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    So tonight was the worst night I have ever had. I left with 40 fucking dollars; enough for gas and cigarettes!! I am so pissed (and actually a little worried). I usually make good money every night I work, granted some nights are better than others, but I would never have imagined this happening! I have no idea what was up with the club tonight, but there were literally about 20 customers the entire night. Everyone made barely any thing, except for these two sisters who basically use their head to grind the guys cock for the entire lap dance. These bitches made a ton!! They got like 4 or 5 dances from each customer! I am worried that this is going to continue to be the case, once word gets out about those two...all the guys will want dances from them and the rest of us will be up shit's creek. ughhh. I am also the kind of person who sits on her ass and gives up when the night is very slow for the first 4 hours or so...
    Any advice on how to still make money when there are dirty girls stealing all the custies?

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    Quote Originally Posted by meggie18xox View Post
    I am also the kind of person who sits on her ass and gives up when the night is very slow for the first 4 hours or so...
    You said it. You told us your problem. Now fix it. It isn't as hard as you may think to realise that it takes PATIENCE to make money.

    That and skills. Go to Hustle Hut. Find something new to try to use each week (not each night, each week) until you find what works for you.

    Who cares what those two are doing. Seriously. You are concentrating on them too much that you are missing your own faults.


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    Quote Originally Posted by meggie18xox View Post
    o I am also the kind of person who sits on her ass and gives up when the night is very slow for the first 4 hours or so...
    And this is what I count on from 1/2 the girls on my shift. Well, theres 60 girls on the shift but 1/2 are downstairs or sitting around bitching about no money. Makes it easier for me to make money. You answered your own question.

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    where are you located, meggie?

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    Quote Originally Posted by AudreyLeigh View Post
    And this is what I count on from 1/2 the girls on my shift. Well, theres 60 girls on the shift but 1/2 are downstairs or sitting around bitching about no money. Makes it easier for me to make money. You answered your own question.
    Exactly! And the air of negativity can make it difficult to want to get off your ass and work, but just getting out of the dressing room or away from the bar can really help. When I'm not feeling it, I remind myself, it only takes ONE guy. Seriously. If you don't get a single tip onstage or a single dance from anyone, and some guy walks in and you charm the wallet off of him. You could break the grand club just from him. Ya know?

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    Quote Originally Posted by AudreyLeigh View Post
    And this is what I count on from 1/2 the girls on my shift. Well, theres 60 girls on the shift but 1/2 are downstairs or sitting around bitching about no money. Makes it easier for me to make money. You answered your own question.
    yup. im one of the top girls at my club. why? because i work for it. sure, i take breaks and i get frustrated, but i might go sit upstairs for a while and come right back down and keep going.

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    ^^ its ALWAYS ONE when I break a grand. It may not ALL be from him but majority is OR I make good money from one guy, mood is super great and end up banking the rest of the night...

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    ^That's exactly what I'm talking about!

    I think I'd be really tired if I made a grand doing one dance per every customer!

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    Everyone has bad nights. I wouldn't worry about it unless this becomes a pattern. Seriously, I've had nights weeks where one night I made two grand and the next night I left like 60 bucks in the hole. It's the nature of the industry.

    You also have to remember not all guys want the dirty girls, not all guys want extras. So get up and sit and talk to guys, you're at work anyway, I doubt it is any more amusing to sit there by yourself anyway right?

    Just my two cents
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    ^ haha, off topic, but my money is always made off lap dances only! we dont do half hours or anything at my club.

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    I'm going to take a slightly different tack here, and point out that in a lot of areas guys are really starting to get cheap in terms of their 'discretionary spending'. Winter heating bills are starting to roll in, Christmas shopping is costing a lot, filling up the SUV for the weekly commute costs $50-$100 a week more than it did a year ago, the boss says that the company's profits are down so don't expect a big Christmas bonus, a whopping property tax bill just arrived, their monthly ARM mortgage payment just went up $400 etc.

    With no pay raise, and with more money being spent on 'necessities', this leaves less money for 'discretionary spending' ... which obviously includes lap dances and VIP's. So in many cities, in order for dancers to convince financially strapped customers to spend money on private dances and VIP's that really SHOULD be spent on more necessary items, those dancers have to offer something 'extra' that is worth enough additional 'enjoyment' to the customer that he'll risk being late on his mortgage or car payment, will risk borrowing money from his wife in order to buy enough gas to commute to work for the rest of the week etc. in order to pay for it. 'Clean' dances do not usually provide this level of 'enjoyment'.

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    I dont know if I agree with that. Its a $30 cover and drinks start ar $10 each at my club. If you dont have the money to spend dont go to the club at all.

