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    Hey everyone, since this is my first post, I'd like to say hello...my name's Jaden, I'm 19 and I've been dancing for about 3 months.

    So I don't know if this is the norm or not..but the owner of my club is a complete ass! I was working one night, the club was packed, but I could not sell a dance to save my life. I resorted to selling raffle tickets for $2 a piece. After selling about half, I saw two wealthy-looking gentleman and approached them. I stood beside them, smiled, and waited patiently for them to acknowledge me because they were talking and I didn't want to interrupt. Finally, the one guy looks to me, irritated, like I had just ripped major ass. I said as sweetly as I could, "Hey there, would you be interested in buying a raffle ticket for a lapdance with me?" He looks at his buddy and scoffs and says in the cockiest voice I've ever heard, "Actually, I'm the owner." and turns back to his friend and continues talking. I had never seen the guy before, and I met a couple who works there who said they were the owners. That incident just made my night terrible and I felt like a useless p.o.s. My question is, is it the norm to be a complete jerkoff if one owns a strip club??

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    Yes. Sadly, it's very normal. I think that guy was fucking with you though, since you said you'd already met the "owners."

    ...where do you work that uses tickets? I thought that was a Western Canada thing.
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    Yep...overinflated egos,undeserved senses of entitlement and tiny dick syndrome and you've got abourt 80% of all strip club owners....

    Dont let the douche get to you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cameron_keys View Post
    Yep...overinflated egos,undeserved senses of entitlement and tiny dick syndrome and you've got abourt 80% of all strip club owners....

    Dont let the douche get to you.
    WORD.

    Is it normal? I know you're new to the club scene, and I'm not exactly a vet, I've only been in it since 2005... however, yes, this is normal. And not just owners, management is often like this as well. But there are diamonds in the rough. Good luck, sweetie.

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    I suppose it could depend. If you're working in a larger chain club or corporate establishment, then there could be partners who make up the ownership. Some places have had 7 partners at one time. In time, you'll figure out who is who.
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    Yes, I think that's part of the job description!
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    Welcome to stripperweb! And yes, strip club owners are notorious for being cocky and rude. They have serious entitlement issues most of the time. I have only worked in one club where the owner treated me and the other girls with respect. If you got caught lying though...oh boy.

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    but since youre new, dont go into a new club (if/when you switch) assumming the owner will be a jerk. they arent all bad!

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    you'd think they'd be a little nicer since we're making all this money for them. yeah right!

    don't let it get to you. he's just a jerk.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jaden_GD View Post
    So I don't know if this is the norm or not..but the owner of my club is a complete ass!
    I'm not laughing AT you, but this made me chuckle. Like, "Ok, so I don't know if this is normal or not, but my cat just pooped and it's stinky!" Sadly, yes--I've found it's the norm.

    That's sounds so degrading and awful. Most owners can't be bothered to acknowledge any of the ladies that work at their club. On one hand I can understand. If you've owned a strip club for 10 years you've seen a million women come and go. But, at the end of the day, decent people still have basic manners, I think, regardless of how jaded they are.

    He should appreciate the fact that you're a hustler and not sitting in the dressing room! Instead he's offended that you don't know who is royal highness is. Like another member here, Yekhefah says, club management will step over a dollar to pick up a dime.

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    i had to deal with a shitty owner before, and eventually he got his. (he died a painful death)

    don't let him/them get to you... but are you 100% sure that he's an owner? usually the owners i knew were:

    1. never at the club. but if they were, they were locked up in the office or screaming at us in the dressing room. not hanging out where custies are.
    2. sitting at the bar near the back.

    owners can be rude, but for the most part, they seem to keep to themselves. (in my exp. anyway.)

    my current owner is always at my club... but it's because i think he's running some undercover gambling thing. not sure though...

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    My dj came running up to me the first time the owner was in to let me know who he was so I wouldn't go up and ask for a dance. he told me the owner would just look at me and ask if I was mentally ill.
    That saved my ass. The owner can be quite scary.

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    In my experiance there are a few nice owners but so many are jerks met more than one or two who would call me in the office and try to get a blow job or more from me.>It seems to me a guy becomes a strip club owner because he wants to hang around woman all day maybe after a while they get bored with that aspect but seems to me they all start out like that
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    Quote Originally Posted by kitty260 View Post

    ...where do you work that uses tickets? I thought that was a Western Canada thing.

    I work in Wisconsin. My old club did it too...but I didn't have to do that as much there...cheap pervs

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    Quote Originally Posted by Habinairo View Post
    My dj came running up to me the first time the owner was in to let me know who he was so I wouldn't go up and ask for a dance. he told me the owner would just look at me and ask if I was mentally ill.
    That saved my ass. The owner can be quite scary.

