View Poll Results: Are You A Clean Dancer?

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    What percentage of dancers at your club are clean dancers? '
    I'm beginning to wonder if I'm an idiot for even being in the club as a clean dancer.
    Am I alone?

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    Default Re: Tell The Truth!!!

    If someone's not a clean dancer, I don't think they're going to be honest on here since it's not an anonymous poll.

    There have been times I've slipped up and did things I shouldn't have (allowed guys to touch me in no-touch clubs or kissed a good looking customer, mostly while drunk ), but I can honestly say I've never done blow jobs, sex, etc. at work.






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    Default Re: Tell The Truth!!!

    The poll IS anonymous.
    The question is how many girls at your club are clean dancers.
    You don't have to include yourself.

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    Here in Australia if someone isn't a clean dancer it isn't so "in your face". Plus you have to define what "clean" means to you?

    To me it means that the dancer is following the rules set down by the club as to how and what can be done in re table/podium as well as lap dances. That's clean.

    Thus allowing touching in Melbourne CBD clubs isn't "clean" whereas allowing touching on the Gold Coast is the norm. Thus I would be regarded as a dirty dancer to some Melbourne girls due to working in an environment where touching is allowed. Yet again here on the Coast whilst touching is allowed, it's strictly no mouth contact thus if a dancer started kissing customers she is dirty.


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    I consider myself to always be a clean dancer because i never jeopardized my high standards, and my standards never broke any law




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    Quote Originally Posted by tmlsuperspice View Post
    The question is how many girls at your club are clean dancers.
    You don't have to include yourself.
    What? The poll asks specifically about you, not other dancers. I'm confused.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tmlsuperspice View Post
    The poll IS anonymous.
    The question is how many girls at your club are clean dancers.
    You don't have to include yourself.
    the poll question: Are You A Clean Dancer?
    your message question: What percentage of dancers at your club are clean dancers? '

    i clicked on results and i saw everyone's answer. it's not anonymous.

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    You might want to start a new poll where the answers are anonymous. I'd also suggest a category for "I'm clean the majority of the time, but have made a few mistakes" or something like that.

    And if you want to hear about other dancers in the voters club, that's also another poll entirely.

    One problem in having a discussion in this manner is that it's all so relative, as we know from the many many threads about extras and what's considered one. Defining "clean" and "dirty" becomes a real challenge. In an airdance club, simple one-way contact grinding would be an extra, and yet in most clubs in Houston, just for example, if you only do one-way contact you'd be considered a total prude, at least by the customers. And there's all kinds of variations between. Know what I mean?
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    i'm always a clean dancer. and that's not bullshitting because it's public or whatever. i have never once gotten drunk at work and done something like make out with a customer or let them touch me or anything. i am a total fucking princess, even when i'm drunk.

    still, i'm not going to get up on my moral high horse. whilst i may never have done anything that would classify as 'not clean' with a customer, i have in the past been one of those 'coked out meth heads' that we all hate so much. so yeah, i'm absolutely always a clean dancer 100% of the time, but i used to get totally drug fucked at work.

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    clean means different things. clean in an air dance club and clean in a full grind club would be nowhere near the same.

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    What qualifies as clean? At my club, for instance, 2 way contact is the norm. Sometimes, after a guy bought enough dances, I'd conform to the norm. Does that make me an "unclean" dancer? I'd never do extras in a million years. And if any two-way contact occurs, it's not on any of my "naughty bits."

    Every club has a different definition of 'clean' and unclean.' This is where it gets confusing.

    And yeah...I want an anonymous poll as well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by britt244 View Post
    clean means different things. clean in an air dance club and clean in a full grind club would be nowhere near the same.
    Great minds, Britt!

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    Quote Originally Posted by beautiful. View Post
    What? The poll asks specifically about you, not other dancers. I'm confused.
    yeah i only answered for myself.

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    I apologize.
    I didn't know that the poll would list those who answered.

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    It's a decent thread idea, I can't really answer for the other girls at my club though because there are only 1 or 2 publicly known extras girls. The rest (if there are any) seem to be pretty sneaky. Maybe just restart the thread and make the options different for girls who work in air dance clubs and in lapdance clubs?

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    LOL okay look, I'm the one who answered 'Sometimes'.

    Sometimes I cheat and grind a little. Or let a man cop a feel on my boob. Or pat his crotch with my foot. I'm not exchanging fluid or giving handjobs or letting men suckle on parts of me, but I'd be such a liar if I said I was always playing by the game book.

    Also, I'd fit more in RoseWhite's suggested catergory: "I'm clean the majority of the time, but have made a few mistakes" as my going over the line is not something that happens even weekly, let alone too often.

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    but see, that's a standard lapdance where i live. that's not being dirty to me. ^

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    Quote Originally Posted by Helle View Post
    LOL okay look, I'm the one who answered 'Sometimes'.

    Sometimes I cheat and grind a little. Or let a man cop a feel on my boob. Or pat his crotch with my foot. I'm not exchanging fluid or giving handjobs or letting men suckle on parts of me, but I'd be such a liar if I said I was always playing by the game book.

