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    Heh, isn't there always? Ok, this is gonna be long, so here it goes...

    I work at a very very small hole in the wall type dive bar. I love it. Everyone knows everyone, it's a nice relaxed vibe, and the money is good. Hell, it's like Cheers with boobies. I've been there about a year now.

    There's a girl that started awhile ago, that is, well, disgusting. She's loud and obnoxious, overweight, won't even take her dress off because her stretch marks and post-baby tummy are so bad, and looks like her favorite hair appliance is a fork and a light socket. Oh, and she's the club's local whore. She repeatedly leaves with customer after customer to, ya know, hang out

    Recently she asked me to cover her shift at work, an hour before she was supposed to be there. I couldn't, said no, and since then, she has been on a rampage to fuck my life up. First, it started with her ranting and raving to a dancer friend of mine, in the middle of the bar, at top volume, about what a bitch I was because I wouldn't cover her shift. And since I didn't have kids, I should fucking work for her I ignored it, didn't say a word. (I hate drama)

    Next, I listened to the SAME conversation, about what a bitch I am and such, AT MY STAGE, with her bitching to the only tipping customer in the bar. I walked over, squatted down, said "hey, if you're gonna talk shit, talk it quietly, I can hear you". She swore up and down it wasn't about me, as I got off stage, talked more shit (that I can still hear mind you, cuz the girl isn't exactly quiet). I spoke to the owner (he was managing that night) because frankly, I wasn't gonna deal with her, and normally he's pretty good about fixing things. No dice, my word against hers apparently, and I have to deal with it.

    Fast forward to last night...my big spending customer (we call him my Mexican boyfriend) comes in and says, "OH HI! You're getting married huh??? That's cool, you should have told me!!!" Uh, wtf. I lie my way out of it, I don't know what you're talking about, no I'm not, blah blah blah, who the fuck told you that? He wouldn't tell me, eventually he lied and said 'um, one of her (aforementioned dancers) friends. I know who said it, I know it was her, and I know he's lying. (I've never even met her friend, and she wouldn't have any idea I was getting married).

    Problem is, this girl has fallen under some sort of protection at the club, she's gotten in good with the owner's girlfriend, and even though she keeps fucking up, she's not getting fired. I don't wanna let a bitch run me out of my own club, especially one like her, but I can't deal with her fucking up my money all the time either. I'm kind of at a loss for what to do....help?
    I believe you Dottie and you have my support

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    Are you considering switching clubs? If you're gonna stay at your current club, just keep making your money. People who suck dick to pay for their house fees are probably bitter for a reason because they probably have an overall shitty life. She's found you as a person to take it out on since you are everything she can't be. Don't let her succeed in destroying your game and making money, revenge is the best success.

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    Ignore her abuse, and always, always be polite and pleasant to her. Kill her with kindness. Eventually she'll grow bored of tormenting you and move on to her next victim.

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    Thanks ladies. I've just been ignoring her, I don't say a word to her when I have to work with her, but I just wanna smack her upside the head. It wouldn't be such a big deal to me if it were a bigger club, but since it's so small her shit talking makes its rounds quick.

    Azn: I've thought about switching clubs, but I don't have many options right now. It may be an option though.

    At this point I think the only chance I have of her leaving is the fact that she got a DUI leaving work a few weeks ago, and if she's found guilty, she'll lose her dance license for 5 years.
    I believe you Dottie and you have my support

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    I'm dealing with something like this at a club I was faithful to for over a year. Some girl decided she didn't like my hair, and she happens to date the manager. (Mind you I have never even talked to the girl nor have I ever had any problems at this club) So lies after lies after more lies she told him, and the more and more I kept getting accused of stuff, I started realizing the building is the same but the club isn't. And I don't take that kind of mental abuse well, so for my own health I had to leave. Their loss. Though in your case, it sounds you're stronger than that :]

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    Quote Originally Posted by elektrafying View Post
    I'm dealing with something like this at a club I was faithful to for over a year. Some girl decided she didn't like my hair, and she happens to date the manager. (Mind you I have never even talked to the girl nor have I ever had any problems at this club) So lies after lies after more lies she told him, and the more and more I kept getting accused of stuff, I started realizing the building is the same but the club isn't. And I don't take that kind of mental abuse well, so for my own health I had to leave. Their loss. Though in your case, it sounds you're stronger than that :]
    Because she didn't like your hair? lol. What a weirdo.


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    ^^^That's funny. I girl got started with me one time because I wore wigs. "Why do you wear wigs. THat's so weird. Your real hair is better. You're weird (etc. etc.)."

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    Quote Originally Posted by sxybrat07 View Post
    Thanks ladies. I've just been ignoring her, I don't say a word to her when I have to work with her, but I just wanna smack her upside the head. It wouldn't be such a big deal to me if it were a bigger club, but since it's so small her shit talking makes its rounds quick.

    Azn: I've thought about switching clubs, but I don't have many options right now. It may be an option though.

    At this point I think the only chance I have of her leaving is the fact that she got a DUI leaving work a few weeks ago, and if she's found guilty, she'll lose her dance license for 5 years.
    Wow, u can lose you dance liscense for a dui? If it was like that where i work, we'd have no girls! Seriously, ignore her and be the bigger person, maybe even be nice. Ya know the whole thing about keeping your enemies closer.

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    ^^Yeah, any alcohol related offense yanks your ability to get any sort of bar license, bartender, dancer, etc.
    I believe you Dottie and you have my support

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    Kill her with kindness, SERIOUSLY!!!! That will make her leave you alone faster than her head could spin. Next time you go into work, walk up to her, put your arms around her neck by giving her a hug and say "Hi (insert name), it's so good to see you tonight" all while you're smiling really big and saying it in a sweet voice. I know this will work because I had a situation with a dancer at my club that was saying shit to me and about me because I became friends with a girl she didn't like (for no reason too). And from that point on, she's not even so much as looked at me! She hasn't said any snide remark, she not only won't look me in the eyes but won't look at me at all! She wants you to get mad at her and wants you to make this drama scene, when you don't, she'll get bored really quick and move on. You need to let her know that she's of no care to you and you're not going to get upset over her useless, boring life. Killing someone with kindness is by far the best revenge!
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