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    So last night P (the bf) and I had a talk, and ever since we found out about this pregnancy, its been kind of a wake-up call to get our asses more in gear. Since we met each other (summer 2006), we both feel that we have helped each other grow and be better people. We always talked about marriage before. We love each other so much, and he is the coolest guy in the whole world. No matter what we choose to do about this pregnancy, we both want to be prepared whether we choose to keep it; but if we don't keep it, make sure we are well prepared in the future (buying a house, health insurance, and building up sufficient savings) so we'll never be met with this choice again.

    P said to me this morning that he wanted to get married by next year for sure, at least by spring. But I hate spring (and summer), so I told him "Why not this winter? We could try and do it in front of the big tree in NYC" I always wanted to get married in the winter, especially around Christmas, because I'm a Christmas Whore and want all the magic that comes with it.

    Really, I never really wanted a big wedding (neither did he). Fuck that! I'm so socially awkward when it comes to big events, especially if it would be a big event focused on me. Having to confess my love for someone else in front of a bunch of people, then having them gush all over me, is my personal idea of hell. We could just have a big party one day in the future instead, just to celebrate, without the pressure of planning all the minute details that go into actual weddings. But when it all comes down to it, I just want it done without there being a huge headache, seeing there's already enough on the plate.


    So, SW NYC-ers (or anybody else!), thoughts/opinions?

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    If it's a simple, inexpensive wedding you want, I don't think Rockefeller Center is a good idea at all.

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    Default Re: Might Be Getting Married in NYC!!

    don't feel pressured into getting married. that's the last thing you want to do.

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    Wow Congratulations!!!!!!!!!! You seem like such a sweet girl I hope everything works out for you. I think a tree is a really cute idea. Reminds me of Miranda's wedding in the park she saw (SATC)

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    ^^Thank you!! I never saw that episode, but that sounds like a cute idea too!

    Corgan I know what you are saying, but I don't feel pressured at all. Its something I really want, we have been discussing for quite a while now, and we were planning on doing soon anyway. I am 100% sure.

    Damn, I hope its not real expensive to get married outdoors. I'm researching it now, I'll report back the costs. We don't live far from NYC (about 1:15), so we won't have to spend an insane amount of money on a hotel room, which will help a TON.

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    Well, congrats! No matter how it goes, or how spendy it is, I'm really happy for you guys.
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    Congratulations, and good for you for not being pressured to make a big to do about it. Save your self the headache and enjoy being in love.

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    if you get a friend to get ordained online, then it shouldn't be $$$costly$$$ at all. Just don't parade around the fact ya'll are getting hitched in the middle of rockafeller center, b/c then they might be all wierd about permits and fees.

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    ^^ Thats true. Or a notary public would work.

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    Congrats! Much love and blessings to you both!
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    Just an FYI, notary publics are only allowed to do weddings in a few states. Make sure you get someone who is legally allowed to officiate at a wedding in New York.

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    here is how you can get a pal ordained to help you tie the knot.

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    ^^ Friends of mine were just married by a minister ordained on that site!

    NY seems a little complicated, but not too bad:

    You could also exchange rings in front of the tree and be married by a JP or something earlier or later that day.

    And congrats, on all counts.

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    thanks for the websites ladies!! Hopefully I can make this whole thing work!!

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