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    Default Finding love in a strip club?

    Greetings,

    Forgive me if this is a dumb or naive question:
    Is there any dancer out there that has fallen in love with someone they met in the club? (how did it happen, how did things work out for you)

    Thank you in advance for taking the time to reply

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    *Looks around, yawns, and waits for the fun to begin*

    I've TOTALLY fallen in love with somebody I met in a SC. I simply adore my boyfriend. His name is Cash. Yep, Cash. On occasion I will hang out with my other boyfriend ATM, but Cash and I go waaaaaaaaay back. He's my #1

    Yeah..........there are stickys at the top of this forum AND a search function. Have fun with those. I'm not doing the work for you, so get to it.

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    ^^^OMFG You know Cash too!!motherfucker is cheating on me!!!But yeah I totally fall in love like everytime until you know the song is over and stuff I guess I just get infactuated.

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    Default Re: Finding love in a strip club?

    Ouch !

    I think I just got my first SW 'dressing down'.
    Still...thanks for taking the time anyways Gingerlee.

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    Default Re: Finding love in a strip club?

    i am actually pretty sure that some girls here have met their husbands in strip clubs.

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    You guys are hilarious :-)

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    It's behind the couch.
    People are not ruled by their memories.

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    Default Re: Finding love in a strip club?

    There are dancers on here who have met their boyfriends and husbands in strip clubs. I mean, lot of people meet their significant others at work.Still, that's a handful of cases. Any individual customer's chances of finding love with a stripper are pretty darn low.

    I occasionally crush on customers, but it's really brief...I have a boyfriend so I'm not going to go out with them. As soon as they start asking me, that's the end of the crush.

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    Default Re: Finding love in a strip club?

    thank you Grace, Britt244
    From all I've read on this site, it is certainly a rarity. But I've noticed that people find love in the strangest, most outrageous places or cicumstances. It's against all odds, and this is what makes it very interesting when it happens.

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    ^ thats true for anyone. those girls are finding people at work just like anyone else would find people at work. or in a bar. or wherever else.

    strippers are people too, yanno.

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    Put it this way..its possible unless you go in looking for it. If you make that your prime objective...never gonna happen.

    Just go and be entertained. Period.

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    Default Re: Finding love in a strip club?

    Why is it always the same question over and over again?

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    This guy isn't nearly as bad as 'Corry'. I highly recommend that thread for its entertainment value.
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    Default Re: Finding love in a strip club?

    Quote Originally Posted by Brendita View Post
    Why is it always the same question over and over again?
    That's how these dingle brains get a rise out of you. Sort of the same way telemarketers do.

    Quote Originally Posted by gingerlee View Post
    I've TOTALLY fallen in love with somebody I met in a SC. I simply adore my boyfriend. His name is Cash. Yep, Cash. On occasion I will hang out with my other boyfriend ATM, but Cash and I go waaaaaaaaay back. He's my #1
    GL is totally lying. Her BF's name is Benjamin. I've met him on occasion. Dusty old fart I have to admit, but he did show me some cool shit about electricity once.


    Come to think of it, Ben dates quite a few dancers.
    Former SCJ now in rehab.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Brendita View Post
    Why is it always the same question over and over again?
    I'm a hopeless romantic. Oh yeah, and lets not forget: "Boys are Stupid"


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    Quote Originally Posted by doc-catfish View Post
    That's how these dingle brains get a rise out of you. Sort of the same way telemarketers do.
    I may be misunderstanding your comment, but it seems quite unkind.
    Seriously, is my question so disrespectful or boring? It seems to me that stories about people falling in love are wonderful, positive things...not negative at all.

    I mean no harm to anyone.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hockeybobby View Post
    Seriously, is my question so disrespectful or boring?
    Any question is disrespectful and boring when its been asked 18 billion times, mostly by people who are only asking it to get their jollies off on the responses and know full and well the question is a subject of annoyance.

