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    Extra girls.....

    Ok, so I have insomnia, so being up got me thinking.....

    I personally have a problem with doing extras at the club....at least where other people can see, because it hurts my money and it makes me harder to sell, being a clean dancer. This isn't to say that I have a problem with porn, "extras" and prostitution....but everything has a place.


    Anyway, there's always two sides of the story....so I wanna hear from the "extras" girls.....no flamming *promise!* Just want to know how did you decide to do it, when did you start, how do you feel about it, do you ever get caught, ect.....a wanna a good story about it....just out of curiosity....

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    Default Re: Extra girls.....

    I dont think you're likely to have a lot of extra girls on SW, particularly not "outing" themselves, given the treatment of that subject on the board.

    Me? I dont care about prostitution, or "extras" but it DOESNT belong in the club, and its not something I can do, because of my own personal boundaries. I bet you'll find a lot MORE girls who feel that way, than who will admit to doing extras.

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    I thought as much, but every now and then, someone mentions it.....though it might be worth a try.....

    It just makes me wonder what's going through their heads.........savvy business practice or drunken apathy.....

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    i also doubt that you're gonna get many responses.

    girls here value their reputations on this site, have self-esteem, and many of us already have to censor what we write here for various reasons.

    having something like, "oh, yeah, sometimes i wonder who is in my mouth" attached to your sn just isn't likely to happen. plus, 'extras' vary from club to club... if i'm dancing at an airdance/one-way contact club and i let the customer's hand graze my thigh a bit.... OOPS, extra!!!!! If you want 'sex in the CR room' stories, i doubt many are gonna happen here.

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    not really looking for the 'sex in the cr' stories.....

    dumb question i guess......just wondered if anyone actually THOUGHT about it, maybe a chance for the other side to say something,.......please bear with me....I'm such a noob!

    I'm just trying to get used to everything, and working at a club where I see girls and hear girls talking about it....I want to ask them why, simply because I wonder if they know why......but I figured they would beat me down....lol

    I did ask one time, after a girl told me she had sexy time with a guy for $300....I asked her why, and she laughed and said "why not!".....she proceeded to show me photos of her kids and husband, she couldn't been more than 20.....

    That's a total stereotypical story, but I was just wondering if there were extras girls out there, that we're "of the norm", if you will......

    bleh, I'm writing more about this than anyone else is.....

    must go to bed.

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    I work in an airdance club, so some of what I do might be considered "extras", but I make sure not to do anything beyond what the actual "norm" is in my club (rather than following the "rules"), mainly because I think it's rude to the other girls.

    For example, there's not a single girl in my club that doesn't "grind", even though that's technically prohibited by the rules, so I guess in that way, we're ALL "extras" girls. We're not supposed to put our boobs around their heads, but we all do. We're not supposed to wave our kitties (topless club, so kitties are covered by T-back) in their faces, but we all do. So there's a big difference between the "rules" and the "norm"...

    Now beyond that, we don't have champagne room, and our VIP is not private in the least (we don't even have curtains, etc.). When you do VIP, you're on a couch right across from another dancer and her custy (and of course waitresses in and out all the time), but the managers NEVER come back there. And there seems to be a "code of silence" in our club. The non-extras girls never tattle on the TRUE extras girls.

    But because our VIP is not private, I try to moderate things I would normally allow if another dancer has a custy back there. For instance, I will generally allow a custy to GENTLY touch (like brushing his hands over) my hips (outside only, please!), waist, etc. I do NOT allow touching my breasts or ANYTHING near my T-back. Some girls will allow that, and some girls won't even allow the touching that I do. If they're new to the club, I'll make sure to remind them of that after the dance, i.e., "Remember that you have to follow the rules of the dancer dancing for you. I allow more than some girls and less than others, so don't think that just because I let you touch means someone else will." If they're veterans of SCs, they already know that.

    Now that said, if I'm dancing across from a girl who I know doesn't allow even that degree of touching, I won't allow it either. To me, it's a golden rule thing... I wouldn't want to be dancing across from some girl getting fingered by her custy and have to deal with my custy thinking he can get away with it because her custy is.

    So I guess that I would be considered an "extras" girl, but that's about the extent of it. And as to why? Well frankly, I guess I never thought about it before... A guy who is gently touching the outside of my hips or waist just doesn't bother me, I guess...

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    Quote Originally Posted by ColetteCalahan View Post
    <snip>oh, yeah, sometimes i wonder who is in my mouth<snip>
    Colette you naughty minx you!


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    And to seriously answer the question, the contract I signed said, among other things, that I would not "dance in a way that suggests intercourse," "touch my breasts/genitals" or "touch a customer with my breasts." Uhhhh yeah we all break those rules. I personally draw the line at grabbing/sucking/fucking or getting touched at all on my "thong region." But grinding and boobage is all fine n dandy by me, the other girls at my club and the management.


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    This has already been covered before and ended up a big flame war trainwreck. It was calling the extras girls out and it was just bad. I can't find it but I remember it. Extras are defined differently from town to town depending on the laws and the ways of the club.

