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    Default My first night... was this normal?

    OK- maybe it was that I was SO nervous... but, I found lapdancing to be an incredible turn on.

    On the past weekend I tried an out of town club that was table dances and shows only. It was a good experience as I got to learn how to 'move slow' while giving a show up on a stage in front of many. The manager was nice and let me work a slow afternoon shift where I went up with 2 other girls 3x's to get into the groove.

    Everyone was nice; the other girls, the bouncers, dj and manager... and i can't forget the customers! They were so welcoming to a newbie! I made a lot of tips and got showered with 5 and 10 dollar bills at the end of each of my shows. At the end of the weekend it was time to go home, but I was welcomed back... and I think I just might have to do so .

    Anyways... Tuesday (last night) was my first shift in a club that allows lap dancing. It was quite a threshold to break doing those kind of dances. I couldn't believe how close to sex it mimmicks. (well, to be honest, I have never done a lapdance before last night) Anyways, I spent the whole night with a severely turned on and aching crotch. I think my face was flush and I think some customers could figure me out, too. It was embarassing, exhilarating and intense all at once.

    All in all... pretty weird, but pretty fun too. It's very difficult to concentrate on my studies now... I hope this doesn't cause me to be another statistic (girl becomes dancer and never finishes university...) But, the distraction is there!

    Thanks for letting me spill it.

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    Default Re: My first night... was this normal?

    Don't worry, it'll fade!

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    Default Re: My first night... was this normal?

    that feeling? I'm not sure I want it to fade... well enough so that I can work, lol... oh it was fun getting turned on by multiple men all night- but, it did make it hard to concentrate on why i am there in the first place. ($)

    Do you think 2 shifts a week is an ok amount to work while going to school full time? I'm a 1st year university student and getting used to the whole 'new experience' of living away from home. Some could argue I am moving too fast. But, I drink little and don't do drugs... I figure having a 'second life' as a dancer is a nice 'naughty little secret' to have, anyways.

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    Default Re: My first night... was this normal?

    Okay, I'm not saying that it's not within the realm of possibility to be turned on by giving a lapdance, but this post sounds a bit troll-ish...

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    Quote Originally Posted by noelle View Post
    Okay, I'm not saying that it's not within the realm of possibility to be turned on by giving a lapdance, but this post sounds a bit troll-ish...
    It certainly does sound trlollish, but then there are girls that get really turned on by their jobs, or at least they claim they do, although there are very very very few of them in this business

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    Quote Originally Posted by XxAmber89xX View Post
    and i can't forget the customers! They were so welcoming to a newbie! I made a lot of tips and got showered with 5 and 10 dollar bills at the end of each of my shows.
    Um . . . where do you work? Those are certainly really good tips, especially for a new dancer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elusive21 View Post
    Um . . . where do you work? Those are certainly really good tips, especially for a new dancer.
    another reason it sounds like a troll..

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    Default Re: My first night... was this normal?

    i didn't think i sounded trollish- i guess i'm just really excited and passionate about my newfound career.

    anyways- i guess i have alot to work on. tonight's stage show was a disaster... i ran out of moves before the songs ended and didn't know what to do... i think i got kinda stagefright or something...

    i wished i coulda worked till the end of the night- but i got an early class in the am. goodnight girls.

    BTW- my damn feet are sore!

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    Default Re: My first night... was this normal?

    YOu know, I get turned on at work too. If fact, stripping has really helped me blossom sexually. Of course, it depends on who I'm dancing for and what their reaction is to me...but it happens quite a bit, and I like it! I have been dancing for two years, and that initial sexual excitement has faded, but it often appears unexpectedly.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elusive21 View Post
    Um . . . where do you work? Those are certainly really good tips, especially for a new dancer.
    Well, she is in Canada, and they smallest bill they have is a 5, so not entirely impossible.
    I believe you Dottie and you have my support

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    I thought I was getting horny at work.....turns out, it's was a mixture of my pussy piercing and their money....

    I totally get enjoyment watching guys hand over dollars for dances......haha, suckers!

    Just my thoughts....

