So, I went out on my last date with the guy I mentioned a few times on here Thursday night. I asked him if he was still on match and he said he was and I asked him if he was still looking and he said he was. He said he had seen others and probably would continue to do so. He said his theory was if he dated multiple women he would have something to "compare" them to and know for sure whether or not he wanted to pursue a LTR with them or not. He said at his age, 44, he doesn't have much time. Okay, that's BULLSHIT in my opinion. He wanted me to make out with him and even had the guts to ask me to stay with him. I told him no. The next day I told him I wasn't going to see him anymore. I don't want to be "compared" with someone else for him to figure out whether I'm right for him or not.
So, then my ex boyfriend calls and wants to come see me in the middle of the night, WTF!!! I mean, do I look like I need to get laid? Do I look like I have trouble in that department, c'mon.
So, today I was just looking back through match and men on there were talking about how they'd like to meet a wild woman and on plentyoffish.com men said if they didn't get laid by the third date they were out of the picture.
I'll admit to having one night stands and fuck buddy sorts of relationships before but that's not what I want now. Those relationships didn't work out for me and I got too emotional. I don't want to do that again. My ex hubby and I dated four months before we had sex. He waited. WTF is wrong these days, are times changing that much? Hell, I'll just stay single before I become someone's fucking whore, geezzz.....



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