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    Angry Oh fuck, I met someone I shouldn't have

    I met someone that works in my department from school at the club tonight. Because I am a fucking idiot, and wanted to sell a stupid dance, I told him my real name in passing, then through a stupid joke I made about school (which you would only understand if you knew the department) we discovered our real life connection. We agreed to never acknowledge each other if we see each other again outside the club, and then the DJ was super nice and didn't put me back onstage when I asked him (and told him what happened).

    So I feel like a fucking moron for the real name thing (i always use my fake real name, Raquel) it is my own damn fault. it makes me bummed that I kind of stick out at school cause my look is different. I feel really vulnerable because according to my scholarship, I am not supposed to have jobs that "interfere" with school, the terms are really unspecific. But that is the crux of the matter.



    WTF, I literally worked around the friggin corner from my old school and never saw anyone in there. Major bummer.


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    I, Sunnie, acknowledge the fact that I am a complete moron. I wish I could blame my idiocy on being drunk, but I can't fall back on that crutch. I acted, in a word, like a moron.
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    Don't beat yourself up too much about this hun. At least you and the guy agreed not to acknowledge each other outside of the club and from what you've said it seems as though he wants this too. Most likely this guy won't acknowledge you again and won't tell anybody either and you won't have to worry about it.

    At least this will make sure you a lot more cautious not to disclose your identity again when it may be somebody who will actually make a big deal about it. Hope it all works out

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    You may find he has his own reasons for keeping it quiet.

    Married and not telling his wife he's going to SC's for example.

    Or holding down a senior job at your school and not wanting it to be known that he visits SC's cos it's bad for his image.

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    I'm in nursing school and I pretty much did the same thing you did when a guy came in that works in the nursing department for my college, but a different campus. Our nursing program and their nursing program graduate together so I will see him again at graduation. He was cool though and I haven't experienced any repercussions, don't sweat it

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    I wouldn't worry about it too much. It sounds like this guy isn't going to go around spreading this information about you. Unless he's a total douchebag, I don't see why he'd go around broadcasting this information to others. And as long as you behave scholarly/professionally OTC (ie: not like the stereotypical stripper trash), no one would really have reason to suspect you.

    Don't worry, we've all done dumb things or said things we really shouldn't have. Don't beat yourself up over it.

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    Default Re: Oh fuck, I met someone I shouldn't have

    The way i see it, he was there you are there. Cool deal.

    Maybe he will come in more often now to see you.

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    I'm surprised you succumbed to the pressure to sell a dance. it always annoys the hell out of me when a guy asks me my real name. If they act like they don't want my business unless they get to pry shit that's none of their business out of me, I walk.

    other girls use fake "real names." I don't even bother. I just lie and say it's my real name or tell them that the club is a fantasy, take it or leave it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by fancygirl View Post
    I'm surprised you succumbed to the pressure to sell a dance. it always annoys the hell out of me when a guy asks me my real name. If they act like they don't want my business unless they get to pry shit that's none of their business out of me, I walk.

    other girls use fake "real names." I don't even bother. I just lie and say it's my real name or tell them that the club is a fantasy, take it or leave it.
    His real name was very close to my real name, I thought it would be good to work with that. What can I say...it was a tough night. I regret it tremendously. Lessons learned the hard way stick, right?
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    ^^^ I've done stupid stuff too, I was just surprised. But then again, I'm really anal about my family name and other dancers and staff don't get it.

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