Hello all...
Have a dilemma here, hoping someone can relate....
First I want to say I did use the search, but was not satisfied with the results. I hope it's o.k. I am posting a thread unique to my situation.
I have been dancing for about 6 months now, and have been at the same club the whole time. I had the usual "newbie" drama (mainly speaking of being bullied), which has all blown over for the most part. All except for one person who STILL has it out for me. I have no idea why.....and it is getting really old. I get along with 99.9% of everyone at my club, management included. I am a nice person! I really have never given any one a good reason to dislike, or in this case, downright LOATHE me. I by no means am saying I am holier-than-thou, or the perfect employee, I mean I've had my nights where I got a little too tipsy, acted a little silly and whatnot, but I have never started fights/talked shit about other girls/caused major drama EVER.
With that said, I just don't understand why this person is out for my blood. I catch her staring at me like she's daydreaming about stabbing me to death or something. She will look for reasons to make rude comments to me and always makes sure that she gives me the "I want to kill you" eye every shift I work with her. She even sat and talked major shit (very vocally and visibly) during a feature preformance that I did. But through it all, I have kept my mouth shut, I have never said a word to her, until last week. The club was SUPER packed and I accidently bumped her (someone backed their chair into my butt right as she passed me) I said I was sorry, she stopped, pointed her finger at me and said something rude, which I couoldn't make out (it was really loud inside that night) I finally had it, I asked her what her problem was! She just responded by telling me to shut up and get out of her face.
I have sought advice on this from a few close friends (work and non-work) and everyone says the same thing. "She's just jealous of you" HA! I am not buying it! This girl has NO reason to be jealous of me. I think it's a ridiculous concept. She has one of the hottest bods at the club, and is actually really beautiful (physically at least), has alot of good customers and seems to always make great money. I always see her smiling (well, except when she's looking at me, haha) If she was just a miserable person and angry at the world, I would think she would be acting the way she does towards me to many other people, but that's not the case. I am singled out, as far as I know.
What makes it worse is when I tried to talk to management about it, they sided with her. They said she's a "real positive asset" to the club and they are sorry, but it's her word against mine. Even though, well, I haven't even done a f**king to deserve this. I'm not sure what they mean, I am guessing she blows me out of the water as far as how much money she makes for the club? I'm not a "top earner" but I don't exactly walk out of there with no $$ on a constant basis either. On the average, I do well, I sell a good amount of VIP time and do decent champagne sales (my club is big on us selling bottles)
I guess what I really want to know is if anyone has had a similar situation, how you handled it, the outcome, etc.
Thanx for reading!



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