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    As most of you know my husband owns 2 jewelry stores. One of them is only open friday and saturday. Well he has this horrible woman client we will call her D. D is old and rich and the most awful person I have ever met. She will come to his store at least once a weekend and spend HOURS hanging out and harassing my husband and his co worker. I'm not exaggerating, I was there all day yesterday decorating for christmas and she was there at least 3 hours maybe more. For some reason she just feels entitled to their time and being at the store every weekend for a few hours is a part of her weekly routine. But she spends money EVENTUALLY so my husband puts up with it.
    Now i am the nicest girl you will ever meet, I am polite to EVERYONE and cordial. I pride myself on being a great trophy wife and I know my husband appreciates when i schmooze his clients a bit, and they all love me and always want to know when i will be stopping by for a visit.
    Well this woman has been a cunt from the beginning. I thnk part of it is jealousy as crazy as that sounds seeing how she is well over 60. I think she conciders my husband Neill and his co worker Nick her little boyfriends or something. She comes to get attention from them and saw me as a threat.
    Well the first major thing she does to get my hate train rolling is after she finds out i'm pregnant this summer she tells Neill I am trying to trap him and take all his money. WAY out of line. And he told her so. And she cried and apologized and came back the next week.
    THEN he FORCES me to invite her to our wedding reception. Which i completly disagreed with and this totally caused tension in our relationship. But eventually he won and convinced me we had to and I conceeded. Only to find out she GPS's our adress on the return lable and drives by our fucking house!!! She lives no where near us and had absolutly no buisness doing that! So i'm furious about this and it turns into Neill and I fighting again. We really rairly fight and now that i'm writing this i'm realizing the few big ones we have usually had something to do with D. So anyway i continue to play nice wife and say hello to her at the reception even though i am boiling inside and pictured stabbing her in the eye with her fork.

    This brings us to yesterday. Like i said i'm at the store all day, she is there for hours!! Fucking hours!! Who the fuck sits at a store for hours??? I just don't get it.
    Anyway her first comment is- "When i was pregnant i wore loose fitting shirts"...(I had a fitted t shirt on.) This comment is kind of out of no where. Then she looks up at Neill and says maybe you could wear some of his. RUDE fucking Rude! I kinda laugh it off and move away. Then later she has the fucking audacity to ask me how much weight i've gained. To which i told her that wasn't polite and people don't discuss things like that. She kindly informed me that i will loose it once the baby is born. Thanks D Fucking thanks!
    Then there is this tiny door you have to squeeze through to get into the store and we've always joked about me getting to pregnant to fit and it is getting tight. Well D tells me- Your not getting any smaller you wont be able to come visit soon.

    WHAT A FUCKING CUNT!!

    I hate her, she makes me see red I want to tell her off so bad and my husband won't let me. This morning i woke up and thought about her awfulness yesterday and told Neill I woke up this morning hating D. He says to me well you don't hate spending her money do you. I tell him I wouldn't take money from someone who disrespected you or me like that, and he says thats why he is the one who works. He gets all defensive when i say anything about her, and trust me I know he hates her too. But she spends a lot of money and he dosent want to loose that.
    I really hope she dies soon.
    My patience is running out.
    Eventually I will blow up all over her!
    /end rant



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    what's with the fitted shirt thing? it's not like you're fat and wearing something too small. pregnancy is a beautiful thing, i will bare my belly all the time when i'm pregnant! she is just a jealous old bag.

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    Ok, you need to talk to her, and so does your husband. Not in a rude manner, but something should be said. If she spends every weekend shopping there, then she is attached to the place, and to that experience. She won't stop coming in.

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    ^^ I was just thinking that.
    I need to pull her aside and as calmly and nicely as possible let her know that i am here to stay and i don't appreciate her comments.
    I'm trying to give her the benefit of the doubt and think maybe she just doesn't realize how rude she is. Neill said she has gotten a lot worse over the years and he thinks she is going loco.



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    your husband def. needs to have a talk with her. She is being unbearably rude to you and to him.
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    Well Hun welcome to world of the rich. I would not bother with her, just keep her buying jewerly. She knows how to get you upset, she takes joy in this it is a game. This is what most of these women do! You go to the country club they smile and be nice, and than try to destroy you! They are full of crazy plots. It is like a control issue. It is a the same game, but just a differant scene. You are going to met a lot of people who wish you harm. Your guy knows how to handle her. This is why they act a certain way with her.

