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    How do I go about changing my stripper persona? The whole time ive been stripping I've done the fun, flirty girl-next-door thing. I want to change to a sexy seducing temptress (But still be approachable, not intimidating ). I am at a loss.
    New nail polish colors, new outfit(s), hair, shoes I've got.
    But what about the attitude and the dancing style? This is what I am having problems with. Any suggestions?
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    Why are you changing your look?
    you live like an ivy vine
    you can only survive by clinging onto trees
    that's your flaw
    put down some roots so you can stand on your own
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    Default Re: changing your look from girl next door fun and flirty to sexy seductress

    ...burn custies with cigarette butts, maybe?

    I'd probably just practice making "eyes" at people. Sexy seductress probably would play off your eyes the most, so use them.
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    Default Re: changing your look from girl next door fun and flirty to sexy seductress

    mostly because I am bored with the old one. Done it for a year, and I want to try a new type of hustle and see how it goes. If it doesn't work for me I can always try something else. Also I am trying out new clubs and want a new look for the new club.
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    Instead of girl pastels and white ruffles try rich jeweled colors and dark eye makeup. Instead of straight hair try curled tousled VS hair.
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    its HARD if thats your natural look. if you figure it out, let me know! haha.. i always do best in cutsey outfits. i have a little girl voice and ive been told i look very innocent. when i wear outfits that arent as cutsey i dont do as well, even if they look great on me.

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    Curl your hair and bust out the huge, dark, murderous fake eyelashes. I've noticed that which eyelashes I wear to work determines my personality for the evening. I make the most money with the thick long black killer lashes, not because the guys like them any better but because I can feel and see them when I blink and it puts me in a different headspace. You just can't help feeling like a sex goddess when you're batting those things.

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    I could never pull of the young sweet girl when i danced. I tried when i was 21. No good for me.

    First fluff the hair, make it wild tease it etc. Wear "sexy" outfits mainly solid colours. Instead of pink lipstick go for red! Eyeliner, blacks...make it smudged, smokey! Thigh highs with a sexy seam up the back of the leg!

    No pinks, no pastels, no ponytails, no cute outfits. No short skirts that are flarred.

    Vamp it up with sexy not cutsy clothes. Hair is a must!

    Good luck.

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    maybe change your stage name also. If your look is cute, your name probably is too. Even if not, I've always found that changing my name when I change my look helps to make things all fresh and new.

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    Two words: False Lashes.
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    I cant do sweet girl to save my life. I do smokey eyes(I wish I could do fake lashes, but i just cant get the hang of it), GLOSSY lips(no matter what color). ..and sexier (as opposed to innocent) outfits. Short dresses and skirts in white or black or jewel tones(I wear VERY little pink)

    I also smoke at work(rarely otherwise) and have known other girls who fake-smoked(didnt inhale) just because it gives off a bit of that badass not-so-innocent vibe.


    Watch what you drink too. A simple thing as ordering a jack abd diet or vodka and club soda instead of malibu and pinapple takes that innocent little girl vibe away

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    Oh and attitude! The sweet girly attitude works great for many, but if you're going the other way, be very very confident without being cocky.

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    I would also suggest speaking a lower toned, breathier voice. The kind of voice that makes guys lean in close to hear what you have to say. Speaking slowly is also very sensual. Kinda puts guys in a trance.
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    i will try all these great ideas! def. need to work on my attitude tho...
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    Why not just do both on different days? I can do the whole little girl thing one moment and the next (though often spurred by my own mood change) I can be the slutty dirty sex kitten. Any mood sort of comes natural to me though. I'm a bit scatter brained and my moods change quite a bit just whenever.

    Oh, and to sex it up, be sexy sarcastic, like, I'll hold out my hand to guys and they shake it, then I'll tell them "Is that any way to greet a lady?" And all hold it out again in a manner suggesting I want them to kiss it. They eat that shit up.
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    This persona you have in mind... Can you see her? Do you know her? - now breathe life into her and BE her.

    (Even if she was wearing 'sweet' clothes you would somehow know it was a lie... Like a wolf in sheeps clothing. You know what I mean?)

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    Quote Originally Posted by cameron_keys View Post
    I also smoke at work(rarely otherwise) and have known other girls who fake-smoked(didnt inhale) just because it gives off a bit of that badass not-so-innocent vibe
    I don't know about this one. IMO, smoking doesn't come off as sophisticated and I've heard a lot of guys say they find smoking a huge turn off. And it just isn't worth the risk of getting addicted to cigarettes.

    I agree about the big eyelashes and red lips, and the big hair. That's the look I go for and it works for me. I loooooooove girly things like hair and makeup though, so it's easy for me.
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    I think I'm going to "change" into this too. I started thinking about it right before I saw this thread, so thats convenient!

    Fawn: I really like that hand idea, any more tips like that?

    off to search about new persona....

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    Quote Originally Posted by britt244 View Post
    its HARD if thats your natural look. if you figure it out, let me know! haha.. i always do best in cutsey outfits. i have a little girl voice and ive been told i look very innocent. when i wear outfits that arent as cutsey i dont do as well, even if they look great on me.
    I agree.
    I have tried sooo hard to be the sexy girl and not the girl next door. Bright red lips and nails, curled hair, big eyelashes, red dresses....it never worked.
    Men STILL told me I was "so innocent looking". I gave up and got bangs. It works much better than trying to go against how I look naturally.

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    Sounds like you've already got the look part down, so that's awesome.


    Dance and walk more slowly, lean over to sit on his chair more slowly, talk less b4 and during a LD (I never understood why so many of them want to talk anyway, lol)

    I think the 'sexy seductress' is better anyway, especially if you've got a good girl next door face and personality anyway. They love that shit, the combination....

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    Oh, I agree with walking slowly. When I was in Paris I noticed how slow and elegant people walked there, it appeared as if they were royalty. Then, When I was in Dubai and the little tourist bellydance show, some guy say's to me "your American arn't you?" I said yes how did you know, he said "Americans walk so fast, like they're always in a hurry." I slowed it down after that, now a lot o fmen tell me they like the way I walk.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Joplin View Post
    I think I'm going to "change" into this too. I started thinking about it right before I saw this thread, so thats convenient!

    Fawn: I really like that hand idea, any more tips like that?

    off to search about new persona....
    Other things I do I basically got from watching various Marilyn Monroe movies. I really like that one with Lauren Bacall, I think it's How to Marry a Millionair, a lot of actions from all three girls in that movie I have stolen and use at work.
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