    There are extras girls everywhere now. The ones that are some of the top earners on SW aren't those types of girls. Not all guys come for extras anyways. Your straight game has to be better than their extras game. Extras girls usually lack personality to sell dances so they sell other things.
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    I consider extras, blowjobs, handjobs, sex, or letting a guy finger you or eat you out. That's what extras are right?? Because some girls consider extras to be grinding longer than you're supposed to, or letting your hand graze the outside of his pants where his penis is, or putting your boobs in his face. I'm just curious as to what you consider to be an extra.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    I consider extras, blowjobs, handjobs, sex, or letting a guy finger you or eat you out. That's what extras are right??
    That's what extras are to me!

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    I've let guys touch my boobs in a light contact only club, where that was definatly not the norm, or permissable. I've grinded in that same club, which was also a no grind club.

    I've gotten eaten out by a female custy, she was hot and her man paid me a lot. w/ev.

    If i wasn't attatched, i might do these same things again.... lol. w/ev. 'm not scared to be judged.....

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    hahah thanks for your honestly Lola!

    Girls here should take a chill pill sometimes.

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    I'm a bad girl, got hauled up in front of the manager because of "extras" e.g a man ran his fingers through my hair when i had my back to him.

    Yes i worked in the strictest nude club in the world!

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    I really suspect my friend is an extras girl in the club..even the house mom has brought it to my attention..she has zero self esteem and is always wasting her money on stupid stuff...I think it isn't worth it. It actually makes me feel greatful that I can make a pretty decent living off of my looks and personality..and I feel good about myself and I think that makes her jealous..she always likes to tell me how much she makes and I just nod and smile but I know what a hoe she is so I just humor her but her life seems to just go in a vicious cycle...money is awesome but I think if you are going against your morals that kind of thing just eats away at you and robs you of your self worth (unless you are just the type of person that doesn't respect yourself anyway and don't think you are worth enough in the first place) but she is a pretty unhappy person and I think looks to the guys in the club to provide her with feeling wanted. But whatever...there seems to be alot of extras girls around..I'm kinda shocked that I still make money with stuff like this.

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    Default Re: Extra girls.....

    extras are like shopping a walmart. No one really admits to it, but there are always cars in the parking lot.

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    ^^^ LOL!
    I've let two guys in my two years dancing touch my boobs. One of them paid a lot and the other was a football player I had idolized for like three years so I figured I'd let him haha
    I felt so icky after the first though, like I had crossed the line. It was in the CR though for lots of $$.
    Boob touching is pretty allowed in my club though so it wasn't like breaking the rules, but I'm sure a lot of girls here consider that an extra.

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    most of what even high-earning SW girls do to make money would be considered extras by dancers of decades past...

    anyway, this whole thing always devolves into 'i let a customer touch my knee/boob/toe for 1600$ in a no-contact gown club' and/or generic hating on 'extras' girls. and a few girls might randomly concede lesbian-extras.

    i feel kinda meta today.

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    Most of what I do would be considered extras in may places. I grind hard..I allow touching everywhere but my crotch, I'll rub my boobs or sometimes my hand(my hand only for a second though) over his dick OUTSIDE his pants.....etc.....

    But these are not extra where i am. Where I am it is the norm for girls to be giving $20 h/j, b/j...for a cpl hndred, you can pretty much fuck any hole you want with many of the girls.

    So though I'd be an extra girl by manys standards...I'm the clean one here! ANd I would never do any of that in a club where it wasnt allowed.

    I'm not opposed to prostitution at all..it has its place. That place is not in the club any more then it is ok to give a BJ in the hardware section of Walmart.

    I do porn. Technically...I fuck for money. Not directly,but still. Getting a paycheck for screwing a guy or girl I met a few minutes ago is fine with me. So I'm certainly not a prude about it.

    But in the club...if you so much as touch my crotch outside my panties i will slap you into next week. Thats not the place for it,not what I am there for and I'm certainly not getting paid enopugh!(not to mention legallities and health screenings)

    And I've seen the money in the clubs go down so bad in the last few years because of extras girls you can barely eek out a living. Guys come in EXPECTING it now....they've been trained that strip clubs are where you go for sex. So if I wont...I'm useless to them. Why spend $100 on dances with me when the chick next to me will suck and swallow for less then half that? (and she will)

    So I am adamently and very vocally against extras girls in the club.

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    in my experience, extras girls ranged from the ones doing whatever for a handful of dances' money to ones getting 500-2k for bj/hj/sex itc.

    which means that it's a continuum just like 'justdancers', some of whom struggle to break 100 a shift all the way up to others who make...500-2k a shift itc.

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    Wow, Im alittle surprized to see so many girls who will feel guilty to have a guy touch there boobs. ( well I understand its the rules in the states)

    Thats because I'm in canada and thats totaly normal here. Its what all of us have to do to make money if were working in a contact club. Let them touch You'r breast. Thats part of the rules, just not between the legs.
    Last edited by _Ariel_; 11-17-2007 at 10:58 PM.

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    ^^^ I think they're acting ashamed mainly because of the prevalent attitude on this board.

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    In my experience, girls who are hung up on "extras" girls are not that "keen" & sexy and are leaping on excuses to cut out competition.

    I can see outrage over outright sex in the club, but all I hear these days is sourfaced girls choking on sour grapes. So choke on it! ; P

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    True! I would be super pissed about outright sex, and in an ideal world my club would be squeaky clean but that's not the case. And I know some ugly girls have done some somewhat nasty shit. Some super hot top earners have done some nasty shit too. However, I make very good money so it's not bothering me yet. One of our consistent top earners is extremely elegant and clean as a whistle. She's my role model.

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