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    Damn these last few weeks have been hell but Im feeling much better today about all thats gone on.

    Physically Im not in much pain anymore and emotionally its getting better. The cars still all messed up but oh well.... try not to think about the baby bean and brought it up last night because i was thinking about how unfair it is but I can see it upsets B too so I try to just not think about it...

    Next week Im going to go back on the job hunt but will most likely head up to Reno for a weekend once Im all better because were broke and I need to suck it up and make some cash while Im looking for the F/T position.

    OK, so Ill update the wedding...

    We get to the courthouse - Bs wearing a blue pinstripe suit and Im wearing the dress MIL forced me to wear... its FREEZING. My parents show up then my sis in law and brother. Last to show up is MIL. Shes rushing about with bootneers (sp?) for everyone and a bouquet for me and a corsage for my daughter. And shes like in a whirlwind and my parents are just standing there watching the crazy lady. She brought with her her friend and friends husband (who neither me nor B know)

    We get to the marriage ceremony and uh, since theres no aisle walk no need for the bouquet. haha.. so my daughters holding that. And the vows were beautiful but when they get to the part "for richer or poorer" I said for richer, pause.... and richer" had to break the silence... everyone was sooo tense! And we get thru it and go to the car and theres writing all over it and little bells on the back... B says he almost skipped the 'for poorer' part too and we talked about how stuffy his mom made the little ceremony and how it was too long. Neither of us are very formal events but it was fun and cute.

    We get to MILs and all these people are there that neither of us know. Im still in pain and popping vics hourly.... had a few glasses of champagne... MIL is running around like a chicken with her head cut off and Im like SLOW DOWN KAY. Sit down for a minute! And Kay got Andre Champagne because she swears its the best but whatever.

    So we kinda mingled with people we know and I was too uncomforable and in pain to even deal with people I dont know which I felt kinda bad about but really, I mean, oh well.

    So we get to cutting the cake and opening cards. My parents gave us a singing card and $100 (woohoo phone bill) but B says when I opened the card my face dropped because they gave bro and sis in law $1,000 at their wedding but ya know.... theyve always favored him so whatever. We got another card from the people MIL works with and it had a GiftCard which we got a new comforter set with yesterday.

    OK but the BEST thing we got at the "reception" was a bottle of flavored oil for bread dipping. I swear to God. WTF is THAT?! hahaha... talk about regifting part of a gift. It didnt have little plates and stuff that usually go with dipping oils. It was just the bottle.

    So we left and went home and that was that. Bs so cute with his ring. Hes 40 and never worn a ring and had to take it off to make hamburgers last night and handed it to me to "keep safe". And he loves to call me his wife. Hell just walk around the house saying 'wife, wife, ive got a wife, oh! youre my wifey'

    Im happy and Bs happy and all thats happened these last couple of weeks have made us grow and see the future rather than the present. We were not financially ready for a baby and both wanted to be married before having one so were taking this as a life lesson. Im going to get settled in a stylist position and were going to pay down some debt. Were looking for homes to buy that we can easily afford rather than ones where wed be strapped for cash and hopefully will buy in about a year. Were not going to try for another baby but were not going to not try... just let nature take its course.

    OK, so thats my update. Thanks for all the support over the last week. Its meant a lot to me because I dont have a lot of people I can honestly just let it all out to and on here I feel comfortable doing that. Not only because its annonymous but because I know the girls here are real and honest and really do care even if they are thousands of miles away.

    Have a nice day all!

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    Congratulations!!!
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    You sound like you are handling this situation beautifully.

    Congratulations and stay strong.

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    Awww Audrey Leigh, I like your outlook on things! Things went off well for the most part, with some annoyances mixed in.....ahh a wedding reflecting real life, not such a bad thing. But that's fucked up they gave you $900 less.


    Glad you are feeling better, hopefully this time next week you will be pain free and congrats on being married!

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    Congratulations!






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    <3 i am glad you're happy! congrats!

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    congratulations!!!!

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    Congrats! Even though there were a few road bumps, I'm glad everything turned out good in the end. So how does it feel to be married?

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    Ah it feels the same except I have 2 rings instead of 1

    But dont you have to consumate to make the marriage real. Like isnt that grounds for annulment?! Poor hubby....

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    I just wanted to say congrats!!

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    Always stickin my ass out. Hahaahaha

    Us with my daughter


    With my Parents - Arent my shoes the BEST?!

    during the nuptuals

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    Audrey, the pics are beautiful!! You look wonderful and the family looks so happy!!

    Congrats, again!

    And, I agree...those shoes are great!

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    CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! You all look so beautiful and happy!!!! May your love and blessings stretch beyond the horizon and back again!!!!!
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    Congratulations!! Your pics are gorgeous!!

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    You look so beautiful...and what a gorgeous family you make!! Congrats!!

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    those pictures are beautiful, you look drop dead gorgeous!

    Sounds like things are getting good for you again!


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    I was editing more photos and realized how tall my 9 year old is! Im wearing 3" heels in those photos and Im almost 5'8"

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    Awww, what sweet pictures!

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    Beautiful pictures - and a beautiful thing to come out of what we know was an incredibly difficult time. Congratulations and hugs!
    "Before I conceived you, I wanted you. Before you were born, I loved you. Before you were here an hour, I would die for you. This is the miracle of life." -- Maureen Hawkins

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    Congrats on getting married and both you and your hubby look great together

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    You-all make such a cute couple and your daugher is adorable. You can just see her personality in the pics too.

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    Your husband looks super happy in those pictures. Congratulations!

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    Quote Originally Posted by AudreyLeigh View Post
    he loves to call me his wife. Hell just walk around the house saying 'wife, wife, ive got a wife, oh! youre my wifey'
    AWWWWWWW! That's sooooo cute and sweet and funny!

    Congratulations! You're pictures look great, you all look so happy and you're lovely as always

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    What beautiful pics! Congratulations, Audrey! (And I bet your 9 yr old's almost as tall as me-yikes!)

    And they are great shoes!

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