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    There's this guy that comes into the club alot and gets really drunk and never buys dances! So last night, he came in and came up to the stage and tips me. After I came off stage I went over and talked to him for awhile and he started asking me questions about starting a relationship! As the conversation went on he ordered a drink off of his credit card and asked for a hundred dollars all in ones! So, after about forty five minutes I started to get agravated because he kept refusing the dance! So he asked how much it would cost to get me out of the club and I told him to pay my tip out and we had a deal! He was so drunk, he handed me all of the money and I walked off and stashed the money and went back to talk to him! I felt a little bad so throughout the night I kept going back over to him and giving him a dance! Should I feel bad for taking his money?
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    You talked to him for 45 minutes? So, you took the money he gave you out of the hundred and you gave him a few dances. You could have played it as him tipping for your time and not have danced for him. Although, I don't recommend sitting with a guy for 45 minutes.
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    I don't put up with custies that are drunk anymore. I don't think it matters what we think, if u should feel bad or not. Do you feel bad? If not good, but guilt sucks.

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    What's done is done and buffie is right. There's no use sitting around feeling bad about it. Don't scam customers in the future. It's not worth it! Spend that 45 minutes next time moving on and finding another customer!

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    He is an adult and needs to take responsibility for himself, his drunkeness and his money. You don't need to babysit him. If he gave it to you, it's yours!

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    You should feel bad in case he remembers and wants you to keep up your end of the deal... THe wasted time you gave him in the club because of the guilt and whatever stress you're feeling because of doing that would make it not worth it for the future, IMO.
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    After putting up with that shit i do think you were fairly compensated for your time spent with him. You had to do what you needed to do to get compensated. He should known better. Dancers want money not drinks. Don't feel guilt. But do try to avoid scamming like mentioned above.




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    Hell no! Don't feel bad at all except feel bad or mad at yourself for sitting with him so long before you made any money and be mad at yourself for agreeing to leave the club with him for only your tip out amount! If he wants to see you OTC then he needs to cough up between $500-$1000 for your time only! Nothing else but your time!

    NEVER sit with a customer for more than 15 min (this is stretching too) and only if this is a very slow time unless you're getting paid to sit there. And considering he kept on refusing dances, as soon as he refused you should've nicely excused yourself.

    And, btw, I don't think you scammed him at all. He was drunk and he's a big boy!
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    Hell no! You're better than me because I would have taken the money and kept on going...
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    I think it is wrong to take a customer's money if you lie to him about what you'll do for it.

    It was not compensation for your time - you should have worked that out before you spent 45 minutes with him. He gave you money under false pretenses. The fact that you danced for him later is irrelevant... he may have gotten his money's worth, but that's not what you and he agreed on when he gave you the cash. And you know good and damn well he never would have given it to you for dances. That's theft.

    This kind of behavior gives all dancers a bad reputation and represents your club poorly.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Brooke View Post
    I think it is wrong to take a customer's money if you lie to him about what you'll do for it.

    It was not compensation for your time - you should have worked that out before you spent 45 minutes with him. He gave you money under false pretenses. The fact that you danced for him later is irrelevant... he may have gotten his money's worth, but that's not what you and he agreed on when he gave you the cash. And you know good and damn well he never would have given it to you for dances. That's theft.

    This kind of behavior gives all dancers a bad reputation and represents your club poorly.
    In a way thats how I felt but he's always there wasting girls time! On top of that he gets rude with the girls and never spends money! I feel bad, but that wasn't the first time we had the conversation about me leaving with him! After the first 3 times it gets annoying so I tried to see what he would give!

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    Yea I think it's wrong to tell a customer you're gonna do something for the money, and then take the money but not do what you said you were gonna do for it. But yeah, other than that, I would have just taken the money for all the time you spent with him.

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    First, you should have said, if you wanna get me outside this club and have a relaionship or whatever he was getting at, you need to take me to the champagne room or spend some cash so I can get to know who you are, what kinda girl do you think I am, bla bla bla, and flipt the script on him: Never let a man get over on you in the club, or feel bad for them, feel bad for them for 2 songs, then ask for a dance, you are in there to work, ask yourself if they feel bad if you cant feed your kids or pay your bills causing your listening to their whiney ass for 45 minutes when you could have been talking/dancing for someone else.

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    There's no point feeling bad about it, and you did give him dances, but you did sort of run a dirty hustle on him. In the future, invest your energy in finding guys you can make money off of fair and square, and not into "tricking" it out of a drunk dude
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