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    So on my 2nd day dancing I met this guy is super sweet. I spent some time sitting with him at the bar and he bought me drinks. He also spent more than $100 on dances from me. We really clicked friendship-wise. He told me he wanted to be sure he was there when I was at the club next and so I gave him my email.

    How do I go about this? I don't want to sit and chat with him for free all night because I need to be making money at my job but obviously he is willing to spend money for my time as he took me for a good number of dances. But at the same time, I don't want to be a bitch and pretend to be his friend because I truly do like him as a human being. This guy was really into me btw!!

    What can I do to maximize money while at the same time maximizing the friendship part?
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    When you see him, go and say hi, talk for a few (10) minutes. Then ask if he's ready for a dance. He'll either say yes or if he's not ready, many guys will tell you to go ahead and make some money and to come back if you don't get any dances. After you're done dancing for him, sit for about 5-7 minutes then go find other guys to dance for.
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    ^ great advice. add: do not sit for more than 10 minutes without getting paid or moving on.

    as for the email: "hi, i'm running out the door, but i just wanted to let you know that i'll be working tonight/tomorrow night at 9. i hope i see you! ciao, *insert your name you told him here*"

    second: you need to have a dancer email, not your own, without your real name (including last name) being attached. for ex: i use [email protected] as my dancer one. i check it once a week ish. i also have one using my real name but that just says a nickname on the "sent by" part (in his inbox) when i reply. this way, if i respond, it has nothing to do with my real name and esp. last name.

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    I email themon my days off. Everyone emails or calls on the day they work, but I don't like to be obvious that I am calling them just so they come and get dances.
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