    I mean, if you're really that "dumb or naive", my apologies, but in true honestly, you haven't said anything to differentiate yourself from the other 17,999,999,999 guys who have asked this question in one form or another.

    I mean I could ask you to do a search for your answer, but what would be the point? That isn't the one you want to hear anyway.
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    Default Re: Finding love in a strip club?

    It's behind the couch.
    And with all the Coney Island whitefish back there, I'm not reaching for it.
    Idealism is fine, but as it approaches reality, the costs become prohibitive.

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    I've fallen in love with Benjamin Franklin many times, moron.
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    I like them large and cut. Sort of like strawberries.

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    Default Re: Finding love in a strip club?

    Jeez....tough crowd.

    I'm in waaaaaaay over my head here. Moron? Gettin' my jollies?

    Holy crap :-)

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    Quote Originally Posted by hockeybobby View Post
    Jeez....tough crowd.

    I'm in waaaaaaay over my head here. Moron? Gettin' my jollies?

    Holy crap :-)
    Thats why its usually better to observe and search before jumping blindly into the pack.

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    Default Re: Finding love in a strip club?

    On very rare occasions, a dancer and customer have fallen in love, and even married.

    Love is not something you would go looking for in a strip club.

    However, sometimes, the customer will develop a crush on a dancer, and much less often, the dancer will develop a crush on a customer.

    These crushes are fleeting but add to the fun of going to the strip club.

    Why do you ask?

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    I met my husband in a strip club, he was the DJ.

    I do cheat on him though, with Gingers man!

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    To the OP.....

    It's a dancers stock in trade to give you the impression she likes you and might just meet you OTC (Outside The Club).

    99.999% of the time it's just a way of getting you to spend money on her. This is politely called her 'hustle' or less politely it's called SS (Stripper Sh*t).

    On very rare occassions a dancer genuinely likes a customer and starts seeing him outside of the club, but it's distinctly uncommon.

    As to the reaction you got, every few weeks/months a newbie customer posts on the lines of "I've met this really sweet dancer - how do I make her my gf?"

    It's a really predictable question, and you tend to get dancers queuing up with equally predictably sarcastic answers. Bit of a rite of passage really.

    And a final comment as you say you've only recently started going into SC's - the posts on here tend to be dancers talking about their jobs without any of the BS they dispense when working. Read their posts and you may find one or two of your illusions shattered.

    That said - welcome to Stripper Web.

    Phil.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hockeybobby View Post
    Curiosity....anxiety....hope.
    I'm not just new to this site, I'm new to going into a strip club too. I met a wonderful woman....and I've become very fond of her. We email each other regularly now, and though I've thought about it, I haven't asked her out...nor has she asked me out. I'm treading in unknown waters when it comes to strippers and their customers. But a boy and a girl are just a boy and a girl right?

    I didn't go into the place looking for love, but it's possible I've found it nevertheless, even if it is as you say in your examples, nothing more than a customer's crush on a dancer. Could I be satisfied with that? I think so...I hope so....I don't know.
    Some words of advice: This is probably just a crush (common in the strip clubs), don't confuse it with anything more than that, it'll fade eventually. The strip club environment intensifies the crush: the booze, the boobs, etc.

    Don't go to the strip club more than once per week to see this dancer, and only spend a certain amount of money when you go in (never spend more than $150 total). Don't go over your limit no matter what the dancer tells you. Before you leave your house to go to the strip club, put that set amount of money in your pocket and not a dime more.

    If you go more than once per week or spend outrageous amounts of money on one dancer, you may become obsessed with her. If this gets out of hand, stop going to that strip club and find another club to go to. If you don't see her for a few weeks, the crush will fade as fast as it developed.

    The dancer, more than likely, is just pretending to like you; it's part of her job description. They are like actresses; they are acting that way toward you so you'll spend more money on them (nothing wrong with that, though, it's how they make a living and it's part of the fun).

    Have fun, but stay disciplined.

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