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    I have a customer who is obviously into the whole GFE thing. He comes in about once a week or every other week and gets about 15 - 20 dances each time. I don't want to lose him as a customer, especially because I have very few regs now from switching clubs recently and he posts reviews on a popular forum for custies here in LA. Things have been really slow, or I would have blown him off when he asked me to go have dinner with him this week. He seems very trustworthy, just lonely, so I'm going to do it. He isn't the type of guy who is super loaded and could pay whatever I ask for, maybe a few hundred plus dinner. And that would be fine. We didn't discuss a price for me to have dinner with him, so maybe he thinks this is free?
    I just have no idea how to ask for money without ruining the whole GFE mood! He knows I don't work that night so I'm not sure if I can lie and say that I need money so I'm going to work instead (in order to make him pay). Ehhh I think I screwed up here. Any ideas?

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    Is there a restaurant in your club?

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    No, he wants to meet in my city -he lives in the next county over and is willing to drive to meet me
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    Does he know he's paying for more than just dinner?! If not, I would bring it up so you are both on the same page. Otherwise, I would bail and enjoy my free night sans custies.

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    That's what I'm asking - how do I bring it up without seeming greedy?

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    I'd do what you mentioned earlier about saying that you're going to go into work because you've got an extra bill due or something of that nature. If he intended to pay you anyway, he'll say "Oh, well I was going to give you $xxx to go to dinner with me".

    ETA: Oh wait.. I re-read what you posted. Does your club have a schedule? Mine is one where we just show up when we feel like it. If it does, then maybe you can say you called in and asked about picking up an extra shift and the manager said it's available if you want it? Or something like that..

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    I'd just be straight up. The hinting thing... guys don't get it a lot of the time.

    Just say, "I'd love to go to dinner with you, but I can't take off work unless I still make some money. I average about 500 (or whatever). But I'd skip work and have a great time at dinner with you for just 350 (or whatever)."

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    I have a few customers who I see for dinner on a semi-regular basis. It's always just dinner, and I guess I've gotten lucky because I always get $$$ and they never push for anything "Extra".

    When I firsted started seeing them OTC, I just said one of two things either that I need to get $$$ if I'm going to take a night off work in order to compensate for what I would have made. OR I mention that other customers always pay me XXXXX amount for a certain amount of time, or dinner or whatever....guys are competitive so they usually offer more.


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    These are all good...I don't have a schedule, so maybe I can say that I'm a bit short on rent (since it is due really soon) and I won't be able to make it to dinner because I want to try and make some extra cash. He'll feel bad if I can't go, and probably offer me money. If that doesn't work, I'll be blunt with him and say that if he wants me to go have fun with him (yay - dinner, how fun.) that it would be really nice if he could help me out. He'll ask how much I need and I can name my price.

    I just wish he would OFFER me an amount so that I can take it or leave it. I hate asking.

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    if he likes you as much as it seems... then i dont think hed mind paying you.

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    In vegas if he were a gentleman he would take you gambling after dinner and let you keep the winnings. In LA, I dunno... maybe have lunch at the mall and let him take you shopping afterwards?

    Its not cash but sometimes presents are even better. Maybe go browsing in Victoria Secret and try on sexy lingerie and let him pick out what he likes. I've always wanted to do that. Haven't had the opportunity yet tho.

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    CA$$$H, woman, CA$$$$H. If you make $500 a night, tell him $400 plus dinner. PM me, I know some of the guys from that website (if you want, that is).
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    Damn him! So I texted him saying I might need to work that day because I am short on rent and so it depends on what he might be able to do $$-wise because I would rather have dinner than go to work.
    I think that was pretty self-explanatory.

    His reply: "I can take u 2 dinner after work?"

    AAARRRGH!

    What do I say?

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    I'd be to tired to go out after working! I'd really like to skip work...... but I need that xxx$ I'd make tonight! Maybe you could take care of that so we can go out

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    ^perfect! I sent him a shortened version - I will see what he says.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AlexxaHex View Post
    Damn him! So I texted him saying I might need to work that day because I am short on rent and so it depends on what he might be able to do $$-wise because I would rather have dinner than go to work.
    I think that was pretty self-explanatory.

    His reply: "I can take u 2 dinner after work?"

    AAARRRGH!

    What do I say?
    What a dumbass!!! Yeah, sure, like you're really going to want to have dinner with him after you've just danced your ass off and put on this entertaining show for a bunch of other men for like 7 hrs (that were paying you). Why the hell does he even think you'd want to go have dinner with him for free, especially after working and being tired and after having been paid the entire night? Ughh, what an idiot! I hope he wakes up and realizes that time is money and your time is money!
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    I know! He's had a lot of experience with strippers, so I can only conclude that he's trying to see how far I will go for how little.
    I really need the money but I can't put myself in a stupid position of not getting paid what I'm worth. If he responds with something idiotic, I'm just going to be blunt with him. If he doesn't go for it, then he'll just have to get dances or dinner from someone else.

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    Guy sounds like a chump. If he was a gentleman he would have immediately offered you the $$$.....see if he'll cave and give it to you....but from my experience if they don't go for it right away, it's not worth it, cause you'll have to squeeze it out of them every time.


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    can u just sent a cute little message like "i would rather get paid to spend time with you and insert a smiley ?"

    Haha i have no clue about this stuff, although one regular offered to buy me some leather outfits...im not sure of his motives though.

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    Gahhhh! What a fucking LOSER!!

    So he types:
    "Do not want to stop you. I can perhaps stop by at 6 to se if u r not tired. Maybe do dinner when money is not an issue?"

    Motherfucker - I feel like reaching through the phone and punching him.

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    He sounds dense and only looking to shell out for dinner.

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    I said: "Money is always going to be an issue for me. I have a kid to support and my time is precious to us both. See u around sometime..."

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    ^
    Good answer! You know what you want and need already, don't waste any time on people who don't get that.

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    So obviously he isnt willing to pay for dinner. Forget it and move on...if you push it you'll risk the money you make ITC off him. Whenever he mentions it..just make excuses"I have to work" "I have to get home to the baby" blah blah..you know the drill.

    I;ve lead guys on for years doing that

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    Wow. What a classy response on your part. I would have had a remarkably difficult time not telling him to fuck off.

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