Quote Originally Posted by kat 3322 View Post
so i know i brought this on my self a bit... but...a custy i was on good terms with wanted to take me to dinner (at my suggestion because i wasnt working at a club). i clarified twice that i wanted to be tipped for 2 hours work regardless of how long we spent there ( i said i would spend longer then 2 hours, that was just what i wanted as a tip.) so we go to dinner for 4 hours at way less then the cost of champagne (500 for 2 hours to the house + 1000 for 2 hours for me) and then he leaves without tipping...

he didnt run off but he was drunk and i wanted to give him the chance to tip me when he sobered up in the morning, instead of me nagging him at the end of the evening (i know he might not end up tipping me but i was willing to risk it.)

i wont ever see him again if he doesnt value my time...so, why wont guys willing to shell out so much money in the club spend a portion of that at dinner. wouldnt a guy rather spend a more personal evening with a lady he likes at a fraction of the cost? with a chance of more OTC time to follow?

guys push so much for time OTC but cant follow through, why ruin it for your selves and others? why not just pay the money? you know you wont get any action for free...?

Always. ALWAYS get the $ up front.