A forum that discusses strip clubs referred to here so I was just reading the posts.
I'm posting in here instead of the Hustle Hut since I'm a customer...anyhow, some of the things I see there are wrong, in my opinion. So here is my discourse -
First about me. Currently, my disposable income to spend at strip clubs is $250 a week - it has been $375 a week so far this year, but I am trying to sock some money away so it has been $250 a week for the past few weeks. Currently this is spent by a visit every two weeks to one girl at one club where I spend $500 each visit. I bathe, groom and dress nicely. It is impossible to tell what a girl is thinking, but girls have told me I do not grope them like some customers do. Of course, some girls sometimes do things like take hold of my hands and put them on their breasts, in which case I know they do not mind that and so forth.
The first thing I will say regarding is - use common sense. One big thing is communication as to seeing someone I want to see again. The girl I currently dance with is making $1k a month for spending 3-4 hours with me that month. I know her schedule, and have her phone # - and she has my cell #. Of course you shouldn't hand your cell # right away to every customer - some girls might not want to give it at all to anyone, but the important thing is that he knows your schedule, and that if they are a little more regular, that there is some channel of communication if you're moving to another club or something.
Or here's another thing - a girl I know, who is my favorite at another club complains I dance with 1 or 2 girls before I dance with her. The question I have, how come these two girls always get to me before she does? A lot of times it seems girls are one of two extremes - you don't want to dance with them and they hassle you anyhow, or you want to dance with them but they seem completely indifferent to it, even as they complain how they're getting no dances.
Anyhow, let me look at the advice -
"if someone says maybe later, they might mean that. be sure to return and remember"
OK, but when I say this I never mean it. You might ask why I say this if I don't mean it - what should I say, the truth? "I don't think you are good looking and I will never dance with you, so don't ever bother asking again" I should also note looks are subjective - a lot of guys like blonde, blue-eyed girls with big breasts, but I have never been into that all-American type.
"never sit alone looking bored. ever. it turns people off from you. if you are sitting alone, get up and walk, or go talk to a bouncer, or dj, or something"
I completely disagree with this. I have never asked a girl talking to a bouncer or DJ for a dance, I have stood up and walked over to a girl sitting alone and asked for a dance.
I see a few girls agreeing with this and I think you have it completely wrong. Here is how I see things from my perspective -
I walk into a new place. The first thing I want to do is make sure I see (almost) everyone who is working. I wouldn't want to dance with anyone until I did this - unless they're completely drop-dead gorgeous. Anyhow, do that experiment yourself, think of everyone working on the shift and see how long it takes to sit there and get a good look at everyone who is dancing on that shift. So this takes anywhere from 20-45 minutes. I would also advise - don't run up to a customer and ask for a dance - walk slowly, why not? If a girl walks slowly over towards me and asks, I am more likely to say yes then if she struts over quickly. Also - walk around. I might wait until the second time you walk by to say something. If you don't like being rejected you don't have to say anything - just walk by slowly and smile when passing by. Another thing is - sometimes girls seem to approach in groups. One asks for a dance, then two seconds later another, and two seconds later another. I never say yes if that happens, unless I know them.
A lot of girls seem unaware of how to just walk slowly around the club once in a while. If you're walking quickly, maybe you're going to the dressing room, or stage, or VIP room, or to a customer. If you're walking slowly it's obvious that's not so. I don't get this don't sit alone thing - like I really give a damn and am thinking about it. The girls who endlessly hassle me for a dance when I repeatedly say no are the ones who bother me - not the ones sitting by themselves.


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