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  • I am a woman and I have been raped

    75 29.64%
  • I am a man and I have been raped

    5 1.98%
  • I am a woman and I have been sexually assaulted/molested

    95 37.55%
  • I am a man and I have been sexually assaulted/molested

    8 3.16%
  • I am a woman and I have been a victim of attempted rape

    34 13.44%
  • I am a man and I have been a victim of attempted rape

    1 0.40%
  • I have never been raped, sexually assaulted, and have never been a victim of attempted rape.

    89 35.18%
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    Yes, I was 8.

    I didn't understand what it was, I thought they were being mean, they used to beat me up all the time, then this started. Noone believed me, when I came screaming into the house my parents would push be back out because i needed to toughen up. god my hands are shaking. i dont talk about this

    I still dont like guys, i have the hardest time with women because i cant be to aggressive becuase I get worried they might not be willing

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    I'm not going to point anyone out, but if you think we didn't do all we could for it not to happen, you are NUTS.
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    The polls shouldn't be that high....it makes me sad that many women have been assualted, molested, and raped

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    ^^^ why can't they be that high........there are alot of sick people out there both male and female!

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    I was one of the first to respond to the poll, but I couldn't bring myself to post about it at the time. Even after reading all of the posts that are SO MUCH WORSE than my experience, I am embarrassed about it. But, here it is.

    I was 12, and my mother and I were visiting at my grandfather's house, her father's. One of my cousins and his dad were visiting at the same time, and the adults would send us down to the basement to play while they visited upstairs.

    In the basement, there was a double bed, and somehow my cousin and I ended up in it. He did a lot of smooth talking, like "Let's pretend that I'm a girl, and that I've just got back from the war." So he got me to let him suck my dick, and he got me to suck his dick, and he wanted me to fuck him in the ass. But I just put the head in and didn't like it, so I took it out. Then he wanted to switch roles, but I wouldn't let him put it in my ass.

    The next day he was down in the basement with another cousin, a girl, and he wouldn't let me come in with them.

    For years, I wondered if I was gay. I sometimes still wonder if I was taken advantage of or a willing partner. He was my age, and no stronger than I was, but he was sure a smooth talker...

    Today, we've both moved hundreds of miles from our birthplaces and have ended up only about twenty miles apart. He moved there thirty years ago, and I've never once contacted him.

    I've never told anyone this until now. I don't think I could tell it to anyone who knows who I really am. It seems so trivial compared to what I've read in this thread from people I've come to think of as my dear friends, even though we all use fake screen names. I am so sorry for all you went through. I wish I could make it better for you.

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    He sounds coercive to me. I think you have to suss this out more before you will feel peace with it.
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    What makes my blood boil is that so many of these fuckers get away with it, then go on to rape even more.

    WHY?!!!!!????

    It's so fucked up. It pisses me off. I hope that somehow, some way, they experience the consequences of their actions. I hope karma finds a way to kick their asses so that then maybe they will learn what it means to love and respect.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sun child View Post
    I have definitely been in situations where I've been taken advantage of. Legally they were "rape" situations but I never pressed charges. My father molested me and I still can't tell if I just made it up in my head. It made my life really difficult.

    It's all really sad. It does help to be honest about it and not feel shame.
    Same here sun child. Except I think it was my stepfather not my biological dad. He was definitely sexually inappropriate which is enough to scar a young girl. Who knows what happened when I woke up to him standing over me in bed. I do know he raped his own daughter -when she was a BABY.


    I have been raped and taken advantage of in my adult life. Others have attempted to rape me - I thought this was pretty common for strippers, especially in high contact areas like the one I live in. I'm not trying to generalize or anything but I seriously thought this happened to all of us at one point in our careers. I'm glad to see it's not always the case.

    Luckily I don't have any shame about what happened to me. Just disgusting feelings, like wanting to take a wire brush to parts of my brain to remove the memories. Some negative life experiences are good for learning and others just should not happen EVER.

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    Yes alot of us strippers can be violated in high contact areas.......and it makes me very sad!

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    This is truly a heartwrenching thread. I had no idea that these tragedies are so common among us. And the crimes that happened against so many of you when you were young especially break my heart. I so remember the feeling of being a girl and becoming a sexual person and having men notice it before you even do. That feeling comes back to me all the time. It is just such a dirty feeling. I can remember strangers following me down streets and teachers being inappropriate and it is a confusing thing when you are young and have no sexual experience. I can't imagine the pain of going through what I've read about here and the events that come afterwards, the adults not believing or justice not being served, it just makes me so angry.