    Ahhh I wish I had been as lucky as you. I think I just work for a bunch of lazy slobs

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    Quote Originally Posted by Corgan View Post
    i had to deal with a shitty owner before, and eventually he got his. (he died a painful death)

    don't let him/them get to you... but are you 100% sure that he's an owner? usually the owners i knew were:

    1. never at the club. but if they were, they were locked up in the office or screaming at us in the dressing room. not hanging out where custies are.
    2. sitting at the bar near the back.

    owners can be rude, but for the most part, they seem to keep to themselves. (in my exp. anyway.)

    my current owner is always at my club... but it's because i think he's running some undercover gambling thing. not sure though...
    I've seen him lurking behind the bouncer every few weeks. My old owner wasn't too bad though. It seems that the only nice people there are the bouncer and one of the bartenders. Hmpf.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Habinairo View Post
    My dj came running up to me the first time the owner was in to let me know who he was so I wouldn't go up and ask for a dance. he told me the owner would just look at me and ask if I was mentally ill.
    That saved my ass. The owner can be quite scary.
    When i applied at my new club, I had been told that this one guy was the manager, and then this woman came in and finished my application stuff. I didn't know who she was, and when she gave me her name, I said, "Are you another of the managers?" She got this kind of funny (like amused) look on her face and said, "Yeah, kind of..." Then I see the manager behind her back pointing frantically at her and mouthing, "OWNER! OWNER!" I gave a little nod and the owner continued the hiring, but I'm still grateful to the manager for telling me who was who! (And it's confusing in our club, because we have a small club and a TON of managers.)

    Our owners are actually really nice, IMO. It's a husband/wife couple, and I think the fact that there's a female owner helps. Plus, they took this club from one of the worst in town to the BEST--new facilities, better dancers, and just a whole slew of improvements. So they're around a lot, but probably because I think they view the club as their "baby"... They've put a LOT into it, and they do seem to take really good care of it.

    My last club? We only saw the owner if there was something wrong.

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    I guess it could be true am I always odd man out?! WTF?! I swear its like this on every damn subject!

    All the owners at all the clubs Ive worked at have been nothing but nice to me. At my current club the owners are there every single night, they know every girl and are super nice. At previous clubs Ive gotten to know the owners quite well and they were always super nice to me. Even when I worked at The Body Shop in Los Angeles the owner flipped out when he fired my friend and I was leaving too and they unfired her and sent the OTHER girl home (they got into a fight) so that I would stay...

    Ive never had a problem with owners but I guess if it was a Deja Vue club I could totally see them being asses...

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    ^ im with you there! very rarely have i worked with an asshole owner. even if ive heard that theyre assholes to some people, i never saw anything bad anywhere but at one club.

    which isnt to say theyre all good people. one of the owners of scores here cheats on his wife with girls all the time. doesnt make him less nice to the girls, though. his personal life is his business.

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    Ick. The owner of my club stops in from time to time, but never speaks to any of the girls. Before my club became a strip club it was a gay bar (geared towards men). The owner is gay and speaks VERY VERY poorly of his staff. He calls us "sluts" and "whores". I've only heard this from a reliable DJ source.

    He still never looks at us when he is around and didn't look me in the eye when I've spoken to him.

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    The only owners I have encountered were stand-offish and never there. We also had multiple owners and I never did figure out how many owners there actually were. The only guy that came around supposedly only owned a 5% share.

    Some GM's on the other hand (I can think of one in particular) have been complete disrespectful man-whore motherfucking dancer-hating power-tripping assholes. But he did wear nice shoes. Hmph.
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    Ive never been asked directly for favours from an owner but in two cases it was implied...I left those clubs, but now looking back I wondered if I should have gone over thier heads and talk to the owner instead???
    I wish there was some beat a dickhead hotline u can call to put these losers in their place..like have some big guy beat them up for a fee..lol.

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    God, I must be the only dancer in the world (besides most of the girls I work with)... I ADORE my owner. Well one of the owners anyway, the only one who is ever really in the club... he's the GM too.

    Anyway he is awesome, he has become a very good friend. He tells me all the time, if only I had more girls like you, Desiree. And I always think if only there were more managers/owners like you. He's always classy, looks out for his girls, asks our opinion on things (although a lot of dancers are whiners, he has to put up with a lot of bitching, but for the most part they all think he's fair). And he's willing to work with his girls to make sure they are happy.

    But don't ever lie to him or intentionally disrespect him or break his rules. He will fire your ass in a heartbeat. But, the girls all really respect him. I will never work at another club.
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    Good expirence with body shop management? Holy shit youre lucky, they were nothing short of awful to me!

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    Eeeewwwwwww, what a jaded, miserable little guy, Jaden. I am sorry to hear that, but welcome. I've met our owner before, and he was pretty nice, knock on wood. He went for a ride along while we did promotions for our club. We are lucky to have nice owners and awesome managers!

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