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    hey everyone my last visit to the club I found a dancer that was very good looking and fun to be around. She gave me her phone number so I could call and let her know when I would be coming back. Well, my issue is this, I have a very close friend who will be getting married soon and we were planning a batchlorette party for her and we wanted to hire a female stripper because her fiancee would freak if it were a guy. So the dancer from the bar popped in my mind to hire her. So i texted her and asked if she did private shows and it seems as though I offended her but had no intention to do so. Would any of you ladies be offended if you were asked about performing in private shows? I would assume not but I wanted a dancers thoughts on it.

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    What exactly did she say or do that led you to believe she was offended?

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    Depending on how you asked, she may have assumed that a "private show" meant seeing her outside of the club for sex. I know it's the 21st century and all but texting is not always an efficient way to ask a question...
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    yeah, when people ask me about private shows, i say no 100% of the time. the only way i'd do it is if it was through people i knew.

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    when someone asks if i do private shows, i assume they want sex. i know not all guys do, but it's a safety precaution to make sure that i don't get raped or abducted or worse.

    try calling her and explaining to her over the phone that it's a bachelor party.

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    Quote Originally Posted by alisha101 View Post
    when someone asks if i do private shows, i assume they want sex. i know not all guys do, but it's a safety precaution to make sure that i don't get raped or abducted or worse.

    try calling her and explaining to her over the phone that it's a bachelor party.

    The OP actually said a bachelorette party which presumably reduces the risks of the dangers you mentioned. But I agree that a brief text message could be problematic.

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    Hmmm i don't know. Maybe she is not into PP's or bachelorette (pretty much the same thing imho). Maybe had a bad experience. Maybe wants to keep it in the club, and see you outside as friends at times...could be anything

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    Quote Originally Posted by FBR View Post
    The OP actually said a bachelorette party which presumably reduces the risks of the dangers you mentioned. But I agree that a brief text message could be problematic.

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    he didnt say that in the text, though, i dont think. saying a private show can be interpreted differently than if he said a bachelorette party.

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    Maybe she would have responded the same way to a request to drink a cup of coffee with you; maybe should would have ignored you if you asked her if she was working Tuesday night. Maybe her grandmother just died.

    If you're curious, you just need to ask her. Because, sadly, the networked telepathic collective of Stripperweb just doesn't work that way.
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    This is an old thread. But for sake of contributing to the collective body of knowledge about strippers and stripper ettiquette:

    When someone says "private party" or "private show" or "private dancing," I don't think "bachelorette party." I think "half an hour of awkward foreplay in a cheap motel room followed by some method of penetration." And I say no.

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    ^ what? no its not...

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    You're right. For some reason I distinctly thought I saw "July" in the dateline. I must be hallucinating. Carry on.

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    Refer to:

    The Drunk thread

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    Quote Originally Posted by starz View Post
    hey everyone my last visit to the club I found a dancer that was very good looking and fun to be around. She gave me her phone number so I could call and let her know when I would be coming back. Well, my issue is this, I have a very close friend who will be getting married soon and we were planning a batchlorette party for her and we wanted to hire a female stripper because her fiancee would freak if it were a guy. So the dancer from the bar popped in my mind to hire her. So i texted her and asked if she did private shows and it seems as though I offended her but had no intention to do so. Would any of you ladies be offended if you were asked about performing in private shows? I would assume not but I wanted a dancers thoughts on it.
    Some thoughts.....

    (a) Most dancers get any number of requests to see them outside of the club - some blunt and some indirect. And a good many don't have any intent of seeing someone OTC. Your dancer may be in this category.

    (b) The phone number was to get you to spend on her *in* the club. She may not have appreciated you using it for another purpose.

    (c) Private parties can involve stronger shows than the clubs - toys for example. It could be that doing PP's is outside of her comfort levels.

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    (d) Never forget that to a dancer it's work and you're a *customer*. No matter how well you got on while she was working, she'll almost certainly think of you as a customer, not as a friend.

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    Your best bet would probably have been to talk to her at the club - less possibility of misunderstandings than using a text message.

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    Thanks for all the input guys. I guess I messed up but the dancer has been knowing me for about 6 months and knows that I always come with my girlfriend of 5 years. I hate that she may have thought I wanted sex or something because its nothing like that, actually she is so hiliarious is why my gf and I like her. O well, guess Ive learned another lesson about strip clubs now.

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