I was talking to a guy at work this week who told me he hates when girls ask him what he does for a living or if he's ever been to our club. He said it was annoying because he felt like his income was being assessed. I hadn't ever thought of this, but it does from his perspective make sense. My club, however is confusing in that it has 4 different vip rooms that get kind of complicated, knowing if someone has been there before can help. Also we are pretty regular based, so there's a little more conversation involved than some other clubs.
What I'm wondering is if asking someone what they do for a living is not a good idea? I like to ask it because on the slower nights it really can help you learn a lot about someone and open the conversation up to more intimate topics. I understand though that on the weekends when it's busier asking such questions are probably not needed in that it's a quicker more playful conversation.
So I hope what I'm saying makes sense (I already tried to post this once and had a problem so this rewrite is a little less detailed) I' love some opinions on this. Also, if asking what someone does for a living is in bad taste what are some other things you can ask to get to know someone that is toned down from the conversations that occur on the weekends? I think I've at times forgotten to consier how the guys perceive things and would really like to make a better effort to keep that in mind.



) I' love some opinions on this. Also, if asking what someone does for a living is in bad taste what are some other things you can ask to get to know someone that is toned down from the conversations that occur on the weekends? I think I've at times forgotten to consier how the guys perceive things and would really like to make a better effort to keep that in mind.
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You're right in that with a regular based club it can be hard to fall into that trap of talking too much. I do need to remember to try to be creative in my conversations so that they can lead into dances. It can be hard because I hear so many customers talking badly about certain girls who ask the dance question too quickly or are assertive about hustling. It's hard not to try to please everyone or try to avoid getting a "hustler" reputation with the customers! I'm definately inspired though to change up my converations and see what kind of results I get.


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