    Just let this roll off your back. Like the water roll off the duck back! Belive me she is talking joy knowing she gets you furious, if she dont want you to know something she can hide it!
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    First of all, I'm at "getting your hate train rolling."

    Second, wear fitted shirts. It's very in style for women to show off their pregnant bellies.

    Last, stay far away from that woman while you are pregnant. Your hormones are raging and you don't need the stress.

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    leilani is right. she may think shes getting the best of you, but you're spending all her money shes using to buy jewelry. eff her.

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    OMG my blood started boiling just from reading that. I can't even believe she had the audacity to tell YOUR husband that you are "trapping him". Wtf?

    And for that GPS thing.....CREEPY. Did she know you saw her?

    If she continues to harass you, something needs to be said. Even if you were "just fat" and wearing something "too small", it doesn't matter. Nobody should ever comment on things like that IMO. I hope you go in next week in a bikini.

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    HAHA thanks cutie! She actually told them about the GPS thing and Nick told me. The NIGHT BEFORE our wedding reception. We had this huge blow up fight and were so mad at each other the next day making wedding reception morning very tense. (We ended up having a wonderful time but it was touch and go there for a bit)
    Apparently D thought it was my parents house, wtf buisness does she have scoping our my parents house?? UGH it really annoys me.
    Unfortunately i'm better off just not being at the store I think.
    I just hate how much it affects Neill and I's relationship that is otherwise blissful.

    I did like when Corgan said "she may think shes getting the best of you, but you're spending all her money shes using to buy jewelry. eff her."

    For some reason when my husband talks about me spending her money its offensive but I liked when Corgan said it. HAHA gotta love these hormones!!



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    She sounds like a jealous old rich bitch with nothing better to do. Try Leilani's advice and don't let it bother you. (I know, easier said than done, right?). When she says something obnoxious, just ignore it and say something sickeningly nice. Don't forget, if you do end up losing it and saying something rude right back to her, you can always blame it on pregnancy hormones and whatnot! Whereas she has no excuse (does being old really count as an excuse to be rude?).

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    She sounds horrible, but you aren't doing anyone any good by getting this worked up over her. And all your anger is bad for your baby. Try avoiding her as much as you can, for starters. And when you have to see her, breathe deeply and remind yourself that she hangs out at the jewelry store all day because she's old and lonely and she has no friends or anyone else who loves her. Instead of focusing on what a bitch she is, try to feel sorry for her, and remind yourself how blessed you are by comparison. This will make you a much happier person. Don't give her the power to make you miserable!

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    ^^ Yek and others you are absolutely right.
    She is a lonely sad woman.



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    I agree with everyone else that you should not let her get to you(I KNOW I KNOW easier said then done!)

    If she is only there one or two days...maybe make a point to go when she isnt likely to be there. Let your husband deal with her. Dont make your stress levels go up. There are 6 other days in the week you can go and be with him and NOT be hassled and upset by a bitter lonely old woman with nothing better to do then try to push your buttons. It isnt worth it.

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    Oh, NO WAY. I don't care if she spends enough for your husband to get a lamborghini. IF AND ONLY IF the store would close and you would starve without her business should you tolerate this. if your husband won't, you need to put that woman in her place. All of the stress she is causing is terrible for your baby. That should be your number one priority.

    The kid is developing right now and negative influences will affect your child for the rest of its life. You and your husband owe it to your child to minimize your stress level during this critical period.

    I don't care if its normal for rich old ladies to pull this crap. I don' t care if she buys a lot of jewelry. Your baby is more important than money

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    Quote Originally Posted by phillyvixen View Post
    She actually told them about the GPS thing and Nick told me.

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    Just make nice chat with her when you see her. If she makes a comment about how she wore baggy shirts and you wear these tight shirts, just look at her and smile and say, "Yeah, amazing how the times change..." and just let it go.

    With your raging hormones, it's no wonder you're getting up in arms over this. I think this old lady is lonely and bored and has nothing better to do. Although, I can say that some things that older ladies have said to me while pregnant wasn't to necessarily be rude, but pointing out differences in generations. And, you know, they did have to wear really baggy clothes...and their bathing suits started at the neck and ended mid thigh. That's what they're used to.