    I have never been raped, although twice I've avoided it by using the method of it won't be rape if I just stop saying no. I don't know. It's fucked up. And I totally feel for you women, I really do. I also hate feeling sorry for the rapists and aggressors out there because I know they were probably abused themselves and have all sorts of mental diseases. I don't believe they have excuses, I just wish we were a more perfect species.

    But I also am a glass full girl, so I want to end by saying take stock of your strengths and know that you aren't defined by those attacks, it isn't who you are, you own that experience and can put it behind you or forget it or keep it or whatever you want, but you are strong enough to handle it.
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    Does someone making you touch them and touching you and forcing you to kiss them count as rape or attempted rape? I guess attempted but it has the same emotionally traumatic effect as rape, at least in my opinion.

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    ^^ It's assault for damn sure.

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    Yes. Molested for 10 years (that I can remember).... by my own mother. As cold as it sounds, I can honestly say that the day she dies will be the HAPPIEST DAY OF MY LIFE.

    My mentally retarded male cousins friend *tried* to molest me at one point as well, but luckily I escaped him every time. Years later I found out he was regularly raping my cousin when he'd sleep over. My aunt knew about this and just looked the other way. My aunt and her sister were molested/raped by their grandfather, who also sexually assualted several of their older female relatives.

    When I was 10 or so, a creepy guy walked up to me in a toy store and started telling me in very explicit detail about how he molests his neice. This conversation lasted about 10 minutes or so. Then he just walked off. Definately one of the stranged experiances of my life.

    A few months later I was in line at McDonalds, and a little girl in front of me said out loud "daddy, are you going to have s-e-x with me again tonight?" Everyone in the room heard it, stood silent, and looked the other way.

    Several of my friends have been molested or raped as well:

    *Two girls I know, S and L, were being raped by their stepdad. Their stepmom blamed them for it and kicked them out of the house. They went to live with their dad, who was a cop. He couldn't do anything for them, so they both ran away. By ages 11 and 12, they were both homeless heroin junkies. That was 15 years ago. They're still homeless junkies.

    *K was being raped by her brother from the age of 5 on. She ran away at 13 and also became a street junkie. She od'd and was pronounced dead not once, but 3 times. By 16 she cleaned up and last I knew, was back in school : ).

    * And I know a LOT of girls who've gotten too drunk at parties and have had men forces themselves on them, no matter how many times they say no. One of my best friends would repeatedly get gang banged by her 'boyfriend' at the time, and his friends. She'd feel dirty about it the next day, yet kept trying to rationalise their actions.

    You hear about the stripper/sexual assualt cliche' a lot, and I always thought that was an exxageration made up by sex-negative people for the sake of cutting strippers down. But I'm shocked that so far, this pole shows more than 2/3 of people who voted have experianced some sexual violation. My heart goes out to all of you.

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    When I was 10 or so, a creepy guy walked up to me in a toy store and started telling me in very explicit detail about how he molests his neice. This conversation lasted about 10 minutes or so. Then he just walked off. Definately one of the stranged experiances of my life.

    A few months later I was in line at McDonalds, and a little girl in front of me said out loud "daddy, are you going to have s-e-x with me again tonight?" Everyone in the room heard it, stood silent, and looked the other way.
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    I wrote a poem about being raped but Im hesitant to share. It isn't very good.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dollyrocker View Post

    A few months later I was in line at McDonalds, and a little girl in front of me said out loud "daddy, are you going to have s-e-x with me again tonight?" Everyone in the room heard it, stood silent, and looked the other way.
    OMG! What IS the protocol for this sort of situation? Can you even call child services on a random person in a McDs?

    Sometimes it does seem like most of the people I know have been assaulted in some way. 2 of my friends from high school were raped or fought off rape by their brothers on repeated occasions. Both had little sisters and their parents did nothing.

    Another one was raped twice in her teens by acquaintances, parents blamed her when she wanted to press charges for the first (and she did, sucessfully, though he only got 2 years). She ended up on heroin for years, but cleaned up and has a awesome toddler and is working on finishing school.

    There were just... a lot.

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    Okey doke. I just wrote this poem about the rape thing.....sorry its super long.

    Do you remember that night?
    Nearly two years ago?
    If not, let me remind you.
    Because there's somethings you should know.

    You went to a party
    And had too much to drink.
    DId you think it was a good idea?
    Or did you just not think?

