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    So a very regular customer of my club (for years and years) comes in and we shoot the shit for a while. After a while, he mentions dinner. I'm quick to dismiss things like this but he waves his hand and says he's not interested in a date, rather he needs a date. He works for a pharmaceutical company that is holding it's annual Christmas party at a local, fairly swanky hotel. He needs a date. He's willing to supply funds for a gown (though I have one of my own. Need to use that prom dress sometime. LOL) and jewelry. I could get my own transportation to and from. He just wants a friend (which we are), preferrably a young lady friend, to come and be his date. When the night is over, I can take my taxi or get my ride home and that would be the end of it. He mentioned if it would make me more comfortable to do periodic check-ins with a friend, he's more than all for it.

    I'm not sure as to whether I should even consider it. It's just he's a nice guy and the party does exist and is really high end.

    What do you guys think? Should I ponder it?

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    Default Re: Arm Candy for an Evening

    don't do it for free.

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    Default Re: Arm Candy for an Evening

    strawberry, if you were to do this OTC, how would you wanna be compensated? Is him paying for the new dress enough compensation with the fun evening? would you additionally ask for a flat fee? is it gonna be on a night that you usually dance? would you be losing money or just having a fun experience? It sounds fun if it doesn't jeopardize anything.




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    Default Re: Arm Candy for an Evening

    usually this means a customer is testing his boundaries with you.

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    I'm aware of the testing thing, and I would be compensated for my night since it would be a Saturday. Somewhere around $600-$800, which is a nights wage for me on a Saturday if I really push myself.

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    I would totally do it. I mean if he was paying $600 to $800. It seems like the ideal OTC paid date situation. I don't like shopping because I'd rather have the cash, and dinner is weird because it feels to intimate - so I think it would be a nice way to make some cash.
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    It sounds like you have known the guy for a long time and he just needs a date. As long as you are properly compensated for it and it sounds legit I would do it. Get the money up front or when you arrive, and if it gets weird or something just bail. And you mentioned its swanky so it could be really fun too!

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    yep, I'd do it. Actually soinds like fun, you can be whoever you want for an evening. Not all customers are "customers" all the time.
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    I would do it. Sounds like the right situation...
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    do it! and get him to buy you a real nice dress..... unless what you have from prom really is "swanky" enough. You need something adult and sophisticated....

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    That sounds like so much fun! Get yourself a new dress while you're at it if he's paying! Have fun

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    Well the affair is in two weeks and I'm trying to avoid any situation where my name and address would be on file for him to access, ie. the dress-fitters. I have a really nice, white, form fitting gown. I wish I could find a picture.

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    It DOES sound like the right situation. Especially bc you know him so well, and obviously he's thought about what yr requirements would be to let him do it, and he offered it.


    Plus at a hotel, you will most likely be sitting at those banquet table/rounds, with 10 seats in 'em. Which is why he especially wants a date, and why it will be cool for you bc it won't be intimate.....dinner will prob be like 1/2 hour anyway, the rest would be all dancing and socializing!

    You'll prob have a great time! I used to banquet serve at the Hyatt and they had some SWANK fuckin rocking Xmas parties----everyone looks fabulous, and dancing all nite. Open bar!!!!!

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    Take me with you... I want to dress up.
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    Model the dress for a friend? If it seems appropriate..take the money for the dress anyway and get new shoes or jewlery or good perfume to complete the outfit, get paid UP FRONT if he is paying you for your time....and go and have fun.

    I would...sounds fairly problem free and easy money

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    The white one on the left is the gown I wore.

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    I would do it... but for at least $800 plus dress money. I mean, you kind of WILL be working the entire time... keeping up with whatever cover story he wants to use and being charming and all of that. It seems safe... your own transportation, a public place, and random check-in's... how many hours are we talking here?
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    i think he should meet you in the middle of 600-800 unless you really honestly make 800 on a saturday.

    i want to make 800 on a satruday.

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    I say Go for it. I have a few guys I've known for years too and I'd go with them. That dress is really nice, great dress for what it sounds like he wants to take you too. If ya go....Let us know how it went.
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    The dress will totally work. You should go. It'll be fun and sounds like this guy is your friend. I've had a couple of custys become really good long time friends. I'd hold out for $800 . It sounds fine from what you are describing.

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    I think it sounds like it's one of the safer end OTC experiences, especially since you will be transporting yourself. I would do it!

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    That dress is perfectly fine.

    So you take the dress money and pamper yourself..get your hair and nails done, massage, whatever...plusa any accessories you need. It would really be like going to a grown up prom!

    And getting paid for i t!

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    I agree that the dress you have is fine.

    Go,have a ball, and get paid!
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    I really like the dress you already have, it's gorgeous!

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    Hey I'm doing it in Vegas! (Okay but I actually like this guy)... so why not?! Have fun, get your money up front, get a cab if hell boils over.


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