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    I never should have gone . My granparents pulled me aside and made it known that they "Don't approve " of " the way I make my living " I stood up to them . Grandpa yelled at me AGAIN. I have never had to talk to them that way but I defended myself and what I do.

    I left in tears.

    I also found out that it was a different cousin that threw me under the bus.

    No more holidays for me

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    You don't deserve that, babe. Maybe someday your family can put your profession behind them and love you for you. I know that's tough, I think everyone on SW has dealt with that in some form or another.

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    I'm so sorry, Twister.

    Come spend the holidays with me. We can be bitter together. And drunk. Drunk is always good.

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    Quote Originally Posted by stellaforstars View Post
    ...We can be bitter together. And drunk. Drunk is always good...
    Word. Tis the season.

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    Done with family.

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    double you. tee. eff.

    didnt your grandpa JUST apologize to you?

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    Quote Originally Posted by twisterinAZ View Post
    Done with family.
    Then I def want to be in your bitter drunken fun with other SWers. I've been family-free since 2005, and it was rocky for years before then. I understand it's hard, but ultimately it's your life and you shouldn't feel bad, you should be proud that you're taking care of yourself and that you're not a major fuck up. And your family should be proud, too.

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    ^^^PCQ said it really well. I spent this Thanksgiving alone and I enjoyed myself. Just surfed the Internet, played The Sims, and ate way too much ice cream. Family can suck sometimes and if they don't accept what you do for a living, fuck 'em. There is nothing wrong with being a stripper and it really irks me how family members think it's a dirty, disgusting job.

    It would be cool if all us strippers who aren't close to our families lived closer together-we could get together and throw our own Thanksgiving party.






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    Whoever asked about him apologizing, he did. My grandma insisted we talk and it was all downhill from there. My mother just left............

    please tell me again why I try

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    So sorry to hear that it went badly...

    Hey mine sucked, too. I had to work, it was slow as hell, I only made 200$ which is an all-time low for this club, and my DJ program LOST all my folders for all the dancers!

    I ate a frozen pot pie, some Pringles potato chips, and then someone brought in a little turkey at work.

    Of course that was partly my fault, I had 4 rib eye steaks ready in the fridge, LOL. But I didn't feel like messing with cooking when I had to work.

    Anyways sorry to ramble, I know yours was worse than mine, it sucks when your family turns on you, it's happened to me before.
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    I want to cuddle.

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    BUt no takers

    Today was awesome though. Mani/pedis/massages with cocktails ,pizza and my best girlfriend. It was awesome to have a good day ...finally.

    Luck is changing

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    I think you should send your grandpa a big smelly turd for Christmas, since he was being such an asshole to you.

    I am glad today is better for you. =)




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    Quote Originally Posted by twisterinAZ View Post
    BUt no takers

    Today was awesome though. Mani/pedis/massages with cocktails ,pizza and my best girlfriend. It was awesome to have a good day ...finally.

    Luck is changing
    Family isn't always blood.
    People are not ruled by their memories.

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    My offer still stands sweety. We have a no drama policy at our house, just drink your punchy egg nog and have fun!

    Want me to hang a stocking for ya?




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    And if you want to switch sides for a while, you can come celebrate Chanukkah with me!

    Family isn't always the most important thing in the world. I strongly believe our culture puts way too much importance on blood relations. Developing who you are is a far more important thing than reinforcing artificial bonds made by shared DNA.



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    ^It's so true! I used to sweat and dread the holidays. So much. It made me miserable, and this is my favorite season!

    Then I started letting everyone know, I was going to be celebrating MY holidays in MY home with MY family and friends, and if they wanted to join in they were more than welcome, if not...that's cool too.

    So far it's worked out great. My house, my rules, my fckn holidays.




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    Quote Originally Posted by twisterinAZ View Post
    I never should have gone . My granparents pulled me aside and made it known that they "Don't approve " of " the way I make my living " I stood up to them . Grandpa yelled at me AGAIN. I have never had to talk to them that way but I defended myself and what I do.

    I left in tears.

    I also found out that it was a different cousin that threw me under the bus.

    No more holidays for me
    Part 3? Must have missed part 2...anyway, that's a tough one. You have the right to be you and do what want with youself, but you can see from that generation, etc where that's all but impossible to accept for them. I can see their side of it (flames away ladies) but in the end, they have to accept you for you, but that's probably not what they wanted for their grandaughter and all that crap. You're an adult, so it's not really any of their business and the middle of Thanksgiving was not the place to have such a conversation. Holidays do suck.
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    These are a crazy series you've got going here and I am sorry that the holidays have been so tumultuous for you. I had a horrible time getting my family to accept stripping. They never did, so I sympathize with your situation completely. Just keep your chin up, it will get easier..

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    So sorry hon. Its tought to get away from the people we've been around all our lives. Often its this obligation rather than love, but we internalize that obligation. You have some great friends who love you, and the option to spend other holidays with BOTH hardkandee and exoticengineer. Hells yeah!

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    Yeah, I bet Santa has some cool presents for you to put in that fishnet stocking, LOL!

    I like the idea of making your own holiday, wherever you go. By far the best thanksgiving I ever had was with an old flame--we were just getting into the heavy flush of blossoming romance/lust at that time, so we were into it. No relatives, no one else.

    We just each bought and cooked whatever our very favorite foods were, I think it was all different for each of us except we shared the cheesecake. We sat on the floor next to each other at this big round table covered with food and ate to our hearts' content.
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    You guys are so awesome .....seriously. And you know me better than my family

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    I was just re-reading this thread and I posted , " I wanna cuddle."

    I'm a dork.

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