I seriously think guys get off to this.
Julia





I seriously think guys get off to this.
Julia
I think they think we take that as a compliment.
I think they do too...which I can barely comprehend, but whatever.
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My new fave line which I learned on sw:
"You're right....I AM smart! That's why I do this job!"
A lame compliment indeed... and I've found it's usually given by the guys who aren't spending money. As if "complimenting" us is going to make us all flattered (because we've never heard it before) and that boost to our super-low self-esteem is worth it's weight in gold. Hehehe.![]()
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I'm sure some guys mean it as a compliment but a guy I had last night, I am sure he was getting off to it. I was "dancing" for him and he kept talking to me like I was a kid and saying things like "do your mommy and daddy know you work here" "you're too sweet to work here" and stuff like that.
He didn't seem to be saying it as a compliment. He seemed to be getting off to the fact that I was a young, naive girl.
Julia




If you feel that someone is insulting then leave his ass! Don't dance for him, there's plenty of other customers that will pay you nicely for your time. I have NO patience at all anymore for these f*ckers that come into the club to suck up our time, try to date us but not pay us the "I'd much rather take you out to dinner" types and the ones that say to us "you're too good to work here", "do your parents know you work here?". Next time I hear that I'll say to them "Do your parents know that come here and spend money here?". Lately, I just turn the question right back on them. If they ask me how old I am, or how much money I make, etc. I turn the same question right back on them. I think when they hear it asked towards them they stop and think how it sounds, well, at least some of them do. Some have said "no, really, how old are you?" and I do the "no, really, how old are you?" and then walk away.





This guy was paying though. I wasn't insulted, I just found it really weird. Either way, it was worth the $80 to put up with 12 minutes of why I'm too good to work here.
Julia
Lol why is asking how old you are so insulting...?





Well I suppose, but I see it as sort of a get-to-know you question. Or you could justbe polite and say "Well that, sir, will have to remain a mystery. Didn't your mama teach you manners?" with a wink. No need to be rude. They're just trying to make conversation.
I fucking HATE the "too good to work here" line! I just respond by saying its the best fit for me since I love to get naked and I love the flexible schedule for school.




That's like saying you're too good for your boyfriend.
Yeah.....thanks........NOT.





These guys to me are in the same category as those awful White Knight guys.
you live like an ivy vine
you can only survive by clinging onto trees
that's your flaw
put down some roots so you can stand on your own
-Kenpachi




Ugh, I can't stand back handed "compliments."





I used to get that a lot when I first started. Or "you're too nice to take for a dance". I think it wore off as I became less polite, more stripper-like. Not that I'm rude, but I try to speak to the guys with the dance in mind, and I try to have conversations that...well, I don't know how to describe it. Just a little different in tone...
Although I still have some people say, like other strippers for instance, "you don't look like a stripper". Or "you don't look like a smoker". And yet, here I am.
But I do agree that some guys 'get off' on the innocent thing. Like I had this guy tell me how he loved how "middleclass" I seemed. Oh, gag me. He was such an elitist, racist prick too. I guess you just have to work what you've got. Often times it's the guys who try to discuss the meta-stripping issues, as though they know everything about the whole scene...sort of like the rescue guys...basically any guy who wants to discuss 'why I strip'...Ehh, not big spenders. Time wasters. As a general rule, if the guy annoys me, I ask for a dance sooner, so if my instincts are right, I don't have to waste my time chatting up an asshole.





Yea, "you're too good to be here that's why I can't buy a dance. I respect you too much. " Buuuuuuuull sshit!
I think it's awesome to turn the questions back on them... never thought of doing that before. And yeah, the "rescue" type are really annoying too. Like they want to come into the club and find a poor stripper and take her away from this awful life... give me a break! Think over the weekend I had four job offers by custys... all in sales lol





I just give them a kind of grossed-out look and say: "You're weird." and walk away.
^^^ LOL! That's pretty straightforward. I love it.![]()
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