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    Default Re: My first night... was this normal?

    some guys think newbie = naive.

    be careful.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Corgan View Post
    some guys think newbie = naive.

    be careful.
    In this case I'd say it probably does.

    This girl needs to get her head on straight before she gets taken advantage of. I think the first time she racks up about 10 dances and the guy doesn't want to pay, she'll get over her arousal. Real fast.

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    ^^hahah
    Although that hasn't happened to me yet, and guys pay the front door before going in the back.
    Sometimes I get turned on too...turns out it is just the money for me too...and the other girls all nekid LOL

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    Default Re: My first night... was this normal?

    I wonder if its the money and the men? It doesn't necessarily happen with someone that 'looks rich' but, happens more frequently with good looking guys...

    anyways- i have encountered my first challenge with my close friends... they want me to hang out with them on the weekend, as I always did b4. but, I kinda want to work, and plus the manager asked if i'd work the weekend.

    none of my friends know i dance, yet. :oops:

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    More than anything, I think this girl is naive and has stars in her eyes. I don't see 'troll' behaviour here.

    OP, please be careful, wise up, and become aware of your surroundings before you get worked over.

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    I wish someone would please fill me in on how i sound naive (is it because i like men?).... I guess I can't really help it. I'M NEW to all of this. I think I am doing ok... but it hasn't even been 1 week yet. well, tonight's shift will be my 7th night. so i guess, 1 week as of tomorrow!

    I haven't encountered too many stumbling blocks and I like the hustle and think I am good at it. In my previous job at the Gap, I was consistently the top sales associate in every category they tracked... I am a natural salesperson- I just wanted to get paid for it accordingly.

    So far the troubles for me seem to be:
    1. the odd jerk that lacks proper people skills.
    2. I have crappy pole moves.
    3. I have limited (no) costumes... I wear a piece of lingerie that has stockings and a garter... stockings get runs and the garter set is quite expensive and awkward to remove. the nice thing is guys want me to keep the garter on when I lapdance for them... fine by me .
    Oh Canada, we stand on cars and freeze...

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    Default Re: My first night... was this normal?

    oh come on. you signed up yesterday and this is your first post?

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    Whoa, you worked 7 nights in a row? I wish I was that motivated . . .

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    Default Re: My first night... was this normal?

    ^ i did that when i first started. i was excited, i was super excited by the money, i had nothing better to do... and i was so tired and sore that one night before i went on stage i started crying to the house mom because it was too much too fast.

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    ^^ I know what you mean about being sore! I work out and still found I used muscles I didn't know I had... and my feet!!!! omg.

    Quote Originally Posted by Elusive21 View Post
    Whoa, you worked 7 nights in a row? I wish I was that motivated . . .
    Nope. what I meant is that I started (ie. my 1st shift) 7 days ago. I worked Fri, Sat, and Sun out of town at a no-touch club to see if I can handle it and gain a little experience before trying a lapdance club. I then worked Tuesday and tonight (Thursday) and plan on working this weekend.

    I won't be able to work like this for next few weeks though... I got exams starting December 3rd. but, I plan on working everyday during the Holidays.
    Oh Canada, we stand on cars and freeze...

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    ^ plan on being burned out bigtime, then. you cant work that much. you will burn out very fast, esp being new at this.

    (assuming you're not a troll. which i still think you are.)

    (and i agree with velvet. nice first post )

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    Default Re: My first night... was this normal?

    well, i hope that maybe i gain your trust in time

    I have been reading this board for quite some time while at the stage of inquiring or fantasizing about becoming a dancer. it really is a great site and alot of advice is available for newbies.

    though, what i posted in the beginning of this thread was not something i read about on SW yet... so i thought it was game for conversation. oh, and yeah- it wears off quickly! didn't happen at all tonight, but i was pretty sore and tired during my shift.

    oh, and i didn't mean everyday of the holidays.... i will be gone home to see my family from the 22nd to the 27th and won't be working NYE. I'll probably need a day off here and there for travel and probably won't work on Jan 1st... that's designated recoup day!
    Oh Canada, we stand on cars and freeze...

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    Default Re: My first night... was this normal?

    Calm down on the troll accusations, please.

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