sexy swingers here!

    Hubby and I have been swinging since we met, we play on www.lifestylelounge.com a lot. Lots of pretty (and nice!) people on there. And there's lots of parties here, usually one a month.

    I haven't done any of the swinger resorts yet, but I really want to!




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    I have been to Hedo , PM for me for more info because I could go on and on . As far as resorts go Hedo is a 5 star and really worth PLUS who knows because when I was there it was the miss nude showgirl pageant and there just happened to be guys from the Patriots and the Yankees ......porn stars too .....it was a good for week to go I guess .
    Visit me on myspace , Let me know if your from SW !!!!

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    I wish I had a cool boyfriend that was down for this kind of thing. My ex wouldn't do it. He was cool with me fucking girls though, even if he wasn't around. The guy I went out with last night stated the same.

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    Cameron... unicorn LOL! No kididng right? The elusive Single Bi-Female.
    My guy and I never take one for the team. Fuck that shit.

    ExoticEngineer... We've met folks through there too. It's a nice site.



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    Sirona, the funniest part about tht site is how many people I run into at work, dancers and customers!

    I was walking through the club one night and this guy walks past me and says "LL, nice to see you!" I stopped in my tracks and he jsut kept on walking!

    Then one night I was working and another dancer turns to me and says "Okay, I hope you don't think this is rude, but I know you, I've seen you naked, it was at aprty and you were on the pool table with some other people. That was YOU right?" I died.




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    I run into that sometimes too. I'm on a site called altplayground.net (best site for the dc/md/va/pa area as far as i am concerned )...and I get a fair number of couples who come into the club and say to me "i know you from somewhere". I ask them where, and they say apg....it is so awkward sometimes, because I generally don't mention what I do until I've met a couple a few times.

    At least they usually tip well

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    Ugh, a handfull of times I had swingers come to the club who either knew me from parties or the site and act like total douchebags. Grabby, non tipping and expecting a different dance than I gave (and I give a helluva dance!). So I usually avoid them, but will go make small talk and then chat at them another time outside the club.

    It's never mixed well for me.




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    e play on www.lifestylelounge.com a lot. Lots of pretty (and nice!) people on there. And there's lots of parties here, usually one a month.
    Very true; it's a good site that's well-designed with generally attractive, active people and you're alerted to events taking place based on your region, which is a nice touch. Single bi-females are still rare, but they're out there.

    SDC.com is a bit more east-coast focused, at least in my experience.
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