    When a young girl walked in ....
    And you tried to catch her eye.
    She'd come to pick up her friends, you see.
    So she just smiled and said goodbye.

    Do you remember her?
    You asked her to help you out.
    She agreed because she's like that.
    But no one heard her shout...

    When you led her to a dark garage.
    And slammed the heavy door.
    No one heard herh scream, you see.
    When you threw her to the floor.

    Is it coming back to you yet?
    I know it has been years.
    But does the screaming ring a bell?
    Or that young girl's helpless tears?

    If not, let me continue..
    With what happened behind that door.
    That girl's skin and clothing
    Were the least of what you tore.

    The world she had rebuilt
    Was the world you tore apart.
    But worst of all you crushed..
    An already broken heart.

    In your moment of power.
    Of course that didn't matter.
    But I bet if you'd been listening
    You could have heard that girl's world shatter.

    She'd long known pain and helplessness
    So that was nothing new.
    But she'd never felt her own soul breaking
    Until the night that she met you.

    When you'd gotten what you wanted
    You ran - so I guess you still don't know.
    The consequences this girl faced.
    As a result of your little show.

    You have no recollection
    Of that night she spent at home.
    Of hospitals or stitches.
    All of it - alone.

    And here's something you couldn't
    Possibly remember.
    You got the young girl pregnant.
    He would have been born in late December.

    So - How'd YOUR senior year go?
    Graduation, parties, prom?
    She spent hers trying to learn
    How to be a mom.

    Tha'ts not the plan God had for her
    His will came into action
    That girl got sick with a high fever.
    Miscarriage was the reaction.

    So know that you know this...
    How do you feel?
    Were you too drunk to remember?
    Because for her it's quite real.

    She know's you won't win, see
    Cause final judgement leaves no room for lies.
    She suffers now, you'll suffer then.
    But still at night she cries.

    For the world that she lives in.
    The fight still ahead.
    For the women she knows.
    Who have words left unsaid.

    She just thought you should know.
    And oh - by the way.
    If it matters to you.
    Your late son's name is Trey.

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    Pooka... That was a good poem! A very sad, good poem. You are awesome and brave, woman.

    This thread makes me cry but it's also a little healing, you know?

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    I know what you mean! And thanks.

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    Pooka, I you. That was such a sad, beautiful poem.

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    Fortunately, i've never been raped or ever had someone attempt to. Thank God.

    But i've had a few jackasses in the past grope me in such a disgusting way that has made me feel like i've been molested.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MinahSky View Post
    I'm not going to point anyone out, but if you think we didn't do all we could for it not to happen, you are NUTS.
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    I too voted first in the poll, but couldn't talk about it here - I've mentioned some of it before but not all of it. This probably still won't be all of it.

    My stepdad started out touching me while I was sleeping. He beat me - and I do mean beat me - during the day, so I was scared I lay there and pretended I was asleep. I was homeschooled, didn't have any friends, not allowed out without my mom and dad, and didn't know better.

    After a while, he wasn't satisfied with touching me - and he started forcing himself on me. Nightly. I fought back a total of once - he informed me if he couldn't get it from me he'd get it from my baby sister. That was enough. I lay back and let him.

    My mom walked in on it once when I was twelve and freaked out, screaming at me, yelling at me for "taking her man" and "trying to take her place". She didn't beleive me - or couldn't - when I told her I didn't want it. At that point he got worse, cause now he knew she wouldn't do anything. I found out later he'd been telling her for a few months that I was coming on to him and he was resisting me.

    At his hands I suffered my way through enemas, rape in every way possible, even a gangbang he set up with some people he met on a child porn site.

    I'm infertile, thanks to three miscarriages before I was fifteen (without medical treatment) and a fireplace poker inserted too roughly and too far. I went through a lot of self injury and an eating disorder that still pops its ugly head up now and then.

    I've gone from a victim to a survivor though. I am having fewer and fewer flashbacks and I sleep more and more soundly. I'm currently trying to find a good phoenix because I want it tattooed on me.

    Some days are great. Other days are awful. Either way, I'm still alive and that says something.

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    I don't know how you do it. I'd have killed each and every one of these fuckers if they had done that to me. I am left with such fury that there isn't even a word for it in English, after reading things like that. How dare...fuck. I don't have the words.


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    I'd have killed each and every one of these fuckers if they had done that to me.
    It is easy to say that, and yes, I wish death on most of these people, men like Cherrysin's stepdad, but they did what they could in the situation, and it isn't a fault to have not acted differently.
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