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    The one thing I want to point out here is that paying for dates is not the same as paying for sex. It doesn't matter to most women what amount you spend on the date, as long as it is mutually enjoyable. In theory you could have a FREE date by cooking for her at your house, or taking a walk in the park. In fact, these things are more likely to get you laid because they are romantic and not focused on other things like movies, concerts or expensive dining.
    It is not the price of the activity that holds importance, but the intention, creativity and shared chemistry that will ultimately lead to whether or not sexual relations take place.
    It does matter, however to a prostitute how much you spend. Pretty much down to the penny. And the details and location are very important. It's also a guarantee you will get the end result you're looking for. Not always the case with dating.

    Also, it is untrue to say that a woman doesn't need to "wait" before she has sex with a man. Many women actually have this thing where they like to get to know someone because they may be (*gasp!*) interested in MORE THAN sex. Some women like to get to know their sexual partners because they want to get tested for STDs before committing to sexual activity, and they may even be interested in a relationship and want to make sure they're not fucking some lunatic! Wow. Pretty mind-blowing, huh?

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    Did you just feel like reposting something months old from this site?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Susan Wayward View Post
    Did you steal this directly from or did they rip it off from someone else?
    So it IS a troll! Good eye, Susan!

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    I was going to make a comment, but Alexxa summed it up nicely..

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    Actually on further review I don't think it's necessarily a troll but at minimum the same dude . . . I mean, I was thinking it was copyright violation of some sort because it was a fucking essay and not a post.

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    Oh goody, spared us the bother of picking the post apart piece by piece. Although you started us off right proper, Alexxa.


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    From Sumguy:

    I've never spent money on a woman before having sex. Pay for your stuff, she pays for hers. Or alternate who pays for stuff. If a woman you just met expects you to pay for all of her things, then find a better one.


    Now, I'm not materialistic at all. But, ummmm.....He sounds like a real catch,eh? I'm sure the reason that he doesn't spend any money is because he is busy taking his dates for romantic walks on the beach or cooking up a nice candlelight dinner.

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    I like the first answer to the post on the other page. Think that guy is single? hehehehe

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    haha ^^^^ great minds think alike!

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    Viet Cong, that seems to be a very one-sided view of females and dating. Paying for sex and paying for dates are two very different things. Sure, some women are materialistic and are interested in guys for the money they have, however this is not true of the majority of women. In my opinion, I date guys who I am interested in. As I can only truly comment on myself, I can say that when I am dating guys the amount of money they spend on a date doesn't bother me. Honestly it is the thought the guy has put into the date and the guy himself that counts. Completely different to prostitution.

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    ^^^^Here here! I don't really understand dudes like you because the point isn't the money--it's the connection that's made and the guy's fitness level for my life. I've devoured a guy on the first date because he was that bangin'! Another I have to hear out and get to know--and THEN devour him if he's bangin. LOL
    BUT if we're not clicking--nothin' doin. I went out with a guy recently who was cute and fun and felt like my BUDDY! I wanted to feel a tingle but -- nothin'! So it's not the same AT ALL!
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    i agree with the OP. And i am a female and i am in a relationship.

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    I hate how asshole men nowadays refer to us as "females". A dog can be a female. My cat is a female. I am a woman. I have an identity, not that they'd be all that interested in finding it because I'm a cunt to these wannabe alpha types. The grossest thing about being a stripper is actually having to talk to men like this.

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    Im sorry - I dont think dating for 4 weeks and then having sex is prostitution. But maybe thats me.

    My thoughts are prostitution - neither parties are emotionally involved. Its just physical. Sex for money.

    With dating at least one if not both parties are emotionally involved. Its dating and emotionally connecting before physically connecting. And these dates do not have to be expensive or even cost money.

    My favorite date with my husband was spending the weekend in is buddies cabin. It cost nothing. Actually - we had sex on our first date. He spent nothing. So there!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Susan Wayward View Post
    Did you just feel like reposting something months old from ?
    Word! I've always seen Trolls and wanted to know what it would be like to be one................Just playing.

    So some of you are aware of the other forum, nice. I be that author and it will be very interesting to sea what professional dancers think of this.


    Now, we are taught to dance around certain subjects and actions in society and paint a rosy picture about everything. The fact is that desireable women are not going to be having instant sex with dudes who take the bus and don't show a potential for high income. Most of you will speak on a minority of females who have integrity. But that is not the case for the majority.

