This book is great. It's written by a woman who has done extensive fundraising for various causes and she renders money into this abstract concept that fulfills certain needs for personal happiness... and from that she explains how to make your money (its presence, absence, abundance, scarcity, etc) work for you in a positive relationship. Especially when one tends to get confused by massive amounts of money and direct it toward negative things (drugs, horrible boyfriends, overconsumption)... this book is very enlightening.