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    If you approach a guy who was watching you dance but immediately you get bad vibes like he's not interested, do you wish him a good night and leave or ask him for a dance?

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    ask. what does it hurt to ask?

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    I ask. Either he says yes or no. If you don't ask, you're not doing your job.

    Now if I get bad vibes like creepy, psycho, sk, etc., depending on the intensity of my intuition I might not ask.

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    Pretty much what they both said. I actually ask a lot faster when I'm getting a bad vibe cause I want to move on. And ya, usually if they're putting off the vibe they say no. But sometimes they'll tip next time I'm on stage or something.

    If it's a creepy vibe though, I stay away.
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    If it's bad vibes like I don't like him, I excuse myself. If it's bad vibes like he's just not that into me I pop the question. About half the time they say yes, and the other half the time I just saved myself a couple minutes of pointless conversation.



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    Quote Originally Posted by NewMoon View Post
    If you approach a guy who was watching you dance but immediately you get bad vibes like he's not interested, do you wish him a good night and leave or ask him for a dance?
    He's watching you. And those vibes may be not bad after all. Take the chance and say hi. See if he starts talking back nicely...then you know.

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    If the vibe is off and I can't correct in within thirty seconds or so, I ask a lot faster. Most of the time the answer is no, but it's yes often enough that it's worth asking. If the guy is giving me severe, unmistakeable fuck-off vibes (not making space for me to sit down, grimacing, refusing eye contact) I might not even ask. I figure I'm sparing both of us unpleasantness. This way, the door is still open check back on them later and see if they were just in a bad mood or not ready. Sometimes if someone has already said "no" -- especially if they said it in a mean way -- I feel weird coming back later.

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    If you're already there you might as well ask. All he's going to do is say no, and you move on. I've made a hella lotta money off of guys I got bad vibes from.


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    I typically ask everyone unless i'm getting the "I'm going to be a pain in the *ss vibe" from the customer. I usually don't approach such customers because I don't feel its worth the headache for one lapdance. Now if I'm getting the "F*ck off because I'm cheap" I'll usually harass these customers and ask for a dance especially if its slow (because they are usually the customers in my club that sit and watch for free). Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't. I guess I might find enjoyment heckling people

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    If I'm getting a bad vibe in the sense that I know a guy is thinking about skinning me like a deer and then wearing my face like a mask while he does a little kooky dance (lol, from a Bloodhound Gang song people) then I run far, far away....if I think he just doesn't like me, I may as well throw a "You wanna dance" out there. The worst thing he can say is no, and if he says yes, I might be able to hustle his ass into being a good custie. If he says NO then I tell him to have a good night tee hee.
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    If I get a bad vibe I leave immediately, I am usually right, and wind up seeing another girl fighting at the end of the night over money or some other stupid ridiculous shit.

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    i will ask anyways, but i'll be sure to mention price several times.
    "you know how this works, right? that it's $20 here?"

    but bad vibes = i dont put alot of effort in.

    Love it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by NewMoon View Post
    If you approach a guy who was watching you dance but immediately you get bad vibes like he's not interested, do you wish him a good night and leave or ask him for a dance?
    I'll be honest I usually don't ask once I get a bad vibe. If I get a "he's not interested" type of bad vibe and he's avoiding eye contact, or more focused on other girls then I will just tell him goodnight.

    If it's a bad vibe like he's to "handsy" or just a "smut" kinda talker then I'll usually send them a goodnight too. But if he asks me for a dance I will dance for him. The second he gets out of line, I don't offer a repeat dance to him.







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    i just ask a lot quicker than normal if i get the "im not interested" vibe. i figure that way, even if he says no, at least i didn't waste any time.

    i've completely stopped trying to sell to the guys that give me the asshole/handsy/weirdo vibe though.

    unless im SUPER desperate.

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    I just plow right through and ask anyway. I figure I have nothing to loose. Some of the guys that give the cold vibe will get a dance just to make you happy and send you on your way. More money for you. It's a 5-30 second investment for that possible sale. You'll be absolutely glowing inside when one of these guys that project nothing but disinterest gives you an easy "yes." It does happens. It feels good and will make you realize even more that sales is really a game of numbers. The more people you contact, the more people you will close.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Taylorlila View Post
    If you're already there you might as well ask. All he's going to do is say no, and you move on. I've made a hella lotta money off of guys I got bad vibes from.
    ditto. i've also wasted a lot of time talking to cheapasses who i got great vibes from.

    a lot of the times, the bad vibes are just nerves.

    of course, a lot of times, they're douchebaggery too.

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    If the vibe your getting is that he may not be interested, ask anyways, but don't act suprised if he says yes. If it's a gut instinct vibe telling you he's gonna be a problem, only ask if your club is dead and get paid upfront.

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    Quote Originally Posted by paintgoddess View Post
    I just plow right through and ask anyway. I figure I have nothing to loose. Some of the guys that give the cold vibe will get a dance just to make you happy and send you on your way. More money for you. It's a 5-30 second investment for that possible sale. You'll be absolutely glowing inside when one of these guys that project nothing but disinterest gives you an easy "yes." It does happens. It feels good and will make you realize even more that sales is really a game of numbers. The more people you contact, the more people you will close.
    I really needed to hear that tonight!

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