    I would just "kill her with kindness" and if you cannot do that, then just don't go to the store when she's there...or find something else to do while she's there.

    Having a talk with this lady isn't really going to change anything. Her getting you worked up isn't going to help anything. So, just don't deal with it. Move on. There's so much more you need to focus on besides this toxic old lady. Encourage her to spend her money and just move on.

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    I'm with the "don't let her get to you" girls. You have a great husband and a beautiful baby on the way, you're young, attractive, and living the good life. She's old, miserable, bitter, and gets her kicks hanging out with people who wouldn't be bothering with her at all if it weren't for her money. If she gets her jollies taking potshots at you while you're pregnant, all the more reason to feel sorry for her.

    You should be sweet as sugar to her so that she feels like an asshole for being so mean. Tell her rapturously all about how great your life is and how happy you are as though you are confiding in someone you can't imagine would be anything other than happy to hear this. If she gets nasty, just laugh and smile and say, "Oh, D, you're such a CHARACTER." I bet it shuts her down in no time.

    Also, don't think she won't know you're doing this on purpose to fuck with her... she will. She just won't be able to do anything about it.
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    Fuck the senile old broad!

    Some old women just get a jealous hate on for the loss of their own beauty and youth and get some satisfaction on us vibrant women.

    Take it with a grain of salt and just keep tellin yourself that your getting the last laugh....your spending her money and she obviously has a shine for your husband. Basically you probably have evrything she has ever wanted and never got. Thus making her a bitter old hag.

    If your gonna do anything, dont' push her down the stairs...push her towards the light...that way you know the old bitch ain't coming back!LOL!

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    Quote Originally Posted by phillyvixen View Post
    THEN he FORCES me to invite her to our wedding reception. Which i completly disagreed with and this totally caused tension in our relationship. But eventually he won and convinced me we had to and I conceeded. Only to find out she GPS's our adress on the return lable and drives by our fucking house!!! She lives no where near us and had absolutly no buisness doing that! So i'm furious about this and it turns into Neill and I fighting again. We really rairly fight and now that i'm writing this i'm realizing the few big ones we have usually had something to do with D. So anyway i continue to play nice wife and say hello to her at the reception even though i am boiling inside and pictured stabbing her in the eye with her fork.
    funny thing is, she looked SOOOO out of place at the reception. you could smell the hate oozing off of her. she's got a tramp-like vibe. it's weird.

    but yaya, you never told me about that! she was DRIVING by the house? whoaaaaaa holy stalker much (batman)?


    Anyway her first comment is- "When i was pregnant i wore loose fitting shirts"...(I had a fitted t shirt on.) This comment is kind of out of no where. Then she looks up at Neill and says maybe you could wear some of his. RUDE fucking Rude! I kinda laugh it off and move away. Then later she has the fucking audacity to ask me how much weight i've gained. To which i told her that wasn't polite and people don't discuss things like that. She kindly informed me that i will loose it once the baby is born. Thanks D Fucking thanks!
    Then there is this tiny door you have to squeeze through to get into the store and we've always joked about me getting to pregnant to fit and it is getting tight. Well D tells me- Your not getting any smaller you wont be able to come visit soon.

    WHAT A FUCKING CUNT!!
    yes, i concur. indubitably a beyotch.

    I really hope she dies soon.
    My patience is running out.

    Love it!

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    I would be careful...you're pregnant and she has your address? Be on your toes, Mama...
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    ^^ Yea unfortunatly i think she is probably harmless.
    At breakfast I told N I wish she would come back to our property, then i have an excuse to shoot her. You know self defense n stuff. hehe



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    What a dumb bitch.

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    Bleh. Gotta love the crazy geriatrics.

    Sorry you're having to go through this. I do like the "kill her with kindness" idea somebody said earlier, maybe try that if you're able to? If that doesn't work I'd probably just stay home on the day she comes in, out of sight out of mind!

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    I'd just think of her the way you'd think of somebody's crazy old great aunt who drinks all day and talks to ghosts, yanno? Everyone knows she's nuts. There's no point getting all worked up over it.



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