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    So I work at The Spearmint Rhino is Vegas and when I first started working my manager told me I should work out and I am already pretty thin.....he is crazy! So I have been starving myself and my money has went down a lot.....I think it is lack of energy and I don't think men really like bones? So stressful there but it's the best club in Vegas where you can always make money! But the most stressful and the most drama I have ever seen! I think I just need to get my ass up and start working out but I work a lot and I never feel like working out because work is already a workout! So any advice I appreciate!

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    If he told you to work out you might need to tone up - not necessarily lose weight. Stop starving yourself. That's seriously wrong.



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    That's funny, I work there too. Are you on the night shift?
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    Of course you are tired if you are not feeding yourself. You are loosing muscle. You're killing yourself by starving yourself. Get into a weight training program and just tone up a bit.
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    All good suggestions. Even thin girls can be 'fat'. Yuck, that's really a bad word for what I'm trying to say, no flaming PLEASE!

    Don't you dare stop eating, that is never the answer! Perhaps cut out junk food, try to eat healthier and definitely do some strength training to tone up. Even taking a pilates or yoga class could do the job if you put your mind to it. Good luck babe!

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    Quote Originally Posted by TigersMilk View Post
    Of course you are tired if you are not feeding yourself. You are loosing muscle. You're killing yourself by starving yourself. Get into a weight training program and just tone up a bit.
    Seconded, starvation diets make you lose much more muscle than you do fat. After having had anorexia, it took me literally years to get my body fat percentage back in the normal range, because I shed so much muscle by fasting.

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    Stop starving yourself, if you work out your body will be tone. Muscles are also great for burning fat.
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    Working does not = working out.

    Start eating healthy and get yourself to the gym already!

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    i say curvy. i guess i am technically overweight by those online bmi calculators (but i have seriously muscular legs so i dunoo if that makes any diff or not..)

    but i have to say that i think bones are unsexy. there IS a difference of being naturally thin and being anorexic babylove. eat well and work out and you will do fine again! you'll see! but yeah um.. i lubb curvy frames so i'm kind of biased...

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    ^^i agree with corgan....curvy is my preference...and prolly cuz im curvy, and love food too much to be skinny, and i also love the way curves look and i think men do too, but unfortunatley i heard the Rhino is VERY picky about having stick thin girls.
    If the you like the Rhino and the money, i say do what you have to do to stay there, but if there's drama and pressure to loose weight then im SURE you can make the same amount of money somewhere else. You just have to way your options and see whats most important.

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    Another thing is...if you are active at all, you CANNOT starve. Like, you can for a short while, but then you'll be falling over all the time. You can't work if you are fainting, so it really defeats the purpose of doing this for work.

    That said, I think most people can get down to a pretty small size sans starving. Not supermodel sizes, but fit, you know?

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    Quote Originally Posted by PrettyCurlieQ View Post
    All good suggestions. Even thin girls can be 'fat'. Yuck, that's really a bad word for what I'm trying to say, no flaming PLEASE!

    Don't you dare stop eating, that is never the answer! Perhaps cut out junk food, try to eat healthier and definitely do some strength training to tone up. Even taking a pilates or yoga class could do the job if you put your mind to it. Good luck babe!


    I know what you mean. I'm 5'3 and 125lbs. That doesn't sound "fat" but I gained it in all the wrong places. I have skinny arms, skinny legs, but a belly pooch, a ghetto booty (I don't mind that at all) bigger thighs, and no boobs! I sound really unproportional

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    Quote Originally Posted by Corgan View Post
    but i have to say that i think bones are unsexy. there IS a difference of being naturally thin and being anorexic babylove.
    Sooooo true. Some women look great and healthy very thin. Theyre built like that, its natural. Women who are not built to be skinny look very unhealthy when they get too small... Your body is built a certain way. You want to do what works WITH your body, not against it.

