Sometimes when the club isn't so busy when I ask a guy for a dance he will as me " Are you making money tonight?", OR "How is your night going?". They aren't just normal conversation starters, it seems my answer is directly related to whether or not they will say yes or no. I have a hard time saying I am having a bad night (even if I am) I guess I don't want them to think I am not busy or maybe it's my pride. I always indicate I am doing well. My question is though, should I say it's bad? Are they specifically asking so they feel like they can help me out if it's bad and I am srewing that up? I have NEVER got a dance from one of these guys, and it happens like with 2-3 guys a week maybe. If I say it's bad , will they pity me? I need money, but that is so weird.
Also, it seems like these type of guys are dissapointed that I dont have kids, like they want me to be needy. I just can't bring myself to tell them that my fuel pump needs to be replaced, that my housepayment is too much for me and I am relocating, that I am trying to catch up on back taxes, i owe a crapload of medical bills , and I got a DUI that I am paying out the ass for(all true), but none of their business. There are just soooo many more of these types, being that it is around the holidays and usually I don't miss their lack of business. I need a hustle for them.


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Picaresque, I like your response.

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