So. My lover from last summer just called to tell me that her husband died.
Should I go down there to be there for her? Or would it just be innapropriate and weird to have a summer lover around when your husband just died? He was "okay" with it, but also at least a little jealous. Also, I think at least one of her sons might have known and not been happy about it (there's 4 or 5?) and I don't want to cause them any extra upset-ness or add to any of the general chaos.
I also know that she doesn't have much of a support system down there and isn't very good at dealing with her emotions or taking care of herself. OTOH she has a tendency to get way more attatched to me than I want, so maybe I should just avoid that.
What do you guys think? If your husband dropped dead, would you want your summer fling to be there or to send flowers?




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