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    Default Hustling 101 for Newbies?!

    Hi! It seems like there would already be a thread on this, so please correct me if I'm wrong, but I did a few searches and couldn't find it. Anyway, I thought this would be a great idea.

    I'm not exactly a newb, but I've only worked in 1 club and it's a "no hustle environment." Well, I'm ready to branch out and try out on of those big hustle clubs. Thing is, I have NO idea what I'm doing. I never approach anyone and ask them for a dance. So, I was wondering if we could start a collection of the most basic tips for someone who is hustling for the first time. Good opening lines, best way to ask for (or suggest) a dance, etc.

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    Default Re: Hustling 101 for Newbies?!

    The only three things that come to mind right off are
    1. Follow the two song rule, then move on
    2. Smile, look like you're the life of the party
    3. Shorter intros like, Hi I'm so and so, and I'm ready to play!! (OR you look like you're ready for some fun - think you can handle the heat?) Shorter lines said confidently, along with a wink, arm-touch, slutty lip-bite (got the lip-bite thing from another thread, and it's been a very successful tip for me).

    Oh and another thing that I picked up from another thread was to pitch VIP to EVERYONE you get a dance from, sometimes you can tell them that if they'd like to continue the fun upstairs (or wherever VIP is in your club), then you won't charge them for the one table dance/ lap dance.

    Hope this helps --- you're gonna rock, chick!
    "Whether you believe you can or can't, either way, you are right." --- Henry Ford



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    1. Compliments are great conversation starters.
    2. So is thanking someone for tips. Go back to people who have tipped you onstage because this is a sign of interest.
    3. Approach people from the front- they are much less defensive when they can see you coming.
    4. Wear clothing that accentuates your feminine features like the curve of your breast or bare shoulders.
    5. Make eye contact onstage.

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    Good ones, Lucky! I need to remember the straight on approach, it totally makes sense! Unfortunately, there are a lot of people that, for whatever reason, don't go up to the stage to tip. So when you're making eye contact at the stage, scan the crowd to see WHO'S LOOKING AT YOU! Even if you just catch their gaze for a second (if you can slide in a quick wink, or blow a kiss if you're feeling bold, you practically sold yourself a lap dance from across the room).
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    Wow! Great thread! Keep em' coming ladies!! lol

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    Default Re: Hustling 101 for Newbies?!

    Quote Originally Posted by Amber_Sparxx View Post
    Good ones, Lucky! I need to remember the straight on approach, it totally makes sense! Unfortunately, there are a lot of people that, for whatever reason, don't go up to the stage to tip. So when you're making eye contact at the stage, scan the crowd to see WHO'S LOOKING AT YOU! Even if you just catch their gaze for a second (if you can slide in a quick wink, or blow a kiss if you're feeling bold, you practically sold yourself a lap dance from across the room).
    So true. I usually go up to the ones that tipped me on stage first, and unless I end up getting busy then I'll make my way to the ones who didn't tip, but I saw checking me out and giving me the "look".
    It so funny, how some guys only tip on stage and don't get dances, and some never tip on stage and only get dances. I have been turned down by every guy that tipped me on stage only to get one (or many more) from a guy that just eyed me from the back of the room.

    It pays to ask everyone!

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    top of the page. my thread. it's a sticky for a reason, it's great for newbs and experts alike.

    Love it!

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    Smile at every single person you see. Even the other dancers, so if custys see you smiling it looks like your happy and having a good time. Plus being friendly to people will boost your confidence. Oh, and pretend that every guy you make eye contact with is super hot.well, YOU don't have to pretend, but make the guy think that you think he's sexy.

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    The whole point is to create the illusion that you aren't there to just make money (but make lots of it) Once you can do that, you're set.

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    Default Re: Hustling 101 for Newbies?!

    The following thread was very, very helpful for me (and I am by no means a newbie!):

    http://tinyurl.com/yrg2dz

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    Good tips I gotta say!

    ~Sade

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    At the end of a dance always ask "Do you want another?" even if you think they definately don't, sometimes they surprise you. Also, try and say it in a way that encourages another dance like, "You want another don't you." As this is much harder to say no to.



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