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    Yesterday was my second day dancing at a club ever. I was called to the vip stage to dance. I danced and I saw a group of three guys sitting there not talking to anyone so I approached them (which I later found out I wasnt supposed to do, but I had no idea!). So! I sat there for maybe about an hour one guy gave me 100 and the other 40 for a lapdance. I thought I did good and walked away.

    Come to find out later in the night, the other two girls who were sitting there (they have been working there for a while, and know how to hustle) had gotten $1100 out of these guys. I have no idea how they did it or what they said. Most of the time they were sitting there talking, and the one chick gave a guy 3 lapdances. How did she get $1100? Did she lie about the lapdance price? Was he paying her for talking to him? If thats the case, do you let a guy know they need to pay you for your time? HELP!!!!

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    It's kinda hard to say, though I doubt she lied about the lapdance price. Don't let it get you down, she was prob. just a good hustler, and you just started. You can't expect to get your game down pat in 2 days. And keep in mind that sometimes girls don't make as much as they say.


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    What taylorlila said. Also, keep in mind that you won't be everyone's "type." Maybe those other girls were.

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    Thank you guys so much fo rthe reply! I really appreciate it!

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    Maybe the guys specifically requested those girls and paid them that amount of money up front? Sometimes that happens.

    And why were you not supposed to be sitting there?

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    off topic, but you posted this twice. it isnt necessary to post the same thing in different sections.

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    i also want to know why you weren't allowed to hustle them.

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    Can we be nice to the Newbies, please? DANG.
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    I dont know why I was not allowed to hustle the guys that came in, but they came in again on saturday, and I had a much better outcome. I didnt sit with them too long and I got way more money for my time. Granted I had to leave (my ride arrived), but I was only with him for 10 minutes and got like $100, which I think is great! Everyones advice has been so helpful. Thanks

    ps. sorry for posting in two areas didnt think i would get such a massive reply, but now I know! =-)

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    i don't think i was being mean to the newbie. i was miffed at her club... why was she told not to hustle? that was plain wrong of whoever said it.

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    I have to disagree wholeheartedly. The girl lied. 95% chance on that. After working the clubs for 3 years I finally learned that they ALL lie about how much money they make. This is for 2 reasons. One- They want you to feel inferior. Two- THEY feel inferior and don't want to look like second rate dancers.
    There have been a few nights where I wasn't on my game and someone asked me how much I made and I added an extra hundred to the number out of embarrassment. There is also that "just in case" factor. "Just in case they made a shit-ton of cash, I don't want to look pathetic". I started watching girls counting their money at the end of the night to see if I was the only "loser". I caught them lying several times and decided that you can never believe a girl when she tells you what she made, no doubt about it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Corgan View Post
    i don't think i was being mean to the newbie. i was miffed at her club... why was she told not to hustle? that was plain wrong of whoever said it.
    I don't think it was you she was saying that was mean. I think it was meant towards britt.

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    ^ cally you always do this for me. thank you!

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    it's only been two days dont be discouraged...i know girls that have been dancing for years and will sit with guys and HOPE it works out in the end for hours and get NOTHING. You still have to figure out what works for you. Agressive, sweet, convo vs wanna dance, hunting vip sales or lapdancing the night away blah, blah, blah
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    Maybe the dudes had already paid them, hence why they were in the VIP area and why they said you weren't supposed to talk to them. At this one club, you danced in the Champagne room on last rotation and were not supposed to go over to customers if you weren't invited to.

    Maybe it was that kind of set up?.
    Last edited by Kalligirl; 12-20-2007 at 07:47 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Corgan View Post
    ^ cally you always do this for me. thank you!
    LoL np Corgan. I love ya I can't see ya upset

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