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    Ok... so how did you gals learn the art of the lapdance? I've been dancing for 3 years now, and am so bored with my lapdance I think that is why I can't upsell. At the clubs I have worked it is very hard to watch the other girls to see what they do and get ideas.

    So how did you learn? Any websites you all might know about? And even when you did see stuff you wanted to copy, how did you practice? How funny would it be for me to flip upside down on some guy and bust his nose open. God I'd be horrified!
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    Default Re: Bored with Lapdances

    My first time was actually 9 months after I started dancing. I started at a tip only club - no contact or dances at all except for bachelor parties and that was only on the stage. So I got the basic moves from that and pretty much, listen to what guys like. I listen to any constructive criticism that a guy will tell me and sometimes I will peek over to see what the other girls are doing. I think just listening to the guy and trying to give him a lot of attention during the dance, like eye contact helps me the most.

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    Oh... I should probably add that at one club I work at I'm giving lapdances to guys in a simple chair... no arms on the chair... nothing to step on. Just the very basic setup.

    The other club is full couches.
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    I watched the girls who were selling the most lapdances, of course! I found that they moved slowly, made a lot of eye contact, and moved very deliberately and beautifully, so that's what I emulated. I mean, that won't work if everyone loves booty clapping non-stop at your club, but try to see how the girls who sell the most move there.

    And you need to feel like you are giving a great dance, that you are hot as hell, and that it is just awesome sexy fun for the customer to watch you/feel your touch. Gotta believe in the product to sell it, and without confidence we have nothing.

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    I just have to say I wanna pinch baby girls little cheekies! Shes soooo cute!

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    Quote Originally Posted by velour1141 View Post
    Oh... I should probably add that at one club I work at I'm giving lapdances to guys in a simple chair... no arms on the chair... nothing to step on. Just the very basic setup.

    The other club is full couches.
    can you put another chair in front of you for balance? thats what we do at my club.

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    ITA with what Susan said. Until they start acting major douche, I give them a dance like it's my first one.....I just can't go into work if I'm not feeling it. Visualize that it's yr man, that helps. Pretend like he deserves it? Lol. I've read on here that some girls "blackout" during a dance.....that's not a good mentality to have imo. Also if you are bored during a song, try breaking the song up in yr head "okay I'm gonna dance with my ass out until it gets to this part of the song, then I'm gonna turn around @ this part" etc.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alaska View Post
    Also if you are bored during a song, try breaking the song up in yr head "okay I'm gonna dance with my ass out until it gets to this part of the song, then I'm gonna turn around @ this part" etc.
    That's what I do! Sometimes it is a little boring or the guy is the sort that wants to say creepy stuff, but I'll sing to myself or make faces at the other girls, if I know them.

    to the OP-I have totally kicked guys and stuff-don't be too afraid to try new stuff. Though I don't flip over, because I don't trust A. my balance and B. the custie! But I am short, even on some couches, so I tend to 'scale' the custies like Mt. Everest. A few knees have been harmed.

    It's easier when it's a whole couch, because then you can treat them like furniture, and lay all over them sexily. Chairs are harder. Lean your legs all up on them in different (sexy) ways? Body slides? If the floor isn't gross (yeah, right!), do some of your dance on your knees? Just to break it up a little.

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    Basic chair without arms is tough. Could you put one foot beside him and the other on the back of the chair without falling? That's always been a popular move. Other than that and doing a handstand in front of him I can't really think of much else.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AudreyLeigh View Post
    I just have to say I wanna pinch baby girls little cheekies! Shes soooo cute!

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    Thank you so much AudreyLeigh... she is just two months old now... an absolute doll in my opinion... but I am her mother so I have a little bias... LOL.
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    There are other little things you can do to like running you nails on the back of the head, or breathe into the ear. Try to see what the custy is enjoying. I hate when the guys are completely unresponsive and don't get into it. Like they could care less that you are dancing for them but they buy a couple dances.

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    I do dances in a chair too, but it has arms, but I think mostly I'm not using them much anyway.....I keep one foot on the floor, spread his legs out grind just a lil with my thigh at some points, arms around his neck, scratch the back of his neck if he's not greasy, turn around, take 10 seconds to go from standing up to that hands-by-your-ankles stretch, sit on his lap backwards, wait for a part in the song,turn around slowly with breasts in his face....you get the picture.

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    Default Re: Bored with Lapdances

    I get bored with lapdancing too. If you need ideas maybe you could go to a club and get lapdances from other girls. Its kinda fun too.

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    Default Re: Bored with Lapdances

    I learned to do the flip with a regular. I knew if I hurt him he wouldn't really care and he enjoyed getting to "help me learn"
    I don't normally do it now though because I'm kind of a big girl and I get all self-conscious. Only on request.






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    Quote Originally Posted by LuckyOne View Post
    I get bored with lapdancing too. If you need ideas maybe you could go to a club and get lapdances from other girls. Its kinda fun too.
    Yes! I do this too. I visit a friend of mine who banks and she not only makes me super horny but teaches me new moves.

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