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    So my phone rings just now, and I see on the caller ID it's my ex. Probably calling to see if he can set up a supervised visit or something. I answer, I hear nothing but click-click-click INHALE.....

    Then I hear him say as if he's talking to someone else "Yah, hit the teener! Pass me the lighter bro."

    Then click-click Inhale and he says "because I like to smoke my coffee..."

    Then the phone sounds like it's shuffling aroudn a bit and then his voice is much closer ('m assuming he looked at the phone at this point) and he says "what...oh shit!" and it hangs up.


    Fkn Dumb Ass Drug Addict accidently called me while getting high!!!!
    So I looked up teener. Yep, it's a meth term. Fkn loser. Grrrrrrrrr!!!!!
    I understand it's an addiction, I understand it's hard to stop, look at me and smoking! But he has the chance to have such a wonderful kid in his life and he keeps screwing it up and throwing it away for that garbage! He has so many people around him who want to help him get clean and fix his life, but all he wants to do is get high then lie to everyone! Fawk.

    Well, I called him right back. Because I'm pissed like that. And said;
    "Hittin' a teener huh? Smoking your coffee?"
    "uh...what do you mean?"
    "You, you jsut called me."
    "Uh....I didn't mean to."
    "Obviously."
    "Well...."
    "Well shut the fck up. You're done. Get a lawyer."




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    What a fucking idiot.

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    ^^^My sentiments exactly.
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    Ya know, you would think after everything, he'd figure it out at some point. The guy is now in his LATE 30's. Time to grow the fck up!

    I tried when we were together to help him, I went with him to the damn meetings and listened to all those guys whine about how life was unfair and what not. I drove him to the damn drug testing labs (only to find out later he ws collecting our kiddo's urine!) I did all of that!

    He hit me. So I spiked his beer and knocked his ass out, left in the middle of the night with my baby and everything I could fit inside of a pillow case. No Joke. Told him, keep the house, keep the business, just stay away from us.

    Took his ass to court and said He can see his son on THESE conditions: Get random weekly drug test, via blood.
    Get a job and keep it longer than 60 days.
    Have a home, and keep it longer than 60 days.

    Do ALL o those things (not that hard to do) and I'll consider you may be grow up enough to be around a child.

    It's been 5 years...and he has never managed to do it. Ever. EVER! K, I'm so heated, and totally ranting, and this is one of the reasons I love SW so much, because I can rant here.

    I guess the thing that hurts the most is that my kiddo still sees him as a great guy, a fun dad to hang with and loves him so much. And that bastard takes all of that unconditional love for granted. People would die to be loved like that.




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    DO you have a restraining order?

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    I did, ages ago when this all started. He violated it and went to jail. He hasn't tried to come around since then.

    Not kowing where I live helps too I am sure. And knowing my hubby works with the sheriff's office is a plus. And our neighbor and best friend is a cop (who lovingly pulled him over one day and while writing him a ticket whispered "Leave her alone or I'll make your life hell" )

    I don't fear him any more, I've become a much stronger woman than the woman he knew and abused. But I hate him. And hate is such an intense word for me to use.




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    EE, nothing much to contribute except:

    You're marvelous woman--thoughtful and fun SW poster, loving mom and delicious entertainer.

    Go ahead and vent about your moron addict ex all you want. Get it out so that, in a couple of days, you can yours can have a lovely and peaceful Turkey Day.

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    I'm so sorry, EE. That must be really tough and really stressful. Hopefully your kid can get to know a sober father someday.

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    Thanks. I get so worked up over this. Nuclear.

    My husband is a wonderful man, a fantastic father. The kiddo asked me after we had been dating for 8mos "Can I call him dad? I love him." *melts* And he's been so wonderful about letting the kiddo see a good dad example and still being a strong parent. I love him for that. So he (kiddo) does have a good daddy role model.

    And I figure one day he will come to realize what his biological dad is all about. I don't want to push him in any direction though because I don't want him to resent me for it. All I can do is be there for him when he gets dissapointed.


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    Thank goodness that you have such a wonderful man now... what a deadbeat that other guy is!
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    Quote Originally Posted by ExoticEngineer View Post
    ...My husband is a wonderful man, a fantastic father. The kiddo asked me after we had been dating for 8mos "Can I call him dad? I love him."...

    Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

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    I was wondering what a teener was and what in the hell somking coffe was all about. Meth is some nasty shit. Do whatever you can to keep him away from your little guy.

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    Oh he is so screwed.

    Technically I am supposed to allow his supervised visits since it was court ordered, but I called the SV office today and told them what happened, the girl says to me "So what you're saying is that you will be out of town or unavailable for quite some time, so we can't schedule any visits right now. That's fine."

    When he calls again (and as soon as he comes down and realizes what has happened he will) I'm going to tell him he's not seeing the kiddo again until he does everything he is supposed to for a duration of 1 year. That is what the judge told him to do last time and that is that.

    He'll pitch a fit and I'll tell him. Take me to court then. If you think you have a fighting chance in hell then doooooooo it. I'd love to see you there.

    Ugh! Screw him! I am not that weak little woman that he pushed around a long time ago. I don't fear him, I laugh at him. I don't pity him, he makes me sick.




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