    And she already said she sits on her ass for the first 4 hours. So she really cant complain too much... Its all about making and closing the sale. If youre not even TRYING to sell of course youre going to make nothing. I dont blame the economy because theres always ups and downs in the industry. Many things impact the amount of money you make and the MAIN one is your attitude.

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    ^I wish my club was like that. Stop the losers who aren't going to spend money right at the door. But at a club like mine, where cover is $4, and during Happy Hour we've got 75 cent beer and wells... we get lots of guys looking for a 'free show'. But that's the whole town. We're not fancy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AudreyLeigh View Post
    I dont know if I agree with that. Its a $30 cover and drinks start ar $10 each at my club. If you dont have the money to spend dont go to the club at all.

    And she already said she sits on her ass for the first 4 hours. So she really cant complain too much... Its all about making and closing the sale. If youre not even TRYING to sell of course youre going to make nothing. I dont blame the economy because theres always ups and downs in the industry. Many things impact the amount of money you make and the MAIN one is your attitude.
    no, she tries for the first 4 hours (when it most likely IS slow) and then gives up. thats even worse!!

    thats how my club is. its $20 to get in.. if you dont have any money for lap dances why are you paying to get in?

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    ^I bet that makes it so easy to sell dances. They're all obviously in the market for paid entertainment. And they all have money. I'm jealous.

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    Quote Originally Posted by britt244 View Post
    no, she tries for the first 4 hours (when it most likely IS slow) and then gives up. thats even worse!!

    thats how my club is. its $20 to get in.. if you dont have any money for lap dances why are you paying to get in?
    Ooops, yea even worse. Were ALWAYS slow until 1-2am and night shift starts at 8pm (altho I go in between 10-11)

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    ^ same here! we start to pick up around 11. so the first 3-4 hours, depending on the night, are slow. if i gave up i'd always leave with barely anything!

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    Quote Originally Posted by PrettyCurlieQ View Post
    ^I bet that makes it so easy to sell dances. They're all obviously in the market for paid entertainment. And they all have money. I'm jealous.
    nooooot always. a lot of them dont buy dances, or say later later later. other guys are a piece of cake to sell to though. its a lap dance factory. 'hi, wanna dance?' works pretty well here, lol. we're also a full grinding club, and its outside dc kinda. its the only club around that has lap dances.

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    ^^ me too!!!! AND lots of girls use early outs and leave around 2-3am. I tend to make ALL my money between 3-5am. End of night, theyre drunk, oh yea.... I wish I could just go into work at 1am...

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    ^Holy crap how late do you work? My club closes at 2am, and the only stripclub open later than that closes at 3am during the week and 4-5 on the weekend.

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    the way our club does it, on weekends depending how busy and how many girls are sellingdances, sometime between 2:15-3ish(weekdays, around 1:30), they call last dancer on stage. girls are allowed to leave then. and a lot DO! anyone who stays is staying for lap dances only, and they cant sit around and talk. they have to buy dances if theyre still there. soem girls just leave as soon as they can instead of staying and potentially making more money!

    (we dont sell alcohol so we can stay open as long as we want)

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    We open at noon and close around 5-6am (depending on how busy it is)... I work 10/11pm - close. Sometimes I go in early (8pm) but I rarely leave early so Id work til 6am.... so thats a 10 hr shift.

    This is Nevada - 24 hr liquor license

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    ^ooooohhhhh yeah. Texas liquor laws suck ass. TABC (Texas Alcoholic Beverage Commission) are a bigger deal than vice. They are the ones who control the laws regarding nudity and anything to do with sexually oriented business or anyone selling alcohol. They don't even care when cops come in, but the owners freak out when TABC comes to visit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PrettyCurlieQ View Post
    ^I wish my club was like that. Stop the losers who aren't going to spend money right at the door. But at a club like mine, where cover is $4, and during Happy Hour we've got 75 cent beer and wells... we get lots of guys looking for a 'free show'. But that's the whole town. We're not fancy.
    Ahhh! Me too! Some nights you could be a homeless person and still afford to at least get into my club and have one beer...oh and maybe even EAT (10 cent wings, 50 cent pizzas, 25 cent tacos, 2 dollar steaks) Not saying that homeless people have come in, my point is that it's possible. There are so many guys that come in there with just enough money to get in, have one beer maybe some food, then sit at the table and watch all night. We do have a two drink minimum, but they count tap water as a drink (which I think is silly)

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    My last club was a full bar with no cover to get in. Regular priced drinks (pretty cheap IMO) and was topless... so I know how ya feel.

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