    What if 2 people make a date and when the bill arrives at the restaurant, the man waits for the woman to pay? Are you all going to say that she'll pay with no problems? Are you all going to say that she'll find him to be charming and an equal oppourtunist? No. You'll more be thinking about how he's cheap and inconsiderate. But it's amazing how it's never inconsiderate for the woman not to pay. The point is that if the man were to do that, she will lose any interest in him and move on to another guy.

    Now as many of you are dancers for money, you don't need to know the guy before getting into his lap for a performance, correct? That means you're Natuarlly able to get physical with any type of man, without an emotional connection first. The fact is that no woman Naturally needs to spend 3-4 dates with a man before getting sexual. Most women do it because it's financially rewarding and amazingly easy to do. Men cannot control their sex drive as well as women can, thus they will do almost anything she wants, in order to get the ultimate sexual goal. Dating is basically a nicer word for prostitution, by defintion of what events transpire -30-
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    ^^ LOL. Financially rewarding?! Were going $1000 into the red each month. So Id have to disagree with your logic. And I DID pay for quite a bit of stuff with my guy. So, hmmm... altho it does make sense, it doesnt work in my life.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AudreyLeigh View Post
    Im sorry - I dont think dating for 4 weeks and then having sex is prostitution. But maybe thats me.

    My thoughts are prostitution - neither parties are emotionally involved. Its just physical. Sex for money.

    With dating at least one if not both parties are emotionally involved. Its dating and emotionally connecting before physically connecting. And these dates do not have to be expensive or even cost money.

    My favorite date with my husband was spending the weekend in is buddies cabin. It cost nothing. Actually - we had sex on our first date. He spent nothing. So there!
    1. No female needs more than 10 minutes with a guy before she can be sexual. If her favorite celebrity was in town for one day only and she had a chance to be sexual with him, she'd do it. She would tell him that she needs a date to get to know him. That means biologically, she doesn't need an EMO connection before she would be sexually charged.

    The point is that most women purposely make the man spend money on her before sex, because she knows that's what he wants. That is the same as money before sex, that's prostitution.

    2. Men never need an EMO connection before sex. Neither do women. If that were true, how do street prostitutes have sex with men they've only known for 5 minutes? How do strippers give lap dances to fat guys with minutes of seeing him? Girls were taught from an early age to surpress feelings and thoughts of sex, so as to seem proper and eligant. That's why so many people want to paint women as needing a connection before she can get sexual.....foolishness.

    3. You had sex on the first date with your husband, tell us that you paid for the date, or that it was a date that involved no money whatsoever. I say that he paid for that date. I say that you would not have had sex with him, had he met you out of nowhere and straight up asked to have sex right away.

    A stripper (good-looking) can go up to any random man, say she wants sex and he'll be good to go. A woman seeing a guy that's attractive can do the same thing, but she was taught by society that she'll be considered a hoe if she does. So she makes him jump through hoops, pay for dates and buy her stuff etc and then society says she won't be a hoe -30-
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    Quote Originally Posted by AudreyLeigh View Post
    ^^ LOL. Financially rewarding?! Were going $1000 into the red each month. So Id have to disagree with your logic. And I DID pay for quite a bit of stuff with my guy. So, hmmm... altho it does make sense, it doesnt work in my life.
    U Laughing?
    So a girl is at the mall looking at shoes, a guy comes up and gets her number. They set up a date and it's a day filled with him buying her dinner and flowers and driving her around town in, a car that needs fuel that isn't free. The girl got all that and spent nothing and you don't think she gained financially? She gained large. She got all that stuff at 0 cost, she gained.

    You paid for some stuff, but you can honestly tell me that you think 90% of woman are like you. They aren't, you're the minority. Flower shops (for example) are not profitable because of women, it's because of men buying for women -30-
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    1. I guess but to me celebrities are just people and I wouldnt f*ck one just because I saw him on tv. Believe me Ive met plenty of celebrities and didnt try to do em.

    2. You took what I said out of context. But I can see what you want to do is prove your point and disprove everything else.

    3. I paid for the room.

    And I am a good looking stripper and Ill guarantee not EVERY SINGLE GUY I go up to in the club or out of it will have sex with me if I ask. And yea, Im a slut.

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    This thread would have been retarded 50 years ago, let alone now. Closed.
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