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    Default But I don't want to

    My ex from years ago always wants to see me when he visits my city. I agreed to see him like two years ago.

    He's visited a couple of times over the past several months still asking to see me. I don't understand why. We parted on good terms I guess. I moved to another city (after first moving in with the other guy I'd been dating).

    He's in town this weekend celebrating his birthday and I don't feel like heading out. It's cold. I'm not pining to see him. Last time I saw him I slept with him and it sucked. I'm not attracted to him anymore at all. He's a cool guy. Very cool in fact. But, I don't feel like seeing him this weekend.

    I turned off my cell phone. I know he's going to call. I have no good excuse. He gave me 2 weeks advanced notice that he'd be in town this weekend and that he really wants to see me.

    I just needed to vent. I guess it's ot too big of a deal but I don't know what to do. I don't feel like leaving my toasty apartment and my apartments a wreck so I'm not game for having company either.

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    Default Re: But I don't want to

    just dont answer when he calls. OR balls up and answer and tell him you dont feel like doing anything right now. he can't force you to see him, and you dont have to have an excuse.

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    Default Re: But I don't want to

    ^^^^^^
    Agreed!

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    Oh babe don't worry just ignore him and if he keeps bothering just tell him, sorry but I do not feel like going out.

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    Default Re: But I don't want to

    Quote Originally Posted by ahmeerah View Post
    He's visited a couple of times over the past several months still asking to see me. I don't understand why.

    Last time I saw him I slept with him
    I think your answer might be hidden in there somewhere...

    BTW - the fact that you quote me in your sig file makes you officially the coolest girl in the world. Ok, maybe not. Well, the coolest girl in my world anyway.

    Set up your boundaries and be honest with him. You can tell him that the past is the past and if he really is a cool guy, he'll take the hint.

    Best wishes,

    Stuart

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    Default Re: But I don't want to

    Thanks for the responses. I know it's no big deal. I just hate being mean. I was flaked via text. But I said I might stop by tomorrow. I don't understand why he wants to see me still. It may have been 3 years (not 2) since I actually slept with him.

    It seems like an ancient relationship.

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