    Also, I'd fit more in RoseWhite's suggested catergory: "I'm clean the majority of the time, but have made a few mistakes" as my going over the line is not something that happens even weekly, let alone too often.
    I don't let men touch my boobs, but I can understand that geographically the standards are different. However, even though I don't do some of the things you do, I don't think that what you do is dirty at all. I think being dirty is more along the lines of nipple sucking, fingering etc.

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    Yeah, like I said, I don't do the sucking (we wear pasties anyway) or fingering but I def. do some things the club would probably bitch at me for. And Corgan, yeah, I've worked places where we could do so much but... I guess I consider myself a semi-'dirty' dancer at my club because I do a few things that might be far enough over the line that I could get, theoretically, fired.

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    My standard is I would never do anything concidered illegal by the law. Cause I'm scared to death of getting arrrested.
    Although I do grind. Not sure if that would get me arrested or not. But I don't like, sit there and ride cock for the whole song.
    I don't allow boob touching, but one time a bachelor party offered $20 to allow the bachelor to lick my nipple once, and i let him. it wasn't sexual or during a dance, he just licked it once like an ice cream cone.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Corgan View Post
    but see, that's a standard lapdance where i live. that's not being dirty to me. ^
    yup. my club is full grinding, two way contact but they cant touch the crotch or boobs. theres another club in md that they CAN touch the boobs. so at my club, allowing boob grabbing would be an extra. at the other place, its normal.

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    To me, "clean" vs. "dirty" is a line in my mind more than anything the club enforces. Other than the one weird week I spent in a no-contact, full-nude in Boston with a strict six-foot rule, most of the clubs I've worked in haven't enforced rules particularly strictly. Technically, at the club where I work now, you have to have one foot on the floor at all times, so no lap-straddling. EVERYBODY at that club straddles laps. So we're all "dirty" dancers, but then again not really. I guess it's really always been up to me to decide what's clean and what's dirty.

    Certain things, like touching boobs or kitty, are obvious in my mind. Then there are gray areas. I've gone home feeling incredibly dirty when I let a customer I loathed kiss my neck and make out with my ear because he was throwing down a lot of money. Neck kissing (in moderation, nothing sloppy or slimy) from a customer I like doesn't phase me.

    Over time I've learned what's going to make me feel "dirty" afterwards and learned that it just isn't worth it if it's going to keep me up at night.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tmlsuperspice View Post
    What percentage of dancers at your club are clean dancers? '
    I'm beginning to wonder if I'm an idiot for even being in the club as a clean dancer.
    Am I alone?
    I can relate. At my first club, there were a lot of extras going on(handjobs, blowjobs, or snorting coke in the couchroom) and I wonder if maybe I missed out on sales because customers could tell by my innocent looks and behavior that I didn't do that kind of stuff. But you know what?...it's for the best that we stay clean. We avoid STDs, legal troubles, and gossip. We also get to keep our self respect of knowing that we're not whores! LOL.

    For most of the duration that I danced, I tried to behave as a Model Stripper. I was supercheerful, friendly, showed up to work on time, and I didn't do any dirty extras. I made a few friends out of customers and I exchanged numbers with maybe 1 of my best regulars(for work purposes only, so I could tell him my work schedule), but that's it.

    But later on when I was getting burned out on the whole dancing thing, I'll admit I started to stop caring about being "All-Professional Stripper" and I started to hang out with hot customers outside of work. I still kept clean at work and gave clean lapdances...but if I saw a hot young guy and we hit it off pretty well, I would exchange numbers with him and usually end up hanging out sometime later and banging him. This was NOT prostitution or anything like that...it was strictly recreation/social life. I met a lot of hot 20-somethings at my workplaces! I guess that doesn't count as an extra, it's just mixing social life with work...but sometimes I felt a little guilty about it though. Not that guilty though, if I kept doing it lol.

    I'll admit that even now as a shotgirl/server, I've met guys at work that I thought were hot and I hooked up with them afterwards. One of those guys was my manager's brother! LOL. At my workplace, my shagging the manager's brother is a funny joke and I even tease my manager about it, but only because I know he doesn't really care. (otherwise, I would keep my mouth shut! lol)

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    I'm no angel, but I have my limits. Clean/dirty are kinda relative to the club you work at, and what you personally feel is dirty. I'm mostly within boundaries of what's accepted in a club...... until a hot girl with too much money and good manners gets me carried away : P Even then, I'm just outside my usual limits, I'm not getting fingered, eating pussy, or vice-versa.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tmlsuperspice View Post
    What percentage of dancers at your club are clean dancers? '
    I'm beginning to wonder if I'm an idiot for even being in the club as a clean dancer.
    Am I alone?
    I'll be honest I do consider myself to be a clean dancer..but I'm not "sqeeky" clean. By saying that no, I'm not giving bj/hj/or letting a custy insert anything into my private parts. But I have let customers (few, high spenders) play and fondle with my boobies. I know some are gonna laugh and look at me as a prude..but hey that's about as risque as I'll get...








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