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    I prefer curvy and most men do, too. And I'm not just saying that because it's PC and cool to say. I like a woman who can keep you warm at night. Skinny is not attractive to me. Unfortunately, I'm pretty skinny. I severely envy curvy girls

    I'm trying to create curves with weight training rather than overeating and it's actually working pretty damn well. Maybe that's the secret. If I just overate I would still be small but kinda dumpy and blah.

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    ^^^ I like curvy girls too.... I like hips, ass and a hourglass figure. Slowly Im getting there but for years I was a stick figure. I looked like a little boy when I was 18.

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    I am skinny, but I definately like curvy girls!

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    Quote Originally Posted by PrettyCurlieQ View Post
    All good suggestions. Even thin girls can be 'fat'. Yuck, that's really a bad word for what I'm trying to say, no flaming PLEASE!
    I'm laughing because that's what happens to me! I'm pretty darn thin, just have long n lean genes, but if I don't watch it I get really poochy in the tummy. So I'm fat and skinny at the same time!

    I really love my body; I feel I'm proportional regardless of height/weight. But I love so many different body types other than mine just as much. The important thing is taking care of yourself. That means eating right and putting on enough muscle tone to keep everything tight and operational!


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    i wish women that actually try would just love thier bodies. all that matters is how you carry yourself and HOW you wear your skin (with confidence!!)

    all women are sexy as long as they try.

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    ^^^ good call. I know some much bigger (like, 1 or two plus size) women who work at my club, and they are GORGEOUS, and they can work it...

    there are some others who are curvy/voluptuous, and make it work for them as long as they know how to accentuate certain parts of their body... still others are long and lean, and hypnotize you with their motions... then their are the girls with more boyish/athletic bodies, but play up certain feminine aspects and move in very graceful ways.... a smart woman knows how to make her body, whatever "type" she is, work for her... however, actually accepting and loving it IS harder. but definitely easier if those around you exemplify how diversified female beauty can be.

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    He told you when you first started working (which sounds like ages ago) that you should work out and you've been starving yourself ever since? Don't mean to be rude, but it seems like you might have been a bit sensitive. Has he ever mentioned it again? Are you sure he didn't mean work out to keep your body? To tighten up? Not kill yourself?

    It's silly to try to kill yourself slowly because of what some strange man said to you once.


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    Sweetie, he's an idiot. You were making money the way you looked before and now you are making less...you have your answer right there.
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    I'm saying what a lot of others have already said- I don't think he asked you to workout not necessarily lose weight. I know exercise can sem daunting at fist, but there's a big difference between what exercise does and what starving does. Even if he does want you losing weight, he doesn't mean for you to look like a crackhead ('cos let's face it,t hat's what people look like when they starve, k?)

    just start small. when I first started workingout after ballooning out to 170 I just jogged on some small trails, 'cos I was too embarrassed to go to the gym.

    eating right doesn't necessarily mean giving up foods you like. to be honest, I eat EVERYTHING I want, just not i n a huge quantity. I stick between 1200 and 1500 calories a day.

    also, if you're like me and once you start eating you just want more? do what I do and rinse your mouth after. it kills the taste of whatever is in thee so the lingering flavor doesn't drive you to eat more

    really, there's nothing bad that can come out of diet and exercise. you should be doing it anyway

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    am i the only person who genuinely prefers skinny girls over curvy girls?

    maybe it's just because i've got hips and a big ass and i'd do anything to be able to swap bodies with a tiny skinny petite girl.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Darcy Foxx View Post
    am i the only person who genuinely prefers skinny girls over curvy girls?

    maybe it's just because i've got hips and a big ass and i'd do anything to be able to swap bodies with a tiny skinny petite girl.
    Aren't you straight, though? It seems you prefer skinny because thats what you covet, not because it's what you desire, if that makes sense.

    Hmm...I find it really interesting that all the bi girls like 'em curvy!

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    yeah, i'm completely straight. but even when i thought i was bi, i was totally into skinny chicks. and i like watching lesbian porn with really skinny girls too.

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