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    Confidence traditionally comes from the trial and error of experience. You judge a customer by his visceral appearance and actions and then proceed to make the sale. You have confidence in yourself from knowing what to do and not to do. Someone who makes a point of pointing out a lack of confidence in another person as a method of interacting with them is playing a head game. They don't really know. In head game chess you would throw something back at them. Usually "you remind me of this .......... " Story tellers are fine. Psyhcoanalysts are insecure

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    Quote Originally Posted by evan_essence View Post
    Yeah, okay, fine. Strip clubs are full of head games on both sides of the tip rail, yeah, got it, no argument. Now, back on topic. I'd like to hear your serious answer to the original, simple query: "So, the question is......... What the hell says confidence to you guyz?"

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    In a SC, I would never question a womans confidence. If she can get in front of a bunch of horny guys and taker her clothes off, I'd say she's pretty confident, not just with her body, but in other ways too.

    To answer your question, keep your head up, smile, and make eye contact and if I pass on you for a whatever, smile nicely and walk away, maybe even throw in a "thanks anyway". Looking down, frowning, or getting all upset if I say no, will make me doubt your confidence. Those tips carry over into the real world too, for males and female.

    Dude sounds like a dick... although I don't like what was said that "guys" are trained to down to women, guys that talk down to women usually talk down to everyone and vice versa.

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    I'm not a guy, but I'd be willing to bet he was trying to get under your skin. True confidence is when you don't have to worry about what a customer says when trying to bring you down a notch or two, because you KNOW differently. Don't let it get to you.
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    ^^^that's true. I also think wearing a perma-smile says confidence. I think people who are confident have at least a hint of a smile